A common sight: browsing social media on phones at the cost of real human interactions. Getty
A common sight: browsing social media on phones at the cost of real human interactions. Getty
A common sight: browsing social media on phones at the cost of real human interactions. Getty
A common sight: browsing social media on phones at the cost of real human interactions. Getty

If you wish to spend less time on social media in the new year, figure out why


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The tradition of making New Year's resolutions stretches back centuries. In ancient Babylon, as the new year rolled in, people would repay old debts, right past wrongs and drop bad habits. Even our English word for January is derived from Janus, the two-faced Roman deity associated with beginnings, doorways and transitions. For many of us, New Year's Eve remains a doorway, a transitional portal to new and improved lifestyles.

For decades the same resolutions have topped the list: lose weight, quit smoking, become fit, save more money. However, in recent years, a new resolution has joined the ranks: a desire to quit social media, or at least to spend less time on it. I occasionally catch myself scrolling through my feed meaninglessly. And so for 2020, I have resolved to refine my habits and not squander time.

Going public with resolutions makes them harder to break as we deepen our commitment and increase the cost of failure, adding the threat of social embarrassment into the motivational mix 

The idea that many of us want to spend less time scrolling through feeds is reflected in the results of a Pew Research Center survey last year. The survey asked 743 US teenagers between the ages of 13 and 17 about their digital consumption. A substantial 41 per cent felt that they spent too much time online. More than half these teens, 57 per cent, reported that they had been trying to cut down on social media.

A similar survey undertaken in the UK earlier this year suggests the same patterns among adults, with 35 per cent reporting attempts to reduce the time they spend online. There are also long lists of celebrities either "taking a break" or deactivating their accounts and leaving altogether. Some vanish for good while others like the American rapper Kanye West tend to reappear. In April, politician Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez gave up Facebook, suggesting that "social media poses a public health risk to everybody". 

There is substantial evidence linking problematic social media use with mental health problems such as depression and anxiety. Research published in the peer-reviewed journal Computers in Human Behavior states that it was not simply about how much time we spent on social media but also how we engaged with it, whether we were active or passive, consuming information intentionally or aimlessly.

If we are planning to reduce the time we spend on our phones, we might consider cutting out the indiscriminate access, that is, opening an app for no reason. We could also reduce passive scrolling: viewing content without commenting, liking or interacting, the sort of patterns that most strongly predict psychological problems. Skimming through people's updates just before going to bed is also problematic. And if opening apps is the first thing we do in the morning, it is best not to sleep with the phone by our bedside.

Changing habits can be difficult, especially when they become ingrained. However, a few simple steps can tip the balance in our favour. Turning off notifications, for example, can help. Or better still, deleting apps from the phone and accessing media from a computer by logging in anew each time. If a task becomes more inconvenient, we are less likely to do it without good reason. 

The time we save by not engaging in passive consumption of social media could be used in fruitful ways. It could also improve our quality of sleep and reduce the risk of developing eating disorders, not to mention help our self-esteem by sparing us our ill-made comparisons with other people. Reducing scrolling time would mean less time spent in a state of Fomo  fear of missing out. Spending time away from browsing updates might also do wonders for the quality of our relationships, online and offline. Meeting friends without having already read their online updates gives us more to talk about. And commenting on content instead of merely scrolling is likely to lead to more meaningful and enriching interactions.

It is ultimately up to us though whether we can embark on this self-improvement and commit to it in the new year. And if we are going to try, we might want to tell the world about it. Research suggests that going public with resolutions makes them harder to break as we deepen our commitment and increase the cost of failure, adding the threat of social embarrassment into the motivational mix. 

If we are planning to quit or modify our social media use in 2020, how likely are we to succeed? A study exploring resolution-keeping published in the Journal of Substance Abuse found that only 19 per cent of resolution-makers maintained their pledges after two years. One in five of us will fail within two years, most within the first few weeks.

Behavioural change takes effort and it helps to keep in mind why we are making those changes in the first place. As the German philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche said: "He who has a why can deal with any how." Going into the new year, if we remain mindful of the reason for wanting a change, we are more likely to pull through.

Justin Thomas is a psychology professor at Zayed University

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Spending an excessive amount of time on the phone.

Neglecting personal, social, or academic responsibilities.

Losing interest in other activities or hobbies that were once enjoyed.

Having withdrawal symptoms like feeling anxious, restless, or upset when the technology is not available.

Experiencing sleep disturbances or changes in sleep patterns.

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Under 18 months: Avoid screen time altogether, except for video chatting with family.

Aged 18-24 months: If screens are introduced, it should be high-quality content watched with a caregiver to help the child understand what they are seeing.

Aged 2-5 years: Limit to one-hour per day of high-quality programming, with co-viewing whenever possible.

Aged 6-12 years: Set consistent limits on screen time to ensure it does not interfere with sleep, physical activity, or social interactions.

Teenagers: Encourage a balanced approach – screens should not replace sleep, exercise, or face-to-face socialisation.

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Mercer, the investment consulting arm of US services company Marsh & McLennan, expects its wealth division to at least double its assets under management (AUM) in the Middle East as wealth in the region continues to grow despite economic headwinds, a company official said.

Mercer Wealth, which globally has $160 billion in AUM, plans to boost its AUM in the region to $2-$3bn in the next 2-3 years from the present $1bn, said Yasir AbuShaban, a Dubai-based principal with Mercer Wealth.

Within the next two to three years, we are looking at reaching $2 to $3 billion as a conservative estimate and we do see an opportunity to do so,” said Mr AbuShaban.

Mercer does not directly make investments, but allocates clients’ money they have discretion to, to professional asset managers. They also provide advice to clients.

“We have buying power. We can negotiate on their (client’s) behalf with asset managers to provide them lower fees than they otherwise would have to get on their own,” he added.

Mercer Wealth’s clients include sovereign wealth funds, family offices, and insurance companies among others.

From its office in Dubai, Mercer also looks after Africa, India and Turkey, where they also see opportunity for growth.

Wealth creation in Middle East and Africa (MEA) grew 8.5 per cent to $8.1 trillion last year from $7.5tn in 2015, higher than last year’s global average of 6 per cent and the second-highest growth in a region after Asia-Pacific which grew 9.9 per cent, according to consultancy Boston Consulting Group (BCG). In the region, where wealth grew just 1.9 per cent in 2015 compared with 2014, a pickup in oil prices has helped in wealth generation.

BCG is forecasting MEA wealth will rise to $12tn by 2021, growing at an annual average of 8 per cent.

Drivers of wealth generation in the region will be split evenly between new wealth creation and growth of performance of existing assets, according to BCG.

Another general trend in the region is clients’ looking for a comprehensive approach to investing, according to Mr AbuShaban.

“Institutional investors or some of the families are seeing a slowdown in the available capital they have to invest and in that sense they are looking at optimizing the way they manage their portfolios and making sure they are not investing haphazardly and different parts of their investment are working together,” said Mr AbuShaban.

Some clients also have a higher appetite for risk, given the low interest-rate environment that does not provide enough yield for some institutional investors. These clients are keen to invest in illiquid assets, such as private equity and infrastructure.

“What we have seen is a desire for higher returns in what has been a low-return environment specifically in various fixed income or bonds,” he said.

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The Abu Dhabi Investment Authority, one of the largest sovereign wealth funds, said in its 2016 report that has gradually increased its exposure in direct private equity and private credit transactions, mainly in Asian markets and especially in China and India. The authority’s private equity department focused on structured equities owing to “their defensive characteristics.”