Nostalgia increases as we age because of lived experiences, which act as triggers. Getty Images
Nostalgia increases as we age because of lived experiences, which act as triggers. Getty Images
Nostalgia increases as we age because of lived experiences, which act as triggers. Getty Images
Nostalgia increases as we age because of lived experiences, which act as triggers. Getty Images

How a healthy dose of nostalgia can combat loneliness and improve mental strength


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As the relentless onslaught of reboots and reimaginings across the entertainment, toy, fashion and technology sectors can attest, nostalgia is good for business. However, experts also believe it is good for balancing moods and combating loneliness.

“Nostalgia is often associated with triggers,” says Zuha Zubair, clinical psychologist at Thrive Wellbeing Centre. “This is why we get more nostalgic as we get older. The number of triggers we encounter increases significantly with age because of lived experiences. Milestone birthdays, loss of a loved one, the memory of a former relationship, a perfume, a childhood favourite food and music can serve as triggers to nostalgic memories.”

Sentimentality for the perceived “good old days” can have wide-reaching effects. The US Republican party’s “Make America Great Again” motto, for example, has divided a nation. But nostalgia can also bring people together, most notably in 2023 when Barbie tapped into a collective post-pandemic yearning for familiarity to make over a billion dollars at the box office.

It also explains the struggle fans faced when trying to buy tickets for the Oasis reunion tour announced last month.

So long as you are grounded in the truth, nostalgia can be a warm hug for the soul
Noona Nafousi,
life coach

“We look back to remember who we are, to find the threads that weave our lives together,” says Noona Nafousi, life coach and founder of Neo Noor. “The past is our anchor, our compass. So long as you are grounded in the truth, nostalgia can be like a warm hug for the soul. It brings joy, comfort and a reminder of the love and lessons that shaped us.”

What is nostalgia?

Objects aside, other triggers for nostalgia include music, food, fragrances and milestone events. Photo: Bruno / Pixabay
Objects aside, other triggers for nostalgia include music, food, fragrances and milestone events. Photo: Bruno / Pixabay

The term was coined in 1688 by Johannes Hofer, a Swiss medical student, while working on his thesis. Discovering that soldiers who moved from the Swiss Alps to the European plains struggled with anxiety, fever-like symptoms, and distress, he used the term “nostalgia” – from the Greek word for “homecoming” – to document their longing for home. Over the years it became a medical condition in the vein of melancholy.

“Today, we look at nostalgia as a psychological resource, a complex interaction of emotions, something that helps us understand human experiences so much better,” says Zubair. “With the latest research and studies, we have come to realise that nostalgia is not an illness. It is a safe space or an escape of sorts. It is a universal human experience to visit this safe space in times of misery and distress. It provides us with comfort, warmth and sweet memories of the past – and it also gives us motivation to keep moving towards our goals.”

How world events and personal experiences shape nostalgia

Nostalgia tends to peak in times of hardship and anxiety, whether on a local or global level. A 2021 study by MRC Data titled Covid-19: Tracking the Impact of the Entertainment Landscape, found that the pandemic fuelled a rise in comfort-seeking from the past among those as young as 13 up to those aged 34.

“During a time of unrest, it is common to turn to what is familiar to seek comfort. Across TV and music, more than half of consumers are seeking comfort in familiar, nostalgic content,” said the report, adding: “Teens utilise entertainment that will help them feel comforted or keep in contact with loved ones.”

Nostalgia can continuously solidify the answer to the question 'Who am I?'
Zuha Zubair,
clinical psychologist, Thrive Wellbeing Centre

Present and future uncertainty, exacerbated by global conflicts, the rising cost of living, climate change and the speed at which technology is changing our lives can lead us to think back to “simpler” times and moments from the past when we felt more content and secure.

“Nostalgic memories take us back to times when there was less responsibility, fewer emotional and physical challenges and more hope for the future,” says Zubair. “It is, indeed, human nature to look back at happier, easier, simpler times when subjected to hardships. So global conflict, arguments with loved ones, changes, moves and even leaving a job, can trigger positive nostalgic memories.”

The benefits of nostalgia

Experts are agreed that frequent forays into nostalgia can be good for mental health and sociability. In his book Past Forward, US psychologist Clay Routledge points to the notion of the collective past as a way of combating feelings of loneliness and isolation.

His findings echo those put forward in the 2008 study Counteracting Loneliness: On the Restorative Function of Nostalgia, which found that: “Loneliness reduced perceptions of social support but increased nostalgia. Nostalgia, in turn, increased perceptions of social support. Nostalgia is a psychological resource that protects and fosters mental health.”

Zubair explains: “Nostalgia improves self-esteem, creates clarity of self-concept, reminds us that we are highly social, enhances the meaning of life and gives us wisdom and motivation. Nostalgia serves so many functions, one of the most important being the supporting role to counteract feelings of sadness, hopelessness, anxiety, and loneliness. Another one is continuously solidifying the answer to the question “Who am I?”

Nafousi adds: “Yes, nostalgia often comes with rose-coloured glasses, but sometimes that is exactly what we need. It is about savouring the sweetness while staying tethered to reality.”

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Mercer, the investment consulting arm of US services company Marsh & McLennan, expects its wealth division to at least double its assets under management (AUM) in the Middle East as wealth in the region continues to grow despite economic headwinds, a company official said.

Mercer Wealth, which globally has $160 billion in AUM, plans to boost its AUM in the region to $2-$3bn in the next 2-3 years from the present $1bn, said Yasir AbuShaban, a Dubai-based principal with Mercer Wealth.

Within the next two to three years, we are looking at reaching $2 to $3 billion as a conservative estimate and we do see an opportunity to do so,” said Mr AbuShaban.

Mercer does not directly make investments, but allocates clients’ money they have discretion to, to professional asset managers. They also provide advice to clients.

“We have buying power. We can negotiate on their (client’s) behalf with asset managers to provide them lower fees than they otherwise would have to get on their own,” he added.

Mercer Wealth’s clients include sovereign wealth funds, family offices, and insurance companies among others.

From its office in Dubai, Mercer also looks after Africa, India and Turkey, where they also see opportunity for growth.

Wealth creation in Middle East and Africa (MEA) grew 8.5 per cent to $8.1 trillion last year from $7.5tn in 2015, higher than last year’s global average of 6 per cent and the second-highest growth in a region after Asia-Pacific which grew 9.9 per cent, according to consultancy Boston Consulting Group (BCG). In the region, where wealth grew just 1.9 per cent in 2015 compared with 2014, a pickup in oil prices has helped in wealth generation.

BCG is forecasting MEA wealth will rise to $12tn by 2021, growing at an annual average of 8 per cent.

Drivers of wealth generation in the region will be split evenly between new wealth creation and growth of performance of existing assets, according to BCG.

Another general trend in the region is clients’ looking for a comprehensive approach to investing, according to Mr AbuShaban.

“Institutional investors or some of the families are seeing a slowdown in the available capital they have to invest and in that sense they are looking at optimizing the way they manage their portfolios and making sure they are not investing haphazardly and different parts of their investment are working together,” said Mr AbuShaban.

Some clients also have a higher appetite for risk, given the low interest-rate environment that does not provide enough yield for some institutional investors. These clients are keen to invest in illiquid assets, such as private equity and infrastructure.

“What we have seen is a desire for higher returns in what has been a low-return environment specifically in various fixed income or bonds,” he said.

“In this environment, we have seen a de facto increase in the risk that clients are taking in things like illiquid investments, private equity investments, infrastructure and private debt, those kind of investments were higher illiquidity results in incrementally higher returns.”

The Abu Dhabi Investment Authority, one of the largest sovereign wealth funds, said in its 2016 report that has gradually increased its exposure in direct private equity and private credit transactions, mainly in Asian markets and especially in China and India. The authority’s private equity department focused on structured equities owing to “their defensive characteristics.”

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