Bangladeshi village girls bend it like Beckham

When the local boys failed to bring home the trophies, Bangladeshi village football coach Mofiz Uddin decided to recruit new members - female players that have since won every national tournament.

Bangladesh's Kolsindur high school football team captain Maria Manda, centre, controls the ball during a match in Dhaka.  More than a dozen of Kolsindur's players have already played on the national girls' team. Munir uz Zaman/AFP Photo
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Kolsindur, Bangladesh // Bangladeshi village football coach Mofiz Uddin only decided to form a girls’ team in 2011 out of frustration at the local boys’ failure to bring home any trophies.

Less than five years on, his young female players have won every national tournament going, becoming minor celebrities in the conservative nation.

To do so, they have had to overcome parental opposition and deep-seated social prejudices in a country where child marriage is rife and most girls have little or no access to sport.

“These girls are our heroes,” 70-year-old villager Akbar Ali said as he watched the girls practise in Kolsindur village, near the border with India.

“They’ve brought many laurels to us,” said Ali, who was among a small crowd of villagers gathered around the pitch.

“Kolsindur is now a famous village because of them.”

More than a dozen of Kolsindur’s players have already played on the national girls’ team, among them 12-year-old Tahura Khatun, a diminutive striker nicknamed the “Kolsindur Messi” after Barcelona player Lionel Messi.

She lives in a mud house with her five siblings, parents, two uncles and grandfather, and said she would have quit without the support of her coach and teachers.

Tahura’s family does not want her to play now she has reached what they see as an “adult age”.

Many girls in Bangladesh are married by the time they are 13, and Tahura’s grandfather worries that her playing will make it impossible to find a good husband.

One of her team mates, midfielder Ruma Akhter, hung up her boots aged 13 after her father told her she was disgracing the family but Tahura remains defiant. “I want people to recognise me for my talent, my work,” she said. “I don’t want to become a housewife like my mother and have to depend on my husband’s kindness.”

The girls first started playing on a field grazed by cattle and littered with dung.

They had to play barefoot because football boots would cost almost the entire monthly income of most farming families.

The long kurtas or tunics and baggy trousers traditionally worn by Bangladeshi girls were less than ideal for running after a ball, but initially the players had little choice.

“Their parents did not like seeing their daughters wearing shorts and kicking football around in front of male villagers,” coach Uddin said. “Some wondered why the girls had to play a game meant for boys.”

Now they play in football shorts and jerseys and many of the villagers who mocked the idea of girls wearing “half-pants” have been won over.

The villagers raise funds for the team before every big tournament and some, including 70-year-old Ali, even travel with the team to watch them play.

Last month, deputy sports minister Arif Khan earmarked $12,500 (Dh 45,914) to build a proper football pitch.

“They are simply doing great despite poverty,” said Khan, a former captain of the national football team.

Women’s football is relatively new in Bangladesh. When the country decided to put together a national women’s side in 2009, officials worried they might not even be able to find 11 female players.

Today, the women’s team is placed 128th in the world, well ahead of the men in 178th place.

In 2011 the national football federation decided to launch an inter-school competition for girls, and Uddin saw his chance.

Backed by school authorities, he trained a group of girls and took them to a couple of local tournaments where they tasted their first success.

Now he coaches a 50-strong squad aged between seven and 16 and his team has represented Bangladesh in Nepal and Sri Lanka as well as winning the national championships.

Their success has not made the girls’ lives any easier.

The team’s 13-year-old captain Maria Manda said she has to work part-time on her uncle’s farm to be able to afford the food she needs to stay healthy and strong enough to play.

“Kolsindur is a poor village,” said the head teacher of the local primary school Minoti Rani.

“I wonder how long the support for the girls’ football team will last.”

For Tahura, dreaming of becoming her country’s top player, none of that matters.

“I’ll never stop playing. I’ve become used to regular scolding from my family,” she said, adding that she hopes one day to meet her namesake Messi.

“I’d beg him to teach me some of his tricks,” she said of the Argentinian star.

* Agence France-Presse