Monica Kapila writes a lifestyle blog called Do in Dubai. Pawan Singh / The National
Monica Kapila writes a lifestyle blog called Do in Dubai. Pawan Singh / The National
Monica Kapila writes a lifestyle blog called Do in Dubai. Pawan Singh / The National
Monica Kapila writes a lifestyle blog called Do in Dubai. Pawan Singh / The National

Change is the constant


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“When one is bored of shopping one is bored of life,” reflects Do in Dubai blogger Monica Kapila. “[But] there is more to shopping than a mall. Through the exploration of crafts, art and the colours, textures, materials and intrinsic style of each place you find on your travels, you make connections with other cultures and peoples.”

Kapila’s home in the Arabian Ranches illustrates her point beautifully, and highlights the international heritage of her family, her love of travel and her married life in London, Mumbai and Dubai.

In 2006, when the Kapila family moved to the UAE, they made Arabian Ranches their home as it was close to their daughters’ school and already had the beginnings of an established community, with a quality supermarket, considered landscaping and the Ranches golf club. “We thought we would be comfortable and happy here, and we have been,” she says.

The Kapila family went on to buy a six-bedroom, Al Maha (type 13) property off-plan and were the first to live in it when it was completed in 2007. They started with “a shell, with a sandpit for a garden”, says Kapila, which allowed them “do as we liked with it”.

She began by making some small adjustments to the interior layout. She raised the openings of the arches between the generous ground floor living spaces to create a more open feel, which, in turn, made the ceilings feel higher.

She also removed some of the pillar partitioning in the hall area, which improved the flow of the villa, and built an integrated shelving unit in the same stone finish as the walls.

Inspired by the grand antiques seen at hotels in India, a standout feature of the entrance hall is a large wooden chest bought by the couple during a trip to a wedding in Rajasthan. A carved panel displayed on the wall, depicting the Hindu goddess Lakshmi and lotus flowers, was spotted by Kapila hanging over a shop doorway on a visit to Chennai more than 20 years ago.

“It was our first trip to South India, and we desperately wanted to buy something. We were much younger and much poorer then, and couldn’t afford to go to the beautiful antiques shops or anything like that.” She was delighted when the shop owner indicated a willingness to sell the piece as she knew it would be a perfect accompaniment to the chest.

Kapila likes to let her design schemes evolve organically, by blending favourite pieces that complement each other. “For me, it’s slightly easier thinking like that, rather than being really prescriptive and doing the mood boards that the interior designers say you should do.

“Luckily my husband and I agree. We both love light and light spaces, and love colour. While in London we experimented with colour on walls, but felt here that we should go for neutral walls and then add colour with artwork and smaller things you can move around.”

This approach is highlighted, to dramatic effect, in the living/dining area. “The basic palate is savannah and safari tones of pampas grass and parchment (not white – too harsh), which is a versatile base and you can add most colours to it. I have always loved splashes of pink as it’s a bright, vibrant, lively colour and it’s timeless if you get the shades right.”

Extending the sophisticated pink accents, Kapila reupholstered and repurposed a chair brought from Kenya, in an offcut of Designers Guild fabric. She then dressed it with a pretty cotton cushion that she had made from a fabric sourced on a trip to Pondicherry.

Kapila’s creativity extends to the study of the house, where a number of her acrylic and oil paintings hang. This is where she writes her blog, Do in Dubai, a residents’ guide that shares her knowledge of shopping, eating and travelling. Ordered storage solutions and bright colours make this an inviting and highly practical additional space for family hobbies and homework.

In the three months before the Kapilas moved to their Al Maha home, additional external building works were completed to create a lush garden and pool area. “We didn’t have a patio when we came, so the first thing we did was to extend it quite a way behind the kitchen and also off the living/dining area. That whole idea of bringing the outside in was a very important part of our plan and we like the fact that the kitchen doors open straight out on to the garden patio and outdoor dining.

“We also changed the kitchen by having the dark wood kitchen unit doors spray-painted professionally, which makes the room look much bigger than before.”

In the second downstairs sitting room, a pair of striking collages by artist Rosemary Karuga are displayed. These were purchased by Kapila’s husband while in Kenya, his childhood home. “Like a lot of East African art, they reflect the Arab and Islamic roots of that region.”

In recent times, the couple have started dipping their toes into the world of online auctions, and have invested in some paintings by Adimoolam and Vaikuntam from Saffron Art in India. “You can read a little about the artists beforehand, so it’s easy to bid. It may sound a bit of a cliché, but just buy what you want to look at,” she says.

When the couple first lived in Mumbai and didn’t yet have children, they used to visit a local gallery where they bought a number of paintings by Pardeshi, which now hang in their dining room. One of these, Watching the Flood, particularly resonates as a reminder of those early days. “It was during the monsoon and I felt very much like these people watching the rain, which seemed endless.”

A second painting by the same artist picks up Mumbai’s coastal connections and features fisherwomen selling the catch.

By blending paintings, furniture and objects, Kapila has created a home that chronicles the journey and growth of a family, and resonates still with connections to people and places visited, and homes faraway.

Farage on Muslim Brotherhood

Nigel Farage told Reform's annual conference that the party will proscribe the Muslim Brotherhood if he becomes Prime Minister.
"We will stop dangerous organisations with links to terrorism operating in our country," he said. "Quite why we've been so gutless about this – both Labour and Conservative – I don't know.
“All across the Middle East, countries have banned and proscribed the Muslim Brotherhood as a dangerous organisation. We will do the very same.”
It is 10 years since a ground-breaking report into the Muslim Brotherhood by Sir John Jenkins.
Among the former diplomat's findings was an assessment that “the use of extreme violence in the pursuit of the perfect Islamic society” has “never been institutionally disowned” by the movement.
The prime minister at the time, David Cameron, who commissioned the report, said membership or association with the Muslim Brotherhood was a "possible indicator of extremism" but it would not be banned.

Autumn international scores

Saturday, November 24

Italy 3-66 New Zealand
Scotland 14-9 Argentina
England 37-18 Australia

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Sunday: Yas Marina Circuit Stage 1 (276.01km)
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Tuesday: Al Ain Water Stage 3 (281.38km)
Wednesday: ADNOC Stage 4 (244.49km)
Thursday: Abu Dhabi Aviation Stage 5 (218.57km) Finish: Yas Marina Circuit – 4.30pm.

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'Worse than a prison sentence'

Marie Byrne, a counsellor who volunteers at the UAE government's mental health crisis helpline, said the ordeal the crew had been through would take time to overcome.

“It was worse than a prison sentence, where at least someone can deal with a set amount of time incarcerated," she said.

“They were living in perpetual mystery as to how their futures would pan out, and what that would be.

“Because of coronavirus, the world is very different now to the one they left, that will also have an impact.

“It will not fully register until they are on dry land. Some have not seen their young children grow up while others will have to rebuild relationships.

“It will be a challenge mentally, and to find other work to support their families as they have been out of circulation for so long. Hopefully they will get the care they need when they get home.”

Mercer, the investment consulting arm of US services company Marsh & McLennan, expects its wealth division to at least double its assets under management (AUM) in the Middle East as wealth in the region continues to grow despite economic headwinds, a company official said.

Mercer Wealth, which globally has $160 billion in AUM, plans to boost its AUM in the region to $2-$3bn in the next 2-3 years from the present $1bn, said Yasir AbuShaban, a Dubai-based principal with Mercer Wealth.

Within the next two to three years, we are looking at reaching $2 to $3 billion as a conservative estimate and we do see an opportunity to do so,” said Mr AbuShaban.

Mercer does not directly make investments, but allocates clients’ money they have discretion to, to professional asset managers. They also provide advice to clients.

“We have buying power. We can negotiate on their (client’s) behalf with asset managers to provide them lower fees than they otherwise would have to get on their own,” he added.

Mercer Wealth’s clients include sovereign wealth funds, family offices, and insurance companies among others.

From its office in Dubai, Mercer also looks after Africa, India and Turkey, where they also see opportunity for growth.

Wealth creation in Middle East and Africa (MEA) grew 8.5 per cent to $8.1 trillion last year from $7.5tn in 2015, higher than last year’s global average of 6 per cent and the second-highest growth in a region after Asia-Pacific which grew 9.9 per cent, according to consultancy Boston Consulting Group (BCG). In the region, where wealth grew just 1.9 per cent in 2015 compared with 2014, a pickup in oil prices has helped in wealth generation.

BCG is forecasting MEA wealth will rise to $12tn by 2021, growing at an annual average of 8 per cent.

Drivers of wealth generation in the region will be split evenly between new wealth creation and growth of performance of existing assets, according to BCG.

Another general trend in the region is clients’ looking for a comprehensive approach to investing, according to Mr AbuShaban.

“Institutional investors or some of the families are seeing a slowdown in the available capital they have to invest and in that sense they are looking at optimizing the way they manage their portfolios and making sure they are not investing haphazardly and different parts of their investment are working together,” said Mr AbuShaban.

Some clients also have a higher appetite for risk, given the low interest-rate environment that does not provide enough yield for some institutional investors. These clients are keen to invest in illiquid assets, such as private equity and infrastructure.

“What we have seen is a desire for higher returns in what has been a low-return environment specifically in various fixed income or bonds,” he said.

“In this environment, we have seen a de facto increase in the risk that clients are taking in things like illiquid investments, private equity investments, infrastructure and private debt, those kind of investments were higher illiquidity results in incrementally higher returns.”

The Abu Dhabi Investment Authority, one of the largest sovereign wealth funds, said in its 2016 report that has gradually increased its exposure in direct private equity and private credit transactions, mainly in Asian markets and especially in China and India. The authority’s private equity department focused on structured equities owing to “their defensive characteristics.”

Dirham Stretcher tips for having a baby in the UAE

Selma Abdelhamid, the group's moderator, offers her guide to guide the cost of having a young family:

• Buy second hand stuff

 They grow so fast. Don't get a second hand car seat though, unless you 100 per cent know it's not expired and hasn't been in an accident.

• Get a health card and vaccinate your child for free at government health centres

 Ms Ma says she discovered this after spending thousands on vaccinations at private clinics.

• Join mum and baby coffee mornings provided by clinics, babysitting companies or nurseries.

Before joining baby classes ask for a free trial session. This way you will know if it's for you or not. You'll be surprised how great some classes are and how bad others are.

• Once baby is ready for solids, cook at home

Take the food with you in reusable pouches or jars. You'll save a fortune and you'll know exactly what you're feeding your child.