Former US first lady Michelle Obama admitted she was sometimes crippled by imposter syndrome. Jack Taylor / Getty
Former US first lady Michelle Obama admitted she was sometimes crippled by imposter syndrome. Jack Taylor / Getty

Imposter syndrome: why high achievers like Michelle Obama are more likely to feel like frauds



Michelle Obama graduated from Princeton University, which is currently ranked number one in the US News best colleges annual list. She then went on to complete a postgraduate degree at Harvard Law School, currently ranked third among US law schools. Mrs Obama is only the third first lady in the history of the US to hold a postgraduate degree and her list of achievements in her role as Flotus and beyond are impressive, from campaigning to get more girls worldwide in school to tackling obesity and unhealthy eating.

Yet despite all of her hard-won accomplishments and accolades, the former first lady still, sometimes, feels like an unworthy pretender. At a recent function to promote her new book Becoming, Mrs Obama told a group of students at an all-girls school in north London that she still occasionally experiences "imposter syndrome".

The idea of imposter syndrome, or imposterism, can be traced back to psychologists Pauline Clance and Suzanne Imes, who published an article titled The imposter phenomenon in high-achieving women: dynamics and therapeutic intervention in the 1978 journal Psychotherapy: Theory, Research and Practice. Imposter syndrome is described as a psychological pattern of chronic self-doubt, whereby a person continually questions their own abilities, misattributing their success and status to good fortune and happy coincidence.

The initial work exploring imposter syndrome identified it as a tendency that was particularly common in high-achieving women. Early case studies all tended to be women breaking new ground – for example, the first female chief executive of a company or the first female director of a hospital.

Subsequent research, however, has found a growing number of men appear to be afflicted with it too. In a paper published in the journal Personality and Individual Differences in September this year, 500 undergraduates at a US university were tested and told their results would be shared with a professor. While more women self-reported having imposter syndrome, men were more likely to feel anxious and stressed about getting negative feedback.

The link between imposterism and being the first to break the mould exists among men, too. Being the first person in the family to go to university or being the first in an ethnic group to enter a white-collar workforce is often associated with imposter syndrome. It is as if we break new ground and enter new social circles but then immediately wonder to ourselves: "Do I belong here? Do I really deserve this?" For some of us, the internal answer is “no”.

To be clear, people experiencing imposter syndrome tend to be brilliant. They are, in reality, high-performing individuals, usually with a long list of hard-won credentials. The problem, however, is that these individuals feel like charlatans and have a difficult time attributing their accomplishments to internal qualities such as intelligence, ability and skill. In other words, imposters fail to internalise their success.

At first glance, this might just look like a healthy dose of humility but for people experiencing high levels of imposterism, it can be both distressing and dysfunctional. Although not classed as a psychological disorder, imposter syndrome can result in people adopting unhelpful and unhealthy workplace practices. For example, the person’s crippling self-doubt and unfounded fear of being unmasked as a fake can manifest as a tendency to self-sabotage. Similarly, individuals scoring highly on measures of imposterism tend to be excessively risk-averse, procrastinating endlessly and adopting a pessimistic stance as a defence against constantly anticipated failure.

Another negative consequence of the imposter’s crippling self-doubt is workaholism. High-achieving imposters might feel compelled to put in extra effort to try to prove their worth, working round the clock to try to become the person they think other people have mistaken them for. Ironically, this over-industriousness might result in another promotion, an accolade the individual feels even less worthy of, and so the unhealthy cycle of anxiety-fuelled overachievement continues.

Given that imposterism is typically associated with being a first-generation professional, it would be interesting to know if this tendency will have an impact on Emirati society. As a young nation that has developed rapidly, many citizens of the UAE are among the first in their community to achieve certain accolades, from being the first in their family to go to university to becoming the first female cabinet minister, fighter pilot or astronaut. The UAE has produced a generation of pioneering individuals, some of whom find themselves charged with massive responsibilities, resting on relatively young shoulders. Much of the knock-on effect here is as yet undiscovered – but what is clear is that together with these achievements comes an awful lot of community support and pride. Those who break new ground are already championed by society, which can act as a cushion.

Fortunately, most people can learn to reduce their imposter syndrome tendencies. Just becoming aware of them as an irrational response to success can help some people get a handle on it. Similarly, talking to or hearing from others who have felt the same way can also be very helpful. For this, we have Mrs Obama to thank. Beyond raising awareness of this syndrome and giving simple tricks to override our self-doubting inner voices, professionals such as workplace counsellors or coaches can also help counteract that discouraging internal monologue, explore misguided beliefs about success and failure and let imposters know that it’s pretty common for everyone to feel like a fraud, sometimes.

Dr Justin Thomas is a professor of psychology at Zayed University

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Install an air filter in your home.

Close your windows and turn on the AC.

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The specs: 2018 Mercedes-Benz GLA

Price, base / as tested Dh150,900 / Dh173,600

Engine 2.0L inline four-cylinder

Transmission Seven-speed automatic

Power 211hp @ 5,500rpm

Torque 350Nm @ 1,200rpm

Fuel economy, combined 6.4L / 100km

Know your Camel lingo

The bairaq is a competition for the best herd of 50 camels, named for the banner its winner takes home

Namoos - a word of congratulations reserved for falconry competitions, camel races and camel pageants. It best translates as 'the pride of victory' - and for competitors, it is priceless

Asayel camels - sleek, short-haired hound-like racers

Majahim - chocolate-brown camels that can grow to weigh two tonnes. They were only valued for milk until camel pageantry took off in the 1990s

Millions Street - the thoroughfare where camels are led and where white 4x4s throng throughout the festival

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The specs

The specs: 2019 Audi Q8
Price, base: Dh315,000
Engine: 3.0-litre turbocharged V6
Gearbox: Eight-speed automatic
Power: 340hp @ 3,500rpm
Torque: 500Nm @ 2,250rpm
Fuel economy, combined: 6.7L / 100km
 

The specs

  Engine: 2-litre or 3-litre 4Motion all-wheel-drive Power: 250Nm (2-litre); 340 (3-litre) Torque: 450Nm Transmission: 8-speed automatic Starting price: From Dh212,000 On sale: Now

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1. Black holes are objects whose gravity is so strong not even light can escape their pull

2. They can be created when massive stars collapse under their own weight

3. Large black holes can also be formed when smaller ones collide and merge

4. The biggest black holes lurk at the centre of many galaxies, including our own

5. Astronomers believe that when the universe was very young, black holes affected how galaxies formed

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SANCTIONED
  • Kirill Shamalov, Russia's youngest billionaire and previously married to Putin's daughter Katarina
  • Petr Fradkov, head of recently sanctioned Promsvyazbank and son of former head of Russian Foreign Intelligence, the FSB. 
  • Denis Bortnikov, Deputy President of Russia's largest bank VTB. He is the son of Alexander Bortnikov, head of the FSB which was responsible for the poisoning of political activist Alexey Navalny in August 2020 with banned chemical agent novichok.  
  • Yury Slyusar, director of United Aircraft Corporation, a major aircraft manufacturer for the Russian military.
  • Elena Aleksandrovna Georgieva, chair of the board of Novikombank, a state-owned defence conglomerate.
Tailors and retailers miss out on back-to-school rush

Tailors and retailers across the city said it was an ominous start to what is usually a busy season for sales.
With many parents opting to continue home learning for their children, the usual rush to buy school uniforms was muted this year.
“So far we have taken about 70 to 80 orders for items like shirts and trousers,” said Vikram Attrai, manager at Stallion Bespoke Tailors in Dubai.
“Last year in the same period we had about 200 orders and lots of demand.
“We custom fit uniform pieces and use materials such as cotton, wool and cashmere.
“Depending on size, a white shirt with logo is priced at about Dh100 to Dh150 and shorts, trousers, skirts and dresses cost between Dh150 to Dh250 a piece.”

A spokesman for Threads, a uniform shop based in Times Square Centre Dubai, said customer footfall had slowed down dramatically over the past few months.

“Now parents have the option to keep children doing online learning they don’t need uniforms so it has quietened down.”

COMPANY PROFILE
Name: Almnssa
Started: August 2020
Founder: Areej Selmi
Based: Gaza
Sectors: Internet, e-commerce
Investments: Grants/private funding
The biog

Name: Fareed Lafta

Age: 40

From: Baghdad, Iraq

Mission: Promote world peace

Favourite poet: Al Mutanabbi

Role models: His parents 

The specs

Engine: 1.5-litre turbo

Power: 181hp

Torque: 230Nm

Transmission: 6-speed automatic

Starting price: Dh79,000

On sale: Now

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Living in...

This article is part of a guide on where to live in the UAE. Our reporters will profile some of the country’s most desirable districts, provide an estimate of rental prices and introduce you to some of the residents who call each area home.

RESULT

Los Angeles Galaxy 2 Manchester United 5

Galaxy: Dos Santos (79', 88')
United: Rashford (2', 20'), Fellaini (26'), Mkhitaryan (67'), Martial (72')

SPECS

Mini John Cooper Works Clubman and Mini John Cooper Works Countryman

Engine: two-litre 4-cylinder turbo

Transmission: nine-speed automatic

Power: 306hp

Torque: 450Nm

Price: JCW Clubman, Dh220,500; JCW Countryman, Dh225,500

Draw:

Group A: Egypt, DR Congo, Uganda, Zimbabwe

Group B: Nigeria, Guinea, Madagascar, Burundi

Group C: Senegal, Algeria, Kenya, Tanzania

Group D: Morocco, Ivory Coast, South Africa, Namibia

Group E: Tunisia, Mali, Mauritania, Angola

Group F: Cameroon, Ghana, Benin, Guinea-Bissau

Tips for job-seekers
  • Do not submit your application through the Easy Apply button on LinkedIn. Employers receive between 600 and 800 replies for each job advert on the platform. If you are the right fit for a job, connect to a relevant person in the company on LinkedIn and send them a direct message.
  • Make sure you are an exact fit for the job advertised. If you are an HR manager with five years’ experience in retail and the job requires a similar candidate with five years’ experience in consumer, you should apply. But if you have no experience in HR, do not apply for the job.

David Mackenzie, founder of recruitment agency Mackenzie Jones Middle East

Netherlands v UAE, Twenty20 International series

Saturday, August 3 - First T20i, Amstelveen
Monday, August 5 – Second T20i, Amstelveen​​​​​​​
Tuesday, August 6 – Third T20i, Voorburg​​​​​​​
Thursday, August 8 – Fourth T20i, Vooryburg

Joker: Folie a Deux

Starring: Joaquin Phoenix, Lady Gaga, Brendan Gleeson

Director: Todd Phillips 

Rating: 2/5

Know your cyber adversaries

Cryptojacking: Compromises a device or network to mine cryptocurrencies without an organisation's knowledge.

Distributed denial-of-service: Floods systems, servers or networks with information, effectively blocking them.

Man-in-the-middle attack: Intercepts two-way communication to obtain information, spy on participants or alter the outcome.

Malware: Installs itself in a network when a user clicks on a compromised link or email attachment.

Phishing: Aims to secure personal information, such as passwords and credit card numbers.

Ransomware: Encrypts user data, denying access and demands a payment to decrypt it.

Spyware: Collects information without the user's knowledge, which is then passed on to bad actors.

Trojans: Create a backdoor into systems, which becomes a point of entry for an attack.

Viruses: Infect applications in a system and replicate themselves as they go, just like their biological counterparts.

Worms: Send copies of themselves to other users or contacts. They don't attack the system, but they overload it.

Zero-day exploit: Exploits a vulnerability in software before a fix is found.

COMPANY PROFILE
Name: HyperSpace
 
Started: 2020
 
Founders: Alexander Heller, Rama Allen and Desi Gonzalez
 
Based: Dubai, UAE
 
Sector: Entertainment 
 
Number of staff: 210 
 
Investment raised: $75 million from investors including Galaxy Interactive, Riyadh Season, Sega Ventures and Apis Venture Partners
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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