Abdulla Okal and his wife Haneen, who have family in Gaza, were both born and raised in New Jersey. Photo: Abdulla Okal
Abdulla Okal and his wife Haneen, who have family in Gaza, were both born and raised in New Jersey. Photo: Abdulla Okal
Abdulla Okal and his wife Haneen, who have family in Gaza, were both born and raised in New Jersey. Photo: Abdulla Okal
Abdulla Okal and his wife Haneen, who have family in Gaza, were both born and raised in New Jersey. Photo: Abdulla Okal

Palestinian Americans trapped in Gaza plead for help


Jihan Abdalla
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Abdulla Okal’s wife Haneen and their three young children – all American citizens – were at the Rafah border crossing on the verge of leaving Gaza on Tuesday when Israeli shells began to fall.

As the air strikes continued, Ms Okal realised she had little choice but to return to her parents’ house in the northern Gaza Strip.

It is a family's worst “nightmare”, Mr Okal said.

Encouraged by a recent Israeli decision to enable the entry of Palestinian Americans to Gaza, the New Jersey family decided to spend the summer in the enclave, partly so Ms Okal could give birth in her homeland, surrounded by her extended family, for the first time.

Mr Okal left Gaza on August 19 to return to the US and get his newborn son an American passport so the whole family could leave together. But before that could happen, Hamas launched a deadly attack on Israel on October 7, prompting Israel to declare war on Gaza.

The conflict has already claimed thousands of lives in Gaza and Israel.

“It’s very painful and I am under so much stress,” Mr Okal told The National from New Jersey. “I wish I was with them. At least we could die together. I am just constantly waiting for text messages to tell me they’re still alive.”

Ms Okal and her children, aged eight, two and two months, are among an unknown number of US citizens trapped in the Gaza Strip. They and their families back home are demanding that US President Joe Biden do more to stop the Israeli strikes and help them to leave Gaza.

“There is clear discrimination. There are many American citizens in Gaza – we’re just like everyone else,” Mr Okal said. He added that he has yet to receive any updates on the situation from the US embassy in Jerusalem.

“President Biden needs to listen to the other side, too.”

On Wednesday, US media reported that the US government was negotiating with Israel and Egypt to create safe passage for American citizens to leave Gaza.

“We do think it’s important that American citizens who are in Gaza be allowed to leave and it’s an issue that we are working on,” State Department spokesman Matthew Miller told CNN.

  • A Palestinian girl holds two children as she stands on a street in Gaza city as Israel continues to launch air strikes. AFP
    A Palestinian girl holds two children as she stands on a street in Gaza city as Israel continues to launch air strikes. AFP
  • Smoke plumes billow during Israeli air strikes on Gaza city. AFP
    Smoke plumes billow during Israeli air strikes on Gaza city. AFP
  • A Palestinian girl following an Israeli air strike in Khan Younis. Reuters
    A Palestinian girl following an Israeli air strike in Khan Younis. Reuters
  • Palestinians survey the rubble of a house destroyed in Israeli strikes in Khan Younis, in the southern Gaza Strip. Reuters
    Palestinians survey the rubble of a house destroyed in Israeli strikes in Khan Younis, in the southern Gaza Strip. Reuters
  • A Palestinian woman, covered in dust, carries a child in Gaza city. AFP
    A Palestinian woman, covered in dust, carries a child in Gaza city. AFP
  • A Palestinian man with a child outside al-Shifa hospital in Gaza city. AFP
    A Palestinian man with a child outside al-Shifa hospital in Gaza city. AFP
  • Israeli soldiers walk through Kibbutz Be'eri. Days earlier Hamas militants killed more than a hundred civilians near the border with Gaza. Getty Images
    Israeli soldiers walk through Kibbutz Be'eri. Days earlier Hamas militants killed more than a hundred civilians near the border with Gaza. Getty Images
  • A wounded Palestinian man Ala Al-Kafarneh, who survived Israeli strikes, attends a hospital in Gaza city. Mr Al-Kafarneh lost his pregnant wife and several members of his family in air strikes after they fled Beit Hanoun. Reuters
    A wounded Palestinian man Ala Al-Kafarneh, who survived Israeli strikes, attends a hospital in Gaza city. Mr Al-Kafarneh lost his pregnant wife and several members of his family in air strikes after they fled Beit Hanoun. Reuters
  • Supermarket shelves containing dry goods are left depleted in Tel Aviv. Getty Images
    Supermarket shelves containing dry goods are left depleted in Tel Aviv. Getty Images
  • An injured Palestinian man arrives at Al-Shefa hospital in Gaza city. EPA
    An injured Palestinian man arrives at Al-Shefa hospital in Gaza city. EPA
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    A boot lies on the ground outside a damaged house in Be'eri, Israel. EPA
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    An Israeli army self-propelled howitzer near the border with Gaza in southern Israel. AFP
  • Palestinian mourners during the funerals of Al-Agha family members killed in Israeli strikes in Khan Younis in the southern Gaza Strip. Reuters
    Palestinian mourners during the funerals of Al-Agha family members killed in Israeli strikes in Khan Younis in the southern Gaza Strip. Reuters
  • Family and friends of May Naim, 24, who was killed by Palestinians militants at a party near the Israeli border with the Gaza Strip, during her funeral in Gan Haim, Israel. Getty Images
    Family and friends of May Naim, 24, who was killed by Palestinians militants at a party near the Israeli border with the Gaza Strip, during her funeral in Gan Haim, Israel. Getty Images
  • Palestinian children in Khan Younis fill bottles with water from public taps during the conflict with Israel. Reuters
    Palestinian children in Khan Younis fill bottles with water from public taps during the conflict with Israel. Reuters
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    Men outside a morgue in Khan Yunis console a woman mourning loved ones killed in an Israeli air strike. AFP
  • A Palestinian girl injured in Israeli strikes is taken to hospital in Gaza City. Reuters
    A Palestinian girl injured in Israeli strikes is taken to hospital in Gaza City. Reuters
  • An Israeli woman is evacuated by paramedics following a rocket attack launched from the Gaza Strip into Israel, in Sderot. Reuters
    An Israeli woman is evacuated by paramedics following a rocket attack launched from the Gaza Strip into Israel, in Sderot. Reuters
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    A man looks at the destruction in the ravaged Jabalia refugee camp, following overnight Israeli air strikes. AFP
  • The daughter of Zakaria Abu Maamar, a member of Hamas's political office, at her father's funeral, after he was killed in an air strike in Khan Younis. Reuters
    The daughter of Zakaria Abu Maamar, a member of Hamas's political office, at her father's funeral, after he was killed in an air strike in Khan Younis. Reuters
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    A collapsed building after an Israeli bombardment in Gaza City. AFP
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    Firefighters attend a burning building after an Israeli bombardment in Gaza City. AFP
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    Women and children in Gaza City. AFP
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    An Israeli army soldier passes a Merkava battle tank in northern Israel near the border with Lebanon. AFP
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    An Israeli strike on the port of Gaza City. AFP
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    Demonstrators outside the West Los Angeles Federal Building in California during a rally in support of Israel. AFP
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    Mourners at the funeral of Palestinians killed in overnight Israeli shelling in Khan Younis in Gaza. AFP
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    Israeli journalists take cover during a rocket attack from Gaza in the southern Israeli kibbutz of Kfar Aza near the border. AFP
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    Palestinians rescue a young girl from the rubble of a destroyed residential building following an Israeli air strike. AP
  • Mourners at the graveside of Eden Guez, who was killed as she attended a festival that was attacked by Hamas gunmen from Gaza. Reuters
    Mourners at the graveside of Eden Guez, who was killed as she attended a festival that was attacked by Hamas gunmen from Gaza. Reuters
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    An Israeli fireman recovers after extinguishing cars set on fire by a rocket fired from Gaza. AP
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    Smoke billows from a boat after a strike by Israel on the port of Gaza City. AFP
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    Destroyed residential buildings in Gaza City. AP
  • Rockets from Gaza launched towards Israel. Reuters
    Rockets from Gaza launched towards Israel. Reuters
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    A Palestinian woman sits among the rubble in the destroyed Al-Ramal neighborhood following an Israeli air strike in Gaza City. EPA
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    Israeli soldiers in armoured vehicles near the northern town of Kiryat Shmona close to the border with Lebanon. AFP
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    Buildings destroyed by Israeli strikes in Gaza city. Reuters
  • Nicole Izsak, right, confronts a Palestinian supporter near the Israeli consulate in New York, claiming her cousin is being held hostage in Gaza. AFP
    Nicole Izsak, right, confronts a Palestinian supporter near the Israeli consulate in New York, claiming her cousin is being held hostage in Gaza. AFP
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    The abandoned site of the Supernova music festival, besieged by Hamas militants in southern Israel. AFP
  • An attack on the site by Hamas gunmen from Gaza left at least 260 people dead. Reuters
    An attack on the site by Hamas gunmen from Gaza left at least 260 people dead. Reuters
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    A man carries a blood-stained flak jacket belonging to a Palestinian journalist, who was killed with two colleagues when an Israeli missile hit a hospital building while they were outside reporting, in Gaza city. Reuters
  • An Israeli soldier holds a rescued dog as he takes position near a bomb shelter in Kibbutz Kfar Aza, southern Israel. Reuters
    An Israeli soldier holds a rescued dog as he takes position near a bomb shelter in Kibbutz Kfar Aza, southern Israel. Reuters
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    Protesters chant and wave the Palestinian flag at a rally in Melbourne, Australia. Getty Images
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    Israeli border police walk past a burnt-out car as rockets are launched from the Gaza Strip towards Israel, in Ashkelon, southern Israel. Reuters
  • Palestinians amid the rubble following Israeli air strikes that razed a neighbourhood in Gaza city. AP
    Palestinians amid the rubble following Israeli air strikes that razed a neighbourhood in Gaza city. AP
  • Palestinians carry a wounded man at Al Shifa Hospital in Gaza city. EPA
    Palestinians carry a wounded man at Al Shifa Hospital in Gaza city. EPA
  • Palestinians inspect damage in the aftermath of Israeli strikes in Khan Younis, southern Gaza Strip. Reuters
    Palestinians inspect damage in the aftermath of Israeli strikes in Khan Younis, southern Gaza Strip. Reuters

“We’re doing that quietly, like a lot of the diplomatic efforts we undertake. It’s not something that is productive to speak about publicly, but it is something we’re trying to achieve.”

Palestinians in Gaza have been struggling to find safety as Israeli warplanes bombard neighbourhoods, reducing them to rubble.

Israel has completely sealed off the tiny enclave, where 2.3 million people live, cutting off food, water, electricity, medicine and other supplies. The territory's only power plant ran out of fuel on Wednesday.

The White House on Wednesday said that US officials were holding discussions with Israel and Egypt to create a safe passage for civilians to leave Gaza.

"We support safe passages for civilians, civilians are not to blame for what Hamas has done," White House National Security spokesman John Kirby told journalists during a news conference.

"They didn't do anything wrong. And we continue to support safe passages."

On Tuesday, Mr Biden said a number of Americans are among the hostages that were taken by Hamas after the militants' surprise attack on Israel.

He said he was directing a team to share intelligence and send experts to help Israel in recovering the hostages. He made no mention of efforts to help Palestinian Americans leave the territory.

Dina Abu Dagga, another American citizen originally from Gaza, said she knows eight Americans who are currently trapped there.

Ms Abu Dagga says 17 of her family members, among them cousins and their children, have been killed in recent days.

“All the homes in my family’s neighbourhood were destroyed – there is no semblance of life left,” Ms Abu Dagga, who lives in Fresno, California, told The National.

“None of them are Hamas or support Hamas and the children, they’d done nothing wrong except to be born there. They just drank milk and wore diapers.”

Her 85-year old mother – who is in poor health – her brother and sister are still there, she said. They have had to move four times in search of safety.

“My husband and I sleep with our phones in our hands. I have the urge to scream,” Ms Abu Dagga said.

A day before, when she had not heard from her sister for several hours, she thought she had died.

“I feel powerless. I can’t do anything, and I don’t know if I will ever see my family again.”

Mr Okal said his wife and children have moved twice after being instructed to leave the Tel Al Zaatar neighbourhood where they had been staying.

They are now staying with a relative. If that neighbourhood becomes unsafe, they will have nowhere else to go.

“I am asking that my government stop this bloodshed and provide protection to the civilians and allow water, food and electricity to the people in Gaza,” he said.

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Updated: October 11, 2023, 6:14 PM