How to mentally prepare your child to go back to school after months at home

Here are some conversations to have with your children to make them ready to venture outside once more

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  Twins Ghazal (left) and Yara Ghnimat pictured shopping for masks at Mall of the Emirates before their return to school earlier this month. Chris Whiteoak / The National

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  The Ghnimat family shops for back-to-school equipment at Mall of the Emirates. Chris Whiteoak / The National

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  Dorsai Khaghani says she spent hundreds of dirhams on colourful face masks for her five-year-old daughter Karla. Chris Whiteoak / The National

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  Patricia, aged 6, with her newly purchased face masks at the LC Waikiki shop in Al Wahda Mall, Abu Dhabi. Victor Besa /The National

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  Masks on sale at Claire's Accessories in Mall of the Emirates. Retailers said they had sold thousands of child-sized masks in recent days. Chris Whiteoak / The National

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  Children's face masks and face sheilds for sale at LC Waikiki shop in Al Wahda Mall, Abu Dhabi. Victor Besa /The National

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  Visa Singh with parents Vijai and Sarika pictured shopping for back to school supplies. Chris Whiteoak / The National

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  The Ubaldo family were among the many families to spend hundreds on masks and gloves, along with the usual back to school supplies. Chris Whiteoak / The National

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  A shopper passes sale posters at Mall of the Emirates. Chris Whiteoak / The National

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  Children's face masks and face sheilds for sale at LC Waikiki shop in Al Wahda Mall, Abu Dhabi. Victor Besa /The National

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  Children's face masks and face sheilds for sale at LC Waikiki shop in Al Wahda Mall, Abu Dhabi. Victor Besa /The National

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  A girl with a face mask on passes a mannequin promoting face mask sales at the LC Waikiki shop in Al Wahda Mall, Abu Dhabi. Victor Besa /The National

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  Children's face masks and face sheilds for sale at LC Waikiki shop in Al Wahda Mall, Abu Dhabi. Victor Besa /The National

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  Children's face masks for sale at LC Waikiki shop in Al Wahda Mall, Abu Dhabi. Victor Besa /The National

Schools in the UAE are scheduled to open soon, which means after months spent mostly at home, children will be socialising with their peers once more.

This may be confusing for many, especially if they've spent the past few months under the impression that the outside world is unsafe.

According to Dr Prateeksha Shetty, clinical psychologist at RAK Hospital, the lack of clarity regarding changing rules can lead to anxiety in children. This, in turn, can manifest as irritability, cautiousness, crying bouts, clinginess, avoidance, withdrawal or demanding behaviour, depending on age.

If your children are going back to the classroom in a few days, here are some tips for preparing them so they feel safe and assured.

Have multiple conversations, and be patient

Devika Singh-Mankani, a psychologist at The Hundred Wellness Centre and at Fortes Education Schools in Dubai, the key to a smooth transition is communicating early.

“Speak to children over multiple conversations rather than having one big talk,” she advises. “Children need consistent and clear lines of communication and need to be reminded that they can ask you as many questions as they want, even if it is the same question over and over again.”

She recommends reminding children that there is no such thing as a silly question. She says parents should refrain from using statements like "as I have explained many times" or "I've already told you that" because these might make children stop asking questions or expressing themselves.

Children do what they see, not what they are told

Ask them what they think

Thinking of opening up a dialogue? Before you talk with your children, psychologists recommend understanding their impression of the pandemic.

“Ask them to tell you what they think is happening with the virus at the moment and what they think school should look like right now.

"Children may respond by saying, 'It was really bad in March but now things seem to be better.' That points you in the right direction to match their understanding and then further it. Alternatively, they might respond by saying it seems like things are getting worse, in which case you can provide assurance as needed," says Singh-Mankani.

Cover the important points

Singh-Mankani recommends asking children these questions, which she considers “the big five”.

• What is going to be the same?
• What is going to be different?
• What am I looking forward to?
• What do I think I will need help with?
• Who can I talk to if I need help (at home and at school)?

"The strategy for difficult conversations depends on the age of the child, of course, but generally the most important tips involve being honest, yet reassuring and, if appropriate, refer to research findings," she says.

Brush up on hygiene dos and don’ts

Before the return to school, it's important to have conversations about hand hygiene, social distancing and changes that children should expect in the new school year.

Ahead of schools reopening, parents are encouraged to reinforce hand hygiene, and social distancing guidelines. Courtesy of Unsplash

"Discuss health and illness, address questions and clarify misconceptions. This information can be passed on via role playing, games or in creative ways, if that works, says Shetty. "Just create a space for discussions and open a room for dialogue."

Wondering what hygiene guidelines you need to educate your children about during the Covid-19 pandemic? Dr Marwa Elhady, specialist paediatrician at Medcare Medical Centre recommends telling them to do the following:

• Wear their mask all day at school.

• Clean their desk and chair with sanitiser.

• Not to share stationery or books with their friends.

• Be social but not to shake hands or hug.

• Wash their hands with soap and water before and after eating snacks.

• Use sanitisers to clean your hands in between lessons.

• Avoid gathering before or after school.

Some of these rules may be more challenging for younger children who are still developing self-regulation and self-control.

"They will need reminders and lots of praise when they have remembered to make healthy hygiene choices," says Singh-Mankani. "As with any new behaviour, it is important to model it consistently. Children do what they see, not what they are told."

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Gallery: Dubai British School prepares to welcome back pupils

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  ‘We Miss You’ banner posted on the boundary wall of the building. Pupils are being welcomed back after more than five months.

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  The Dubai British School in Jumeirah Park will welcome back 1,230 pupils on August 30. 'The National' takes a look at the Covid-19 precautionary measures taken to ensure staff and pupil safety. Campuses are beign reopened after more than five months of closure. All photos by Pawan Singh / The National

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  The entrance of the school will soon include thermal scanners. There are dedicated entry and exit points for primary and secondary sections.

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  Storage units have been placed at a distance to prevent gathering.

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  Tables in the canteen area are distanced by two metres.

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  Markings have been placed in hallways throughout the school to encourage social distancing.

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  A total of 130 automatic hand sanitisers have been fitted across the school.

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  Desks inside classrooms have been distanced and only two pupils per table will be allowed.

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  Posters promoting good hygiene are placed in hallways and different areas of the school.

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  Partitions are placed in Year 1 classrooms.