My husband turned 40 a couple of weeks ago. To mark the occasion, I put together a series of video messages from friends and family. The end product was a collection of messages combining love, well wishes and humour. In all these clips, one particular point caught my attention. Most chose to record their messages in the presence of their children or pets. The children stood out for the natural ease they had in expressing love and affection. Both children and pets seemed to lend the adults a safe medium where words of love could freely flow. My own video was a series of loving messages to my husband written on cardboard. Writing, my safe medium, seemed to also permit an unreserved expression of love.
The ability to express love and affection is central to all aspects of our lives. What defines us as human beings is our basic need to form close bonds with others.
In my work with artists, housewives, executives and leaders, I often start with love and more precisely with reflecting on its manifestation within their lives. Attachment theory is an incredible work of psychology that can help us understand our reserves for both giving and receiving. It examines the nature of the bond developed between the parent and the child and how it influences adult development.
A secure bond is formed when a child experiences a peaceful environment while growing up with primary caregivers who are sensitive and responsive to the needs of the child.
Secure children grow into secure adults who are able to comfortably express love and enjoy healthy levels of intimacy while drawing healthy boundaries in their relationships with others.
Children who grow up in less peaceful environments witnessing parental conflict, domestic abuse, infidelity or the physical and emotional absence of care givers, often develop into insecure adults. They lead their lives carrying a level of avoidance or anxiety.
Anxious individuals are preoccupied with relationships and need constant reassurances that others love them. Data shows that 50 per cent of adults today are insecure.
How do we perceive love, trust, intimacy and affection? And how much are we genuinely prepared to question, challenge and ultimately shift unhealthy emotions, thoughts and behaviours?
As I pose some of these potentially difficult questions to some of my clients, the response is usually laden with scepticism.
Research points to the fact that securely attached adults are more satisfied in their relationships.
A 2011 study titled Adult Attachment Styles in the Workplace points to the fact that adults who have a pattern of insecure attachments are unable to develop the independence and grounding necessary to be effective leaders. They are also unable to nurture the trust needed to develop effective peer relationships and empowering work environments for their teams. They are also less able to effectively deal with stressful situations at work.
This touches everyone, including world leaders who need to construct effective relationships to solve world problems.
In his controversial work titled Wounded Leaders: British Elitism and the Entitlement Illusion, Nick Duffell examines the roots of emotional security among Britain’s ruling elite.
In his complex study, Duffell makes connections between the tradition of boarding education among Britain’s ruling political elite linking premature separation of the child from home and family to the failure of these children to develop into secure adults.
According to Duffell, such early emotional experiences and insecure attachments are linked to a perceived endemic of elitism, bullying and misogyny in the British political scene.
So can thoughtful love and secure attachments really heal the world? I, for one, will take my chances on it.
Rana Askoul is a writer in Dubai focusing on women and Middle East issues
On Twitter: @Ranaaskoul
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Nigel Farage told Reform's annual conference that the party will proscribe the Muslim Brotherhood if he becomes Prime Minister.
"We will stop dangerous organisations with links to terrorism operating in our country," he said. "Quite why we've been so gutless about this – both Labour and Conservative – I don't know.
“All across the Middle East, countries have banned and proscribed the Muslim Brotherhood as a dangerous organisation. We will do the very same.”
It is 10 years since a ground-breaking report into the Muslim Brotherhood by Sir John Jenkins.
Among the former diplomat's findings was an assessment that “the use of extreme violence in the pursuit of the perfect Islamic society” has “never been institutionally disowned” by the movement.
The prime minister at the time, David Cameron, who commissioned the report, said membership or association with the Muslim Brotherhood was a "possible indicator of extremism" but it would not be banned.
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Ten tax points to be aware of in 2026
1. Domestic VAT refund amendments: request your refund within five years
If a business does not apply for the refund on time, they lose their credit.
2. E-invoicing in the UAE
Businesses should continue preparing for the implementation of e-invoicing in the UAE, with 2026 a preparation and transition period ahead of phased mandatory adoption.
3. More tax audits
Tax authorities are increasingly using data already available across multiple filings to identify audit risks.
4. More beneficial VAT and excise tax penalty regime
Tax disputes are expected to become more frequent and more structured, with clearer administrative objection and appeal processes. The UAE has adopted a new penalty regime for VAT and excise disputes, which now mirrors the penalty regime for corporate tax.
5. Greater emphasis on statutory audit
There is a greater need for the accuracy of financial statements. The International Financial Reporting Standards standards need to be strictly adhered to and, as a result, the quality of the audits will need to increase.
6. Further transfer pricing enforcement
Transfer pricing enforcement, which refers to the practice of establishing prices for internal transactions between related entities, is expected to broaden in scope. The UAE will shortly open the possibility to negotiate advance pricing agreements, or essentially rulings for transfer pricing purposes.
7. Limited time periods for audits
Recent amendments also introduce a default five-year limitation period for tax audits and assessments, subject to specific statutory exceptions. While the standard audit and assessment period is five years, this may be extended to up to 15 years in cases involving fraud or tax evasion.
8. Pillar 2 implementation
Many multinational groups will begin to feel the practical effect of the Domestic Minimum Top-Up Tax (DMTT), the UAE's implementation of the OECD’s global minimum tax under Pillar 2. While the rules apply for financial years starting on or after January 1, 2025, it is 2026 that marks the transition to an operational phase.
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Mercer, the investment consulting arm of US services company Marsh & McLennan, expects its wealth division to at least double its assets under management (AUM) in the Middle East as wealth in the region continues to grow despite economic headwinds, a company official said.
Mercer Wealth, which globally has $160 billion in AUM, plans to boost its AUM in the region to $2-$3bn in the next 2-3 years from the present $1bn, said Yasir AbuShaban, a Dubai-based principal with Mercer Wealth.
“Within the next two to three years, we are looking at reaching $2 to $3 billion as a conservative estimate and we do see an opportunity to do so,” said Mr AbuShaban.
Mercer does not directly make investments, but allocates clients’ money they have discretion to, to professional asset managers. They also provide advice to clients.
“We have buying power. We can negotiate on their (client’s) behalf with asset managers to provide them lower fees than they otherwise would have to get on their own,” he added.
Mercer Wealth’s clients include sovereign wealth funds, family offices, and insurance companies among others.
From its office in Dubai, Mercer also looks after Africa, India and Turkey, where they also see opportunity for growth.
Wealth creation in Middle East and Africa (MEA) grew 8.5 per cent to $8.1 trillion last year from $7.5tn in 2015, higher than last year’s global average of 6 per cent and the second-highest growth in a region after Asia-Pacific which grew 9.9 per cent, according to consultancy Boston Consulting Group (BCG). In the region, where wealth grew just 1.9 per cent in 2015 compared with 2014, a pickup in oil prices has helped in wealth generation.
BCG is forecasting MEA wealth will rise to $12tn by 2021, growing at an annual average of 8 per cent.
Drivers of wealth generation in the region will be split evenly between new wealth creation and growth of performance of existing assets, according to BCG.
Another general trend in the region is clients’ looking for a comprehensive approach to investing, according to Mr AbuShaban.
“Institutional investors or some of the families are seeing a slowdown in the available capital they have to invest and in that sense they are looking at optimizing the way they manage their portfolios and making sure they are not investing haphazardly and different parts of their investment are working together,” said Mr AbuShaban.
Some clients also have a higher appetite for risk, given the low interest-rate environment that does not provide enough yield for some institutional investors. These clients are keen to invest in illiquid assets, such as private equity and infrastructure.
“What we have seen is a desire for higher returns in what has been a low-return environment specifically in various fixed income or bonds,” he said.
“In this environment, we have seen a de facto increase in the risk that clients are taking in things like illiquid investments, private equity investments, infrastructure and private debt, those kind of investments were higher illiquidity results in incrementally higher returns.”
The Abu Dhabi Investment Authority, one of the largest sovereign wealth funds, said in its 2016 report that has gradually increased its exposure in direct private equity and private credit transactions, mainly in Asian markets and especially in China and India. The authority’s private equity department focused on structured equities owing to “their defensive characteristics.”
Other acts on the Jazz Garden bill
Sharrie Williams
The American singer is hugely respected in blues circles due to her passionate vocals and songwriting. Born and raised in Michigan, Williams began recording and touring as a teenage gospel singer. Her career took off with the blues band The Wiseguys. Such was the acclaim of their live shows that they toured throughout Europe and in Africa. As a solo artist, Williams has also collaborated with the likes of the late Dizzy Gillespie, Van Morrison and Mavis Staples.
Lin Rountree
An accomplished smooth jazz artist who blends his chilled approach with R‘n’B. Trained at the Duke Ellington School of the Arts in Washington, DC, Rountree formed his own band in 2004. He has also recorded with the likes of Kem, Dwele and Conya Doss. He comes to Dubai on the back of his new single Pass The Groove, from his forthcoming 2018 album Stronger Still, which may follow his five previous solo albums in cracking the top 10 of the US jazz charts.
Anita Williams
Dubai-based singer Anita Williams will open the night with a set of covers and swing, jazz and blues standards that made her an in-demand singer across the emirate. The Irish singer has been performing in Dubai since 2008 at venues such as MusicHall and Voda Bar. Her Jazz Garden appearance is career highlight as she will use the event to perform the original song Big Blue Eyes, the single from her debut solo album, due for release soon.
