I went to an Emirati wake a couple of weeks ago. I had never met the deceased, but I now know that he was loved. I saw it clearly that night in the large majlis, an extension of his stately home in Baniyas.
There were more than 100 men gathered there (the female mourners were in the nearby living room). We sat together, reminiscing about the man’s life.
I was in what's called an azza, an Islamic ritual of empathy where respects are paid to the family of the deceased for up to three days after the burial. This was the first time I had been to an Emirati one, and, as it turns out, the practice is similar to events many other Muslim communities hold across the world.
What happens at an azza?
Each night, members of the extended family or friends will take on the responsibility to set up a space for visitors. Refreshments and, in some cases, dinners are provided. Those paying condolences will come to one of the nights, express their sympathy to the bereaved, and stay for a while. The conversations had are respectful and all mentions of the person who died are favourable.
As I said, in this case I didn’t know the deceased personally – he was an Emirati-Yemeni businessman who succumbed to a long illness – but his sister’s family are close friends, so paying our final respects was natural.
The way it works – at least for male mourners – is, upon entry, you declare in a clear voice "salamu alaikum" ("may peace be with you") to announce your arrival. This allows the other guests to stop their conversation and greet whoever has stepped in. Then you proceed to shake hands with all the people seated in the majlis. When coming across relatives of the deceased, you comfort them by stating "azam Allah ajrak" ("may Allah increase your reward"), before you take a seat.
More than being a religious recommendation and social custom, I found attending the azza to be a deeply moving experience. Where some cultures may find the idea of attending the wake of someone you don't know disrespectful or even macabre, in the Islamic faith the practice is meant to convey a sense of solidarity with the bereaved in their hour of need, as well as strengthen the ties of family, kinship and community.
In my former home of Melbourne, Australia, I went to the azzas of dozens of people whom I had never met, but I was part of their community. My presence, in its own small way, contributed to letting the family know they are not alone.
A moment that is about nothing material
The gatherings also have benefits for those attending. For one thing, it's stripped away of any worldly concerns. This isn't the place to gloat about your successes or air your woes. After all, death focuses the mind on the important things in life.
Our deeds are all we have left to speak for us after we are gone. The rest is meaningless.
"He was generous," one elderly man said at this wake. "I am not talking about money, here. Alhamdulillah, he was blessed with that, but he was generous with his time. Any time you needed his advice he was there. He would also call you to follow up on what was said. He was generous with his wisdom and time. May we all be like that."
The people around us all muttered their agreement before another elderly gentleman, who I was later told was the man’s brother, spoke up. He was clearly hurting, but he managed to smile gently as he choked back some of the tears.
“This is indeed the reality, my brothers. May God bless you for talking about the good things he did. Our deeds are all we have left to speak for us after we are gone. The rest is meaningless.”
With that, I walked out, my faith increased. I may not have known him in life, but this man, in death, gave us all a renewed focus on what matters.
Indoor cricket World Cup:
Insportz, Dubai, September 16-23
UAE fixtures:
Men
Saturday, September 16 – 1.45pm, v New Zealand
Sunday, September 17 – 10.30am, v Australia; 3.45pm, v South Africa
Monday, September 18 – 2pm, v England; 7.15pm, v India
Tuesday, September 19 – 12.15pm, v Singapore; 5.30pm, v Sri Lanka
Thursday, September 21 – 2pm v Malaysia
Friday, September 22 – 3.30pm, semi-final
Saturday, September 23 – 3pm, grand final
Women
Saturday, September 16 – 5.15pm, v Australia
Sunday, September 17 – 2pm, v South Africa; 7.15pm, v New Zealand
Monday, September 18 – 5.30pm, v England
Tuesday, September 19 – 10.30am, v New Zealand; 3.45pm, v South Africa
Thursday, September 21 – 12.15pm, v Australia
Friday, September 22 – 1.30pm, semi-final
Saturday, September 23 – 1pm, grand final
Defence review at a glance
• Increase defence spending to 2.5% of GDP by 2027 but given “turbulent times it may be necessary to go faster”
• Prioritise a shift towards working with AI and autonomous systems
• Invest in the resilience of military space systems.
• Number of active reserves should be increased by 20%
• More F-35 fighter jets required in the next decade
• New “hybrid Navy” with AUKUS submarines and autonomous vessels
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Strait of Hormuz
Fujairah is a crucial hub for fuel storage and is just outside the Strait of Hormuz, a vital shipping route linking Middle East oil producers to markets in Asia, Europe, North America and beyond.
The strait is 33 km wide at its narrowest point, but the shipping lane is just three km wide in either direction. Almost a fifth of oil consumed across the world passes through the strait.
Iran has repeatedly threatened to close the strait, a move that would risk inviting geopolitical and economic turmoil.
Last month, Iran issued a new warning that it would block the strait, if it was prevented from using the waterway following a US decision to end exemptions from sanctions for major Iranian oil importers.
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Sharad Nair recommends three investment apps for UAE residents:
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- Finally, StashAway could work for those who want a hands-off approach to their investing. “It removes one of the biggest challenges for novice traders: picking the securities in their portfolio,” Mr Nair says. “A goal-based approach or view towards investing can help motivate residents who may usually shy away from investment platforms.”
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