Don’t surrender to negative thoughts ... give it your best shot


  • English
  • Arabic

It happened so randomly. I was at a seminar and was seated next to a young woman. We exchanged hellos and our business cards a few minutes later. She held my card for a while, before she looked up at me wide-eyed and asked if I was the same person as the columnist in The National. I smiled and said I was.

She gasped and said she had been reading my columns for a long time, adding that she could not believe she had finally met me so randomly. I was thrilled. It is always lovely to hear what people think about your work. She added that she too wanted to be a writer. I asked her why she did not become one. She replied that no one would publish her work.

When I started writing regularly in my teenage years, no newspaper or magazine would take my work, not because I was not good enough but because I did not try to get them published.

I wrote endlessly in my journals. The stacks of them on the upper shelf of my cupboard are a testimony to how I spent some of my summer days as a teenager. I then wrote on online forums and blogs. Anyone could write there. There were countless other youngsters like me who posted their literary work and daily reflections.

Soon I had a story in my mind that I wanted to share with the world. I posted a chapter every day on an online forum for three weeks, and when it was finished I went for a summer break with my family. When I came back, I visited the website and my story had been viewed by more than 20,000 readers. Years later, it has been viewed more than 100,000 times.

I was always a writer. While I did not write in a published magazine or a newspaper at the time, I still noted my thoughts. I started somewhere.

Then I went to college and wrote less and less. After graduating, I still had the writing itch and with more time on my hands I could finally write as much as I wanted.

I contacted magazines and asked if I could contribute my work. They asked for samples and I sent off my reflections. The editors loved my work and said I had the kind of voice they yearned to have in their pages. It was not long before I was published. I still remember holding my first published piece proudly in hand.

And then, someone new came into my life and read some of my published work in local magazines. He was an editor at The National and asked if I would be willing to contribute. I had two weeks to work on my first business feature. I submitted it nervously, but he said he loved it. I was thrilled and shocked to see that it was given half a page of space.

Thereafter, my mentor said that my work was professional-grade and that I should write a regular column, and charge a fee for it.

It was not long before my passion and hobby became a source of income.

I decided not to limit myself with geographical boundaries. I contributed to international magazines and online portals. I have been told that I would make a good scriptwriter and that I am a great storyteller, so I have decided to write my first novel.

Now, years later, looking back at what I have accomplished and the awards I have received for being an inspirational young person, I realise I have achieved all of this because I refused to limit myself to boundaries and refused to surrender to negative thoughts such as “No one will like my work,” or “I’m not good enough”.

I was not a writer, but I started writing. I was not a columnist, but I gave it a shot. I did not think that I could write a novel, but I am.

Imagine all the things that you could achieve if you just started. It does not matter when. It does not matter where. What is important is that you do it, and that you take that first step forward. It’s all downhill from there.

Manar Al Hinai is an award-winning Emirati writer based in Abu Dhabi. Follow her on Twitter: @manar_alhinai

Follow The National's Business section on Twitter

MATCH INFO

Uefa Champions League semi-final, first leg
Bayern Munich v Real Madrid

When: April 25, 10.45pm kick-off (UAE)
Where: Allianz Arena, Munich
Live: BeIN Sports HD
Second leg: May 1, Santiago Bernabeu, Madrid

THE SPECS

Engine: 3.6-litre V6

Transmission: eight-speed automatic

Power: 285bhp

Torque: 353Nm

Price: TBA

On sale: Q2, 2020

Avatar: Fire and Ash

Director: James Cameron

Starring: Sam Worthington, Sigourney Weaver, Zoe Saldana

Rating: 4.5/5

Dust and sand storms compared

Sand storm

  • Particle size: Larger, heavier sand grains
  • Visibility: Often dramatic with thick "walls" of sand
  • Duration: Short-lived, typically localised
  • Travel distance: Limited 
  • Source: Open desert areas with strong winds

Dust storm

  • Particle size: Much finer, lightweight particles
  • Visibility: Hazy skies but less intense
  • Duration: Can linger for days
  • Travel distance: Long-range, up to thousands of kilometres
  • Source: Can be carried from distant regions
THE SPECS

      

 

Engine: 1.5-litre

 

Transmission: 6-speed automatic

 

Power: 110 horsepower 

 

Torque: 147Nm 

 

Price: From Dh59,700 

 

On sale: now  

 
The specs

Engine: 1.5-litre turbo

Power: 181hp

Torque: 230Nm

Transmission: 6-speed automatic

Starting price: Dh79,000

On sale: Now

The%C2%A0specs%20
%3Cp%3E%0D%3Cstrong%3EEngine%3A%20%3C%2Fstrong%3E6-cylinder%2C%204.8-litre%20%0D%3Cbr%3E%3Cstrong%3ETransmission%3A%20%3C%2Fstrong%3E5-speed%20automatic%20and%20manual%0D%3Cbr%3E%3Cstrong%3EPower%3A%20%3C%2Fstrong%3E280%20brake%20horsepower%20%0D%3Cbr%3E%3Cstrong%3ETorque%3A%20%3C%2Fstrong%3E451Nm%20%0D%3Cbr%3E%3Cstrong%3EPrice%3A%20%3C%2Fstrong%3Efrom%20Dh153%2C00%0D%3Cbr%3E%3Cstrong%3EOn%20sale%3A%20%3C%2Fstrong%3Enow%3C%2Fp%3E%0A
SQUADS

South Africa:
JP Duminy (capt), Hashim Amla, Farhaan Behardien, Quinton de Kock (wkt), AB de Villiers, Robbie Frylinck, Beuran Hendricks, David Miller, Mangaliso Mosehle (wkt), Dane Paterson, Aaron Phangiso, Andile Phehlukwayo, Dwaine Pretorius, Tabraiz Shamsi

Bangladesh
Shakib Al Hasan (capt), Imrul Kayes, Liton Das (wkt), Mahmudullah, Mehidy Hasan, Mohammad Saifuddin, Mominul Haque, Mushfiqur Rahim (wkt), Nasir Hossain, Rubel Hossain, Sabbir Rahman, Shafiul Islam, Soumya Sarkar, Taskin Ahmed

Fixtures
Oct 26: Bloemfontein
Oct 29: Potchefstroom

Naga
%3Cp%3E%3Cstrong%3EDirector%3A%C2%A0%3C%2Fstrong%3EMeshal%20Al%20Jaser%3C%2Fp%3E%0A%3Cp%3E%3Cstrong%3EStarring%3A%C2%A0%3C%2Fstrong%3EAdwa%20Bader%2C%20Yazeed%20Almajyul%2C%20Khalid%20Bin%20Shaddad%3C%2Fp%3E%0A%3Cp%3E%3Cstrong%3ERating%3A%20%3C%2Fstrong%3E4%2F5%3C%2Fp%3E%0A
Four%20scenarios%20for%20Ukraine%20war
%3Cp%3E1.%20Protracted%20but%20less%20intense%20war%20(60%25%20likelihood)%3C%2Fp%3E%0A%3Cp%3E2.%20Negotiated%20end%20to%20the%20conflict%20(30%25)%3C%2Fp%3E%0A%3Cp%3E3.%20Russia%20seizes%20more%20territory%20(20%25)%3C%2Fp%3E%0A%3Cp%3E4.%20Ukraine%20pushes%20Russia%20back%20(10%25)%3C%2Fp%3E%0A%3Cp%3E%3Cem%3EForecast%20by%20Economist%20Intelligence%20Unit%3C%2Fem%3E%3C%2Fp%3E%0A