Wahid Hezb was a toddler when his parents left Taliban-controlled Afghanistan for the UK in 1996, five years before US-forces overthrew the extremists in 2001.
A response to the 9/11 attacks, the US-invasion was met with cautious optimism by locals longing for a return to Afghanistan’s more liberal pre-Taliban days.
Twenty years later, Mr Hezb, 31, sits on one of the empty tables at his family’s Afghan restaurant, Ariana II, in London’s Kilburn neighbourhood, reading up on the latest news from his country on his smartphone. It isn’t good and his heavy heart is palpable.
“You feel their pain. That's how I see it — you feel their pain and you look at photos and you look at some of these videos and you think to yourself, what can I do?” Mr Hezb tells The National.
Exploiting the continuing withdrawal of US and other foreign troops from Afghanistan, Taliban forces are advancing all over the country at breakneck speed.
In another corner of the UK, Afghan author Gulwali Passarlay is furious that western powers have left his people “to the wolves".
“They shouldn’t have been there in the first place but they definitely shouldn’t have left the way they did,” Mr Passarlay tells The National.
Paradoxically, he sees foreign intervention as the only viable way to avoid this now. But the cavalry is unlikely to arrive this time.
While the UK has sent 600 troops to help British citizens leave Afghanistan, there are currently no plans to halt troop withdrawal or to offer further military assistance.
“What they’re saying is that the rights of Afghans aren’t as important as those of the British. I’m angry and upset not just for my family but for all Afghans.”
More than 1,000 civilians were killed in Afghanistan in the past month alone, the UN has said. The international agency also reported that about 400,000 people have been displaced in the country this year, 59 per cent of them children.
Mr Passarlay was a child himself when he made the perilous crossing alone across continents to reach the UK, a journey he has written about in his book, The Lightless Sky. He left Afghanistan in 2006 as a 12-year-old after his family found themselves caught between opposing sides in the postwar country.
Weak security has plagued the country for many years, as Mr Hezb knows well. The last time he visited Kabul, where he still has family, was in 2008. He hasn’t been back since out of fear for his safety.
“I have lots of family there and lots of them died because of would-be thieves robbing them for their vehicle, for their phones, for small things,” says Mr Hezb, whose cousin, a taxi driver, was killed a few years ago by carjackers.
“People struggle and look for a quick way to make ends meet. And because of that, they lost the humanity that you should have and they don't really care about life any more. We're talking about my own people here, now. So, it is sad.”
Violence, corruption and political instability are the reasons a lot of Afghans, Mr Hezb included, feel the government of President Ashraf Ghani has, for the most part, been a failed endeavour.
Nevertheless, the prospect of returning full circle to the state his parents fled 25 years ago is equally tragic.
“The worst case scenario is that the Taliban completely take over and we go back to a dark and scary time,” says Mr Passarlay. “We have to find a diplomatic solution and not have the Taliban just impose themselves on us.”
Mr Hezb thinks neither the current government nor the Taliban have legitimacy to rule for all Afghans.
Decades of conflict have left few alternatives. Hundreds of thousands of Afghan refugees have rebuilt their lives across the globe and few see a place for themselves in Afghanistan’s future.
“We can't go and help our country because they've not given us the platform to,” says Mr Hezb, who has a degree in medical science. “They can't provide safety and security, so how do they expect to move forward?
“I would love to be a part of helping because I want to rebuild the country, I want to build something safe, I want to be proud and say, ‘Hey, my country has tourism, it has agriculture, etc’ but we can’t take advantage of anything at the moment.”
If there is one thing Afghans abroad really want from their adopted home countries, it’s the offer of peace and safety for their compatriots.
A vocal activist for refugees, Mr Passarlay is campaigning to make the UK follow through on its “moral obligation” to resettle Afghans. It is an admirable ask, but for a country of 35 million people, it will need more than a programme to save all the lives at stake.
“I hope for a peace deal and a ceasefire but most importantly, that Afghanistan gets the humanitarian assistance it needs.”
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Tips for newlyweds to better manage finances
All couples are unique and have to create a financial blueprint that is most suitable for their relationship, says Vijay Valecha, chief investment officer at Century Financial. He offers his top five tips for couples to better manage their finances.
Discuss your assets and debts: When married, it’s important to understand each other’s personal financial situation. It’s necessary to know upfront what each party brings to the table, as debts and assets affect spending habits and joint loan qualifications. Discussing all aspects of their finances as a couple prevents anyone from being blindsided later.
Decide on the financial/saving goals: Spouses should independently list their top goals and share their lists with one another to shape a joint plan. Writing down clear goals will help them determine how much to save each month, how much to put aside for short-term goals, and how they will reach their long-term financial goals.
Set a budget: A budget can keep the couple be mindful of their income and expenses. With a monthly budget, couples will know exactly how much they can spend in a category each month, how much they have to work with and what spending areas need to be evaluated.
Decide who manages what: When it comes to handling finances, it’s a good idea to decide who manages what. For example, one person might take on the day-to-day bills, while the other tackles long-term investments and retirement plans.
Money date nights: Talking about money should be a healthy, ongoing conversation and couples should not wait for something to go wrong. They should set time aside every month to talk about future financial decisions and see the progress they’ve made together towards accomplishing their goals.
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The two riders are among several riders in the UAE to receive the top payment of £10,000 under the Thank You Fund of £16 million (Dh80m), which was announced in conjunction with Deliveroo's £8 billion (Dh40bn) stock market listing earlier this year.
The £10,000 (Dh50,000) payment is made to those riders who have completed the highest number of orders in each market.
There are also riders who will receive payments of £1,000 (Dh5,000) and £500 (Dh2,500).
All riders who have worked with Deliveroo for at least one year and completed 2,000 orders will receive £200 (Dh1,000), the company said when it announced the scheme.
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THE SPECS
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Power: 275hp at 6,600rpm
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Super Rugby play-offs
Quarter-finals
- Hurricanes 35, ACT 16
- Crusaders 17, Highlanders 0
- Lions 23, Sharks 21
- Chiefs 17, Stormers 11
Semi-finals
Saturday, July 29
- Crusaders v Chiefs, 12.35pm (UAE)
- Lions v Hurricanes, 4.30pm
The specs: 2018 Renault Koleos
Price, base: From Dh77,900
Engine: 2.5L, in-line four-cylinder
Transmission: Continuously variable transmission
Power: 170hp @ 6,000rpm
Torque: 233Nm @ 4,000rpm
Fuel economy, combined: 8.3L / 100km
Types of policy
Term life insurance: this is the cheapest and most-popular form of life cover. You pay a regular monthly premium for a pre-agreed period, typically anything between five and 25 years, or possibly longer. If you die within that time, the policy will pay a cash lump sum, which is typically tax-free even outside the UAE. If you die after the policy ends, you do not get anything in return. There is no cash-in value at any time. Once you stop paying premiums, cover stops.
Whole-of-life insurance: as its name suggests, this type of life cover is designed to run for the rest of your life. You pay regular monthly premiums and in return, get a guaranteed cash lump sum whenever you die. As a result, premiums are typically much higher than one term life insurance, although they do not usually increase with age. In some cases, you have to keep up premiums for as long as you live, although there may be a cut-off period, say, at age 80 but it can go as high as 95. There are penalties if you don’t last the course and you may get a lot less than you paid in.
Critical illness cover: this pays a cash lump sum if you suffer from a serious illness such as cancer, heart disease or stroke. Some policies cover as many as 50 different illnesses, although cancer triggers by far the most claims. The payout is designed to cover major financial responsibilities such as a mortgage or children’s education fees if you fall ill and are unable to work. It is cost effective to combine it with life insurance, with the policy paying out once if you either die or suffer a serious illness.
Income protection: this pays a replacement income if you fall ill and are unable to continue working. On the best policies, this will continue either until you recover, or reach retirement age. Unlike critical illness cover, policies will typically pay out for stress and musculoskeletal problems such as back trouble.
WHEN TO GO:
September to November or March to May; this is when visitors are most likely to see what they’ve come for.
WHERE TO STAY:
Meghauli Serai, A Taj Safari - Chitwan National Park resort (tajhotels.com) is a one-hour drive from Bharatpur Airport with stays costing from Dh1,396 per night, including taxes and breakfast. Return airport transfers cost from Dh661.
HOW TO GET THERE:
Etihad Airways regularly flies from Abu Dhabi to Kathmandu from around Dh1,500 per person return, including taxes. Buddha Air (buddhaair.com) and Yeti Airlines (yetiairlines.com) fly from Kathmandu to Bharatpur several times a day from about Dh660 return and the flight takes just 20 minutes. Driving is possible but the roads are hilly which means it will take you five or six hours to travel 148 kilometres.
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Director: Shankar
Stars: Ram Charan, Kiara Advani, Anjali, S J Suryah, Jayaram
Rating: 2/5
Other acts on the Jazz Garden bill
Sharrie Williams
The American singer is hugely respected in blues circles due to her passionate vocals and songwriting. Born and raised in Michigan, Williams began recording and touring as a teenage gospel singer. Her career took off with the blues band The Wiseguys. Such was the acclaim of their live shows that they toured throughout Europe and in Africa. As a solo artist, Williams has also collaborated with the likes of the late Dizzy Gillespie, Van Morrison and Mavis Staples.
Lin Rountree
An accomplished smooth jazz artist who blends his chilled approach with R‘n’B. Trained at the Duke Ellington School of the Arts in Washington, DC, Rountree formed his own band in 2004. He has also recorded with the likes of Kem, Dwele and Conya Doss. He comes to Dubai on the back of his new single Pass The Groove, from his forthcoming 2018 album Stronger Still, which may follow his five previous solo albums in cracking the top 10 of the US jazz charts.
Anita Williams
Dubai-based singer Anita Williams will open the night with a set of covers and swing, jazz and blues standards that made her an in-demand singer across the emirate. The Irish singer has been performing in Dubai since 2008 at venues such as MusicHall and Voda Bar. Her Jazz Garden appearance is career highlight as she will use the event to perform the original song Big Blue Eyes, the single from her debut solo album, due for release soon.
Specs
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Torque: 175Nm
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Junichiro Tamizaki
Translated by Paul McCarthy
Daunt Books
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