War in Syria: newlyweds fled Aleppo for Abu Dhabi after home was hit by air strike

Marking 10 years since the conflict broke out in Syria, 'The National' interviews families who sought a safer life in the Emirates

Abdullah Nasser, 30, vividly remembers the day when an air strike reduced his family home in Aleppo to rubble.

In the summer of 2014, the journalist and his family went to spend the night at his sister’s home.

“I was on vacation from university in Damascus and went to visit my family in Aleppo."

He describes the situation as being a lucky one for him and his family.

“We went to my sister’s house for a sleepover – just to hang out.

“It was June or July, and a battle broke out in our neighbourhood. It was a catastrophe."

One by one, the buildings in the area began to collapse.

People dig in the rubble in an ongoing search for survivors at a site hit previously by an airstrike in the rebel-held Tariq al-Bab neighborhood of Aleppo, Syria, September 26, 2016. REUTERS/Abdalrhman Ismail/File Photo

“The neighbours told us we were lucky not to have been there. They kept escaping from building to building.”

This week marks 10 years since pro-democracy demonstrations began in Syria.

Inspired by similar events in the region, citizens were calling for reforms and took to the streets. In retaliation, the government of President Bashar Al Assad responded with deadly force, igniting further demands for change and ultimately leading to a civil war which still drags on.

As the situation worsened, the death toll mounted. More than 500,000 people are now believed to be dead or missing.

The UN children's agency Unicef reported that 12,000 children have been killed or wounded during the conflict.

Abdullah Nasser, a Syrian journalist who moved to the UAE because of the war at home, says he hopes to go back permanently one day. Victor Besa / The National

On top of the destruction of his home and most of his belongings, Mr Nasser said his biggest loss was his family memories.

“The problem with losing a house is not about what you have in the house. The saddest moment is to remember that you have lost all your photo albums and memories. This is really hard for anyone.”

After the incident, his mother rented a house in Aleppo. His siblings, who were all married, already lived in their own houses.

Mr Nasser returned to his studies in Damascus, but continued to visit Aleppo regularly.

“During my last three visits, I knew that I would be moving out of Syria soon and I wanted to capture every memory,” he said.

“So I kept taking photos of random buildings and people – just strangers doing their own thing.”

Mr Nasser finally made the decision to leave Syria just as he was due to marry his fiancé.

The economic situation was bad, and he could not see himself raising a family there, he said.

Four days after the ceremony he moved with his wife, Kenda Ali, to the UAE on February 1, 2020.

Although he frequently travelled to Europe for media workshops, Mr Nasser said his preference was to move to the Emirates.

“I’ve been to the Netherlands and France, but the added value in the UAE is that you have a better opportunity to work.

"As an Arab multimedia journalist, it is not easy to find a job when you travel far from the Arab region.”

Even so, it was not easy for Mr Nasser to find a job in the UAE either.

He spent three months in Dubai searching for work, before moving to the capital where his sister-in-law lives.

“I started networking and making friends, sending my resume here and there, until I found this job.”

Mr Nasser now works as a graphic designer at a media production company.

Everyday sounds can remind him of the trauma back home.

Sitting at the cafe outside his office in Abu Dhabi's Twofour54 complex, he paused and smiled every time a plane flew over.

“For a Syrian person, all these aircraft and jets moving around sounds so familiar to me and my Syrian friends,” he said.

“We used to hear this sound a lot in Syria. Not from normal airplanes though, from fighter jets.”

Mr Nasser would like to go back to visit as soon as possible, especially after the birth of his first child two months ago – a girl named Taj.

“I plan to take my baby girl. We are working on her documents. My wife always tells me we must take her to see the family.”

Although Mr Nasser misses his family and friends at home, he said it would still be difficult to move his life back to Syria.

“Do I want to go back to Syria permanently? Yes – it is my country. I hope it gets better and I go back. I want to live in my country, my neighbourhood, with my friends.

"It wasn’t easy to say goodbye.”

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