On a table in Nermien Riad's office is a hard, round nut, about the size of a fist. It is the fruit of the doum palm, a tree native to North Africa. The tree takes years to grow and mature, and those who plant it are not likely to see or enjoy the literal fruit of their labour, which is a popular treat – but they plant it anyway.
That's how she views the role of Coptic Orphans, a charity she founded almost 40 years ago.
Born in Egypt, Ms Riad emigrated to the US with her family when she was seven years old. During a visit to her home country, she witnessed crippling poverty and its effect on children.
"In Egypt, you're considered an orphan if you've lost either a father or a mother," she tells The National, explaining that the loss of a father in particular often plunges a family further into poverty.
After the loss of a parent in impoverished areas of Egypt, girls are frequently married off to ease the family's financial burden and boys take on dangerous jobs to bring in money. Others are sent to orphanages. Many poor children with both parents still living are sent to orphanages because there is not enough food.
"So it's a double-whammy of not only poverty, but also separation from your family," Ms Riad says.
On her return home, she pooled money with friends, eventually raising enough to meet the basic needs of 45 girls living in an orphanage. Interest in the project among the large Coptic diaspora grew, and Ms Riad decided to found Coptic Orphans.
The charity supports orphaned children and also helps those from poor families who might otherwise have been sent to an orphanage to remain at home. Through donor sponsorships, children are given access to education, which Coptic Orphans says helps to lift them and their families out of poverty.
The charity, which has offices in Washington, Toronto, Sydney, London and Cairo, has helped more than 86,000 children in about 900 towns and villages in Egypt so far.
'Fear and distrust'
While the organisation focuses most of its attention on Coptic children, it is also working to build bridges between Christian and Muslim communities in Egypt, where adherents of the two faiths have historically had a tense relationship.
"There's so much fear and distrust," Ms Riad says. "The Christians live on one side, the Muslims live on the other – never do they interact, never do they come together. And when there's that polarisation, it's very easy to believe anything about 'the other'."
While the Egyptian constitution grants all citizens equal rights, regardless of religion, the Coptic community has reported discrimination and persecution at the local level, from hate speech and vandalism, to physical violence and killings. They have also become a major target for ISIS: in 2015, 20 Coptic men and one Ghanaian who had travelled to Libya in search of employment were beheaded by members of the extremist group, and bombings at churches in the cities of Tanta and Alexandria two years later killed more than 40 people.
"We wanted to go out to the entire community, and we had to have a totally different model to be able to help everyone in the community," Ms Riad says. "And this is where we began focusing on the girl child."
The two-year Valuable Girl programme pairs a younger girl with an older girl, a Christian with a Muslim. The older girl acts as a "big sister" to the younger girl, helping her with her studies and mentoring her. As an incentive, the older girl receives a small stipend.
Not only does the programme create a bond between the two girls, it also creates a bond between families.
Ms Riad highlights the story of a young Coptic girl and her older Muslim mentor. On meeting her younger friend's family in the street one day, the Muslim girl introduced herself to the father.
"'Hello, Uncle'," Ms Riad recounts the Muslim girl as saying. "And he goes, 'Uncle? Call me Baba. Call me Dad. You're her sister'."
She says the Valuable Girl programme, which has had more than 19,000 participants, has also helped to decrease inter-community violence. After the murder of a Muslim by a Christian in a village in the Qena region about four years ago, the Coptic community was expecting a mass reprisal. Amid the tension, the Coptic co-ordinator told the Muslim co-ordinator not to bring the girls to the programme at the local community centre in the Christian part of the village, as it wasn't safe.
The Muslim co-ordinator responded: "If we stop now, then they have won. We won't allow this to happen." Ms Riad says the Muslim co-ordinator went from house to house, convincing families in her community not to take collective vengeance.
"'If you want to take revenge from the family that killed the man, that's your prerogative, but all the other families have nothing to do with this. We're not going to be spiralling into violence'," she recounts the co-ordinator as saying.
As it continues to attempt to sow seeds of peace, the charity invites Coptic youths from around the world to visit Egypt and volunteer in poor areas.
"The young people coming from the United States, Canada, Australia, are transformed by the simplicity, by the love, by the humanity that they find in these small villages," Ms Riad says.
The young volunteers teach English to children in the charity's programmes as they learn about their Coptic and Egyptian heritage.
And during their stay, they plant doum palms.
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The flights
Emirates flies from Dubai to Phnom Penh via Yangon from Dh2,700 return including taxes. Cambodia Bayon Airlines and Cambodia Angkor Air offer return flights from Phnom Penh to Siem Reap from Dh250 return including taxes. The flight takes about 45 minutes.
The hotels
Rooms at the Raffles Le Royal in Phnom Penh cost from $225 (Dh826) per night including taxes. Rooms at the Grand Hotel d'Angkor cost from $261 (Dh960) per night including taxes.
The tours
A cyclo architecture tour of Phnom Penh costs from $20 (Dh75) per person for about three hours, with Khmer Architecture Tours. Tailor-made tours of all of Cambodia, or sites like Angkor alone, can be arranged by About Asia Travel. Emirates Holidays also offers packages.
Benefits of first-time home buyers' scheme
- Priority access to new homes from participating developers
- Discounts on sales price of off-plan units
- Flexible payment plans from developers
- Mortgages with better interest rates, faster approval times and reduced fees
- DLD registration fee can be paid through banks or credit cards at zero interest rates
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Five healthy carbs and how to eat them
Brown rice: consume an amount that fits in the palm of your hand
Non-starchy vegetables, such as broccoli: consume raw or at low temperatures, and don’t reheat
Oatmeal: look out for pure whole oat grains or kernels, which are locally grown and packaged; avoid those that have travelled from afar
Fruit: a medium bowl a day and no more, and never fruit juices
Lentils and lentil pasta: soak these well and cook them at a low temperature; refrain from eating highly processed pasta variants
Courtesy Roma Megchiani, functional nutritionist at Dubai’s 77 Veggie Boutique
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6.30pm Al Maktoum Challenge Round-3 Group 1 (PA) US$100,000 (Dirt) 2,000m, Winner Bandar, Fernando Jara (jockey), Majed Al Jahouri (trainer).
7.05pm Meydan Classic Listed (TB) $175,000 (Turf) 1,600m, Winner Well Of Wisdom, William Buick, Charlie Appleby.
7.40pm Handicap (TB) $135,000 (T) 2,000m, Winner Star Safari, Mickael Barzalona, Charlie Appleby.
8.15pm Handicap (TB) $135,000 (D) 1,600m, Winner Moqarrar, Fabrice Veron, Erwan Charpy.
8.50pm Nad Al Sheba Trophy Group 2 (TB) $300,000 (T) 2,810m, Winner Secret Advisor, William Buick, Charlie Appleby.
9.25pm Curlin Stakes Listed (TB) $175,000 (D) 2,000m, Winner Parsimony, William Buick, Doug O’Neill.
10pm Handicap (TB) $135,000 (T) 2,000m, Winner Simsir, Ronan Whelan, Michael Halford.
10.35pm Handicap (TB) $175,000 (T) 1,400m, Winner Velorum, Mickael Barzalona, Charlie Appleby.
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Who are the Soroptimists?
The first Soroptimists club was founded in Oakland, California in 1921. The name comes from the Latin word soror which means sister, combined with optima, meaning the best.
The organisation said its name is best interpreted as ‘the best for women’.
Since then the group has grown exponentially around the world and is officially affiliated with the United Nations. The organisation also counts Queen Mathilde of Belgium among its ranks.
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Abdul Jabar Qahraman was meeting supporters in his campaign office in the southern Afghan province of Helmand when a bomb hidden under a sofa exploded on Wednesday.
The blast in the provincial capital Lashkar Gah killed the Afghan election candidate and at least another three people, Interior Minister Wais Ahmad Barmak told reporters. Another three were wounded, while three suspects were detained, he said.
The Taliban – which controls much of Helmand and has vowed to disrupt the October 20 parliamentary elections – claimed responsibility for the attack.
Mr Qahraman was at least the 10th candidate killed so far during the campaign season, and the second from Lashkar Gah this month. Another candidate, Saleh Mohammad Asikzai, was among eight people killed in a suicide attack last week. Most of the slain candidates were murdered in targeted assassinations, including Avtar Singh Khalsa, the first Afghan Sikh to run for the lower house of the parliament.
The same week the Taliban warned candidates to withdraw from the elections. On Wednesday the group issued fresh warnings, calling on educational workers to stop schools from being used as polling centres.
Other must-tries
Tomato and walnut salad
A lesson in simple, seasonal eating. Wedges of tomato, chunks of cucumber, thinly sliced red onion, coriander or parsley leaves, and perhaps some fresh dill are drizzled with a crushed walnut and garlic dressing. Do consider yourself warned: if you eat this salad in Georgia during the summer months, the tomatoes will be so ripe and flavourful that every tomato you eat from that day forth will taste lacklustre in comparison.
Badrijani nigvzit
A delicious vegetarian snack or starter. It consists of thinly sliced, fried then cooled aubergine smothered with a thick and creamy walnut sauce and folded or rolled. Take note, even though it seems like you should be able to pick these morsels up with your hands, they’re not as durable as they look. A knife and fork is the way to go.
Pkhali
This healthy little dish (a nice antidote to the khachapuri) is usually made with steamed then chopped cabbage, spinach, beetroot or green beans, combined with walnuts, garlic and herbs to make a vegetable pâté or paste. The mix is then often formed into rounds, chilled in the fridge and topped with pomegranate seeds before being served.
UAE's final round of matches
- Sep 1, 2016 Beat Japan 2-1 (away)
- Sep 6, 2016 Lost to Australia 1-0 (home)
- Oct 6, 2016 Beat Thailand 3-1 (home)
- Oct 11, 2016 Lost to Saudi Arabia 3-0 (away)
- Nov 15, 2016 Beat Iraq 2-0 (home)
- Mar 23, 2017 Lost to Japan 2-0 (home)
- Mar 28, 2017 Lost to Australia 2-0 (away)
- June 13, 2017 Drew 1-1 with Thailand (away)
- Aug 29, 2017 v Saudi Arabia (home)
- Sep 5, 2017 v Iraq (away)
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Five expert hiking tips
- Always check the weather forecast before setting off
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- Set off early to avoid sudden weather changes in the afternoon
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Results:
5pm: Conditions (PA) Dh80,000 1,400m | Winner: AF Tahoonah, Richard Mullen (jockey), Ernst Oertel (trainer)
5.30pm: Handicap (TB) Dh90,000 1,400m | Winner: Ajwad, Gerald Avranche, Rashed Bouresly
6pm: Maiden (PA) Dh80,000 1,600m | Winner: RB Lam Tara, Fabrice Veron, Eric Lemartinel
6.30pm: Handicap (PA) Dh80,000 1,600m | Winner: Duc De Faust, Szczepan Mazur, Younis Al Kalbani
7pm: Wathba Stallions Cup (PA) Dh70,000 2,200m | Winner: Shareef KB, Fabrice Veron, Ernst Oertel
7.30pm: Handicap (PA) Dh90,000 1,500m | Winner: Bainoona, Pat Cosgrave, Eric Lemartinel
Day 4, Abu Dhabi Test: At a glance
Moment of the day Not much was expected – on Sunday or ever – of Hasan Ali as a batsman. And yet he lit up the late overs of the Pakistan innings with a happy cameo of 29 from 25 balls. The highlight was when he launched a six right on top of the netting above the Pakistan players’ viewing area. He was out next ball.
Stat of the day – 1,358 There were 1,358 days between Haris Sohail’s previous first-class match and his Test debut for Pakistan. The lack of practice in the multi-day format did not show, though, as the left-hander made an assured half-century to guide his side through a potentially damaging collapse.
The verdict As is the fashion of Test matches in this country, the draw feels like a dead-cert, before a clatter of wickets on the fourth afternoon puts either side on red alert. With Yasir Shah finding prodigious turn now, Pakistan will be confident of bowling Sri Lanka out. Whether they have enough time to do so and chase the runs required remains to be seen.