Acid attacks on women in India reflect society’s attitudes



Harpreet Kaur, slim, pretty and just 22, was sitting in her local beauty parlour getting her bridal make-up done for her wedding later that day when two men rushed in, flung acid on her and fled. The burns she suffered were so severe that her heart, liver and kidneys were affected. After indescribable suffering at a local hospital in Punjab, her condition worsened and she was flown to a special burns hospital in Mumbai. On December 27, she died.

Last year, Jaikumar Vinodhini, 23, was attacked with acid by a spurned suitor while she walked to a bus stop one night. Her eyes melted in their sockets and she suffered 40 per cent burns to her body. She also died later.

Kaur and Vinodhini were the latest victims to suffer an acid attack. Many have endured similarly horrific deformities, which condemned them to endless operations, social stigma and seclusion.

In the flux that characterises Indian society – a new social order emerging while the old has yet to fade away – some Indian men are unable to tolerate the slightest wound, imaginary or real, to their ego.

In the old order, women were docile and obedient. In the burgeoning order, women are independent. If they wish to end a relationship, they just do. If a man shows unwanted attention, they spurn him. If a group of men on a street corner ogle or make smutty comments as she passes, she confronts them. If a man’s proposal of marriage is of no interest to her, she declines it. These are things people accustomed to a sense of male entitlement cannot take. In their world view, a woman should be grateful for any interest a man shows in her.

He is used to women being subservient. Hindu mythology and some scriptures show disrespect for women. They mostly teach a woman to obey her father and regard her husband as a god. A woman eats only when her husband has eaten. She walks behind him in public, at least in rural India.

But all this is changing, as millions of men and women have migrated from villages and small towns to big cities. Women are now educated and they work. When men and women meet in urban places, the men tend to behave according to the old norms that suggest that any single woman is available for their enjoyment. But women tend to behave according to modern ideas of individual freedom and sexual equality. That is when the collision happens.

When a man throws acid on a woman, his intention is to subjugate her and show her who is in charge. Men resort to violent attacks as women assert themselves by challenging men’s authority and expectations.

In Kaur’s case, there was no vengeful male. She was the victim of a feud in the family of her fiancé. The divorced sister-in-law of her fiancé had apparently vowed not to allow another wedding in the family and she paid for the two assailants to disfigure Kaur on her wedding day.

The other reason men in India choose acid is because it is easy and cheap to buy. One can walk into any grocery store and ask for a litre of acid for just 30 rupees. India has yet to restrict access to acid. Following the failure of local governments to give compensation or pay for the cosmetic surgery that victims require, the country’s Supreme court on July 14 ordered all of India’s 28 state governments to ban the unauthorised sale of acid.

When, in November, the court asked the states what progress had been made, it turned out that only one state government had complied with the order. Between July and November, 20 acid attacks took place.

This indifference exposes the callous attitude towards women in India, which is why, in survey after survey, India is ranked as the worst country in the world to be a woman.

Given the procrastination shown by the states, tough penalties need to be imposed on state governments that fail to curb the sale of acid by a certain date. It’s neither a complicated nor a controversial measure. All it needs is will and enforcement.

The fact that 27 out of 28 states have ignored the court order supports what all acid victims say: with some honourable exceptions, society does not rally behind them. Relatives drift away after shedding a few tears. Neighbours keep their distance. They are not welcome at any social function because their “deformed” faces frighten people. Their isolation is total.

While the supreme court’s effort to stop acid attacks is commendable, society also needs to be more compassionate. Kaur’s fiancé, for example, did not once call her family.

Amrit Dhillon is a freelance journalist in New Delhi

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What should do investors do now?

What does the S&P 500's new all-time high mean for the average investor? 

Should I be euphoric?

No. It's fine to be pleased about hearty returns on your investments. But it's not a good idea to tie your emotions closely to the ups and downs of the stock market. You'll get tired fast. This market moment comes on the heels of last year's nosedive. And it's not the first or last time the stock market will make a dramatic move.

So what happened?

It's more about what happened last year. Many of the concerns that triggered that plunge towards the end of last have largely been quelled. The US and China are slowly moving toward a trade agreement. The Federal Reserve has indicated it likely will not raise rates at all in 2019 after seven recent increases. And those changes, along with some strong earnings reports and broader healthy economic indicators, have fueled some optimism in stock markets.

"The panic in the fourth quarter was based mostly on fears," says Brent Schutte, chief investment strategist for Northwestern Mutual Wealth Management Company. "The fundamentals have mostly held up, while the fears have gone away and the fears were based mostly on emotion."

Should I buy? Should I sell?

Maybe. It depends on what your long-term investment plan is. The best advice is usually the same no matter the day — determine your financial goals, make a plan to reach them and stick to it.

"I would encourage (investors) not to overreact to highs, just as I would encourage them not to overreact to the lows of December," Mr Schutte says.

All the same, there are some situations in which you should consider taking action. If you think you can't live through another low like last year, the time to get out is now. If the balance of assets in your portfolio is out of whack thanks to the rise of the stock market, make adjustments. And if you need your money in the next five to 10 years, it shouldn't be in stocks anyhow. But for most people, it's also a good time to just leave things be.

Resist the urge to abandon the diversification of your portfolio, Mr Schutte cautions. It may be tempting to shed other investments that aren't performing as well, such as some international stocks, but diversification is designed to help steady your performance over time.

Will the rally last?

No one knows for sure. But David Bailin, chief investment officer at Citi Private Bank, expects the US market could move up 5 per cent to 7 per cent more over the next nine to 12 months, provided the Fed doesn't raise rates and earnings growth exceeds current expectations. We are in a late cycle market, a period when US equities have historically done very well, but volatility also rises, he says.

"This phase can last six months to several years, but it's important clients remain invested and not try to prematurely position for a contraction of the market," Mr Bailin says. "Doing so would risk missing out on important portfolio returns."

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Do your homework
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Don’t be afraid to negotiate

It’s quite standard to negotiate if you think an offer is on the low side. The job is unlikely to be withdrawn if you ask for money, and if that did happen I’d question whether you want to work for an employer who is so hypersensitive.
 
Know your worth
Women tend to be a bit more reticent to talk about their achievements. In my experience they need to have more confidence in their own abilities – men will big up what they’ve done to get a pay rise, and to compete women need to turn up the volume.
 
Work together
If you suspect men in your organisation are being paid more, look your boss in the eye and say, “I want you to assure me that I’m paid equivalent to my peers”. If you’re not getting a straight answer, talk to your peer group and consider taking direct action to fix inequality.

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Prince Khaled bin Alwaleed bin Talal's new plant-based menu will launch at Four Seasons hotels in Dubai this November. A desire to cater to people looking for clean, healthy meals beyond green salad is what inspired Prince Khaled and American celebrity chef Matthew Kenney to create Folia. The word means "from the leaves" in Latin, and the exclusive menu offers fine plant-based cuisine across Four Seasons properties in Los Angeles, Bahrain and, soon, Dubai.

Kenney specialises in vegan cuisine and is the founder of Plant Food Wine and 20 other restaurants worldwide. "I’ve always appreciated Matthew’s work," says the Saudi royal. "He has a singular culinary talent and his approach to plant-based dining is prescient and unrivalled. I was a fan of his long before we established our professional relationship."

Folia first launched at The Four Seasons Hotel Los Angeles at Beverly Hills in July 2018. It is available at the poolside Cabana Restaurant and for in-room dining across the property, as well as in its private event space. The food is vibrant and colourful, full of fresh dishes such as the hearts of palm ceviche with California fruit, vegetables and edible flowers; green hearb tacos filled with roasted squash and king oyster barbacoa; and a savoury coconut cream pie with macadamia crust.

In March 2019, the Folia menu reached Gulf shores, as it was introduced at the Four Seasons Hotel Bahrain Bay, where it is served at the Bay View Lounge. Next, on Tuesday, November 1 – also known as World Vegan Day – it will come to the UAE, to the Four Seasons Resort Dubai at Jumeirah Beach and the Four Seasons DIFC, both properties Prince Khaled has spent "considerable time at and love". 

There are also plans to take Folia to several more locations throughout the Middle East and Europe.

While health-conscious diners will be attracted to the concept, Prince Khaled is careful to stress Folia is "not meant for a specific subset of customers. It is meant for everyone who wants a culinary experience without the negative impact that eating out so often comes with."

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Hepatitis is an inflammation of the liver, which can lead to fibrosis (scarring), cirrhosis or liver cancer.

There are 5 main hepatitis viruses, referred to as types A, B, C, D and E.

Hepatitis C is mostly transmitted through exposure to infective blood. This can occur through blood transfusions, contaminated injections during medical procedures, and through injecting drugs. Sexual transmission is also possible, but is much less common.

People infected with hepatitis C experience few or no symptoms, meaning they can live with the virus for years without being diagnosed. This delay in treatment can increase the risk of significant liver damage.

There are an estimated 170 million carriers of Hepatitis C around the world.

The virus causes approximately 399,000 fatalities each year worldwide, according to WHO.

 

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Gender pay parity on track in the UAE

The UAE has a good record on gender pay parity, according to Mercer's Total Remuneration Study.

"In some of the lower levels of jobs women tend to be paid more than men, primarily because men are employed in blue collar jobs and women tend to be employed in white collar jobs which pay better," said Ted Raffoul, career products leader, Mena at Mercer. "I am yet to see a company in the UAE – particularly when you are looking at a blue chip multinationals or some of the bigger local companies – that actively discriminates when it comes to gender on pay."

Mr Raffoul said most gender issues are actually due to the cultural class, as the population is dominated by Asian and Arab cultures where men are generally expected to work and earn whereas women are meant to start a family.

"For that reason, we see a different gender gap. There are less women in senior roles because women tend to focus less on this but that’s not due to any companies having a policy penalising women for any reasons – it’s a cultural thing," he said.

As a result, Mr Raffoul said many companies in the UAE are coming up with benefit package programmes to help working mothers and the career development of women in general. 

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