Despite the title, successful personal finance isn’t about “get rich quick” schemes.
Nor is it about picking the right hot stock or impressing your friends with the latest high-tech toys.
Yet success can still be “meteoric”.
Unlike the views on social media, the news, in books and spouted by stock market gurus, successful personal finance is all about finding a sense of security, giving your children a head start in life, providing for your family, both during life and after death, making intelligent choices and realising some — ideally most — of your life’s dreams.
Attaining this isn’t only for the super-rich. Although the wealthy, by definition, are often best at good financial planning.
Anybody can follow some common-sense principles that will put them on the path towards greater financial freedom.
All it takes is your time, a commitment to educating yourself, following through on your decisions and perhaps a bit of luck. While it sounds simple, it is not always easy.
If you’ve not yet started on this personal finance journey, I have developed 20 short vignettes of wisdom to help you begin.
Whether you already have more than enough money or you’re just starting your big plans for the future — keep these timeless principles in mind each time you make a financial decision and you’ll start to see true progress towards your goals.
1. Take time to define what 'success' means for you
At the end of your life, if you looked back, what do you want to see?
It probably won't be a pile of money in a bank account somewhere. It will most likely be a comfortable home, a sense of security, a nurturing environment in which to raise a family and some meaningful experiences that make great memories.
2. Successful financial planning is all about balance and trade-offs
Recognise that you’ve got the power to choose among varying trade-offs. If life sends you setbacks, there may be creative solutions that allow you to realise a portion of your goals. It's crucial to consider the pros and cons of any financial decision.
3. Educate yourself
To make intelligent financial choices, you’ll need to do some basic research into the topic at hand. That means understanding various terminologies, applying the concepts to your own personal situation and coming to a realistic conclusion.
4. Diversification is not just an investment strategy
You can use diversification in your approach to taxes, school or university fees, among many other topics.
5. Financial planning is dynamic
What works today may not work tomorrow. Changes in tax policy, regulatory parameters or your personal circumstances can have an effect on your finances.
You won’t be able to rely on a financial solution just because it’s always worked in the past. Things change — fast.
6. Use common sense
If you don’t understand it, you’ll never successfully execute it.
Investing and other aspects of personal finance don’t have to be intimidating
Sam Instone,
co-chief executive of wealth management company AES
Investing and other aspects of personal finance don’t have to be intimidating. Don’t let anybody sell you something that doesn’t pass the “smell test”.
For expatriates, this means avoiding commission-heavy, insurance-based investment schemes.
7. Keep it practical
If you’re like most people, you need down-to-earth advice on how to get things done. Focus on the nuts and bolts of taking action once you’ve made a financial decision. Apathy is normally the most costly action you can take.
8. No magic tricks
Throughout time, people have looked for instant solutions to life’s problems. It’s not that easy. Solid financial planning takes time, commitment and long-term follow-through.
9. 'Idiot-proof' your financial decisions
We're all human. Once you’ve made a good financial decision — do it. Set up a structure that runs on autopilot. The less you have to rely on remembering to do something, the better.
10. Don’t panic
11. Do be defensive
Get your ducks in a row to protect your family and your finances. Topics like estate planning and insurance may not be very appealing, but without them, you may be jeopardising your entire financial future.
12. Avoid costly errors
If you watch any kind of sport, you’ll know that the surest way of winning is by avoiding costly errors. The same principles apply to personal finance.
13. There's no one 'right' answer
When you make a financial decision, it’s going to come down to choosing what’s most appropriate for your situation and what you can live with over time. What’s right for your friends and family won’t necessarily be right for you.
14. The right answer for you will be part psychological, part number crunching
The reason it’s called “personal” finance is just that. Your decision will be influenced by your psychological make-up, as well as what the numbers tell you.
15. You don't always have to follow conventional wisdom
The right answer for you may not be what everyone else is doing or what’s been done in the past.
16. Don’t be greedy
You’re setting yourself up for a fall. Remember your financial goals and celebrate when you reach them.
17. Control what you can
You’ll find many things are out of your control, such as stock market volatility, but you can manage variables like investment costs, savings levels and spending patterns.
18. Don’t forget the risk side of the equation
Most of the investment hype is about getting returns. You don’t hear nearly as much about managing risk. When the market is going up, it’s easy to take on more risk than you can successfully tolerate.
19. Learn from your mistakes
Everyone makes financial mistakes — learn from them. Don’t repeat them over and over. Typically, “fail fast and fail forward”.
20. You’re not alone
Whatever is scaring you or causing you to lose sleep, is probably something others are also experiencing.
We can all help each other by talking about our concerns and finding solutions to move closer to our financial goals.
There are lots of great online communities where enthusiasts can get support or the views of other people.
In Dubai, you will find a welcoming group called SimplyFI.
It is the local chapter of the “Bogleheads” — investors who follow the investment strategy of the late Vanguard Group founder, John Bogle, who championed a low-cost, simple investing philosophy — and ChooseFI, a community of financial independence enthusiasts.
Its members are caring and very knowledgeable people, while its resources will help you to learn and get you started on the path towards greater financial freedom.
Sam Instone is co-chief executive of wealth management company AES
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What drives subscription retailing?
Once the domain of newspaper home deliveries, subscription model retailing has combined with e-commerce to permeate myriad products and services.
The concept has grown tremendously around the world and is forecast to thrive further, according to UnivDatos Market Insights’ report on recent and predicted trends in the sector.
The global subscription e-commerce market was valued at $13.2 billion (Dh48.5bn) in 2018. It is forecast to touch $478.2bn in 2025, and include the entertainment, fitness, food, cosmetics, baby care and fashion sectors.
The report says subscription-based services currently constitute “a small trend within e-commerce”. The US hosts almost 70 per cent of recurring plan firms, including leaders Dollar Shave Club, Hello Fresh and Netflix. Walmart and Sephora are among longer established retailers entering the space.
UnivDatos cites younger and affluent urbanites as prime subscription targets, with women currently the largest share of end-users.
That’s expected to remain unchanged until 2025, when women will represent a $246.6bn market share, owing to increasing numbers of start-ups targeting women.
Personal care and beauty occupy the largest chunk of the worldwide subscription e-commerce market, with changing lifestyles, work schedules, customisation and convenience among the chief future drivers.
The specs
Engine: 5.0-litre V8
Power: 480hp at 7,250rpm
Torque: 566Nm at 4,600rpm
Transmission: 10-speed auto
Fuel consumption: L/100km
Price: Dh306,495
On sale: now
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Dirham Stretcher tips for having a baby in the UAE
Selma Abdelhamid, the group's moderator, offers her guide to guide the cost of having a young family:
• Buy second hand stuff
They grow so fast. Don't get a second hand car seat though, unless you 100 per cent know it's not expired and hasn't been in an accident.
• Get a health card and vaccinate your child for free at government health centres
Ms Ma says she discovered this after spending thousands on vaccinations at private clinics.
• Join mum and baby coffee mornings provided by clinics, babysitting companies or nurseries.
Before joining baby classes ask for a free trial session. This way you will know if it's for you or not. You'll be surprised how great some classes are and how bad others are.
• Once baby is ready for solids, cook at home
Take the food with you in reusable pouches or jars. You'll save a fortune and you'll know exactly what you're feeding your child.
Red Joan
Director: Trevor Nunn
Starring: Judi Dench, Sophie Cookson, Tereza Srbova
Rating: 3/5 stars
Avatar: Fire and Ash
Director: James Cameron
Starring: Sam Worthington, Sigourney Weaver, Zoe Saldana
Rating: 4.5/5
The smuggler
Eldarir had arrived at JFK in January 2020 with three suitcases, containing goods he valued at $300, when he was directed to a search area.
Officers found 41 gold artefacts among the bags, including amulets from a funerary set which prepared the deceased for the afterlife.
Also found was a cartouche of a Ptolemaic king on a relief that was originally part of a royal building or temple.
The largest single group of items found in Eldarir’s cases were 400 shabtis, or figurines.
Khouli conviction
Khouli smuggled items into the US by making false declarations to customs about the country of origin and value of the items.
According to Immigration and Customs Enforcement, he provided “false provenances which stated that [two] Egyptian antiquities were part of a collection assembled by Khouli's father in Israel in the 1960s” when in fact “Khouli acquired the Egyptian antiquities from other dealers”.
He was sentenced to one year of probation, six months of home confinement and 200 hours of community service in 2012 after admitting buying and smuggling Egyptian antiquities, including coffins, funerary boats and limestone figures.
For sale
A number of other items said to come from the collection of Ezeldeen Taha Eldarir are currently or recently for sale.
Their provenance is described in near identical terms as the British Museum shabti: bought from Salahaddin Sirmali, "authenticated and appraised" by Hossen Rashed, then imported to the US in 1948.
- An Egyptian Mummy mask dating from 700BC-30BC, is on offer for £11,807 ($15,275) online by a seller in Mexico
- A coffin lid dating back to 664BC-332BC was offered for sale by a Colorado-based art dealer, with a starting price of $65,000
- A shabti that was on sale through a Chicago-based coin dealer, dating from 1567BC-1085BC, is up for $1,950
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Engine: 2.0-litre 4cyl turbo
Power: 248hp at 5,200rpm
Torque: 400Nm at 1,750-4,000rpm
Transmission: 8-speed auto
Fuel consumption: 9.1L/100km
On sale: Now
Price: From Dh149,900
Iftar programme at the Sheikh Mohammed Centre for Cultural Understanding
Established in 1998, the Sheikh Mohammed Centre for Cultural Understanding was created with a vision to teach residents about the traditions and customs of the UAE. Its motto is ‘open doors, open minds’. All year-round, visitors can sign up for a traditional Emirati breakfast, lunch or dinner meal, as well as a range of walking tours, including ones to sites such as the Jumeirah Mosque or Al Fahidi Historical Neighbourhood.
Every year during Ramadan, an iftar programme is rolled out. This allows guests to break their fast with the centre’s presenters, visit a nearby mosque and observe their guides while they pray. These events last for about two hours and are open to the public, or can be booked for a private event.
Until the end of Ramadan, the iftar events take place from 7pm until 9pm, from Saturday to Thursday. Advanced booking is required.
For more details, email openminds@cultures.ae or visit www.cultures.ae
'Midnights'
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RESULTS
5pm: Wathba Stallions Cup – Maiden (PA) Dh70,000 (Dirt) 1,400m
Winner: Yas Xmnsor, Sean Kirrane (jockey), Khalifa Al Neyadi (trainer)
5.30pm: Falaj Hazza – Handicap (PA) Dh70,000 (D) 1,600m
Winner: Arim W’Rsan, Dane O’Neill, Jaci Wickham
6pm: Al Basrah – Maiden (PA) Dh70,000 (D) 1,800m
Winner: Kalifano De Ghazal, Abdul Aziz Al Balushi, Helal Al Alawi
6.30pm: Oud Al Touba – Handicap (PA) Dh70,000 (D) 1,800m
Winner: Pharitz Oubai, Sean Kirrane, Ibrahim Al Hadhrami
7pm: Sieh bin Amaar – Conditions (PA) Dh80,000 (D) 1,800m
Winner: Oxord, Richard Mullen, Abdalla Al Hammadi
7.30pm: Jebel Hafeet – Conditions (PA) Dh85,000 (D) 2,000m
Winner: AF Ramz, Sean Kirrane, Khalifa Al Neyadi
8pm: Al Saad – Handicap (TB) Dh70,000 (D) 2,000m
Winner: Sea Skimmer, Gabriele Malune, Kareem Ramadan
BMW M5 specs
Engine: 4.4-litre twin-turbo V-8 petrol enging with additional electric motor
Power: 727hp
Torque: 1,000Nm
Transmission: 8-speed auto
Fuel consumption: 10.6L/100km
On sale: Now
Price: From Dh650,000
THE SCORES
Ireland 125 all out
(20 overs; Stirling 72, Mustafa 4-18)
UAE 125 for 5
(17 overs, Mustafa 39, D’Silva 29, Usman 29)
UAE won by five wickets
Red flags
- Promises of high, fixed or 'guaranteed' returns.
- Unregulated structured products or complex investments often used to bypass traditional safeguards.
- Lack of clear information, vague language, no access to audited financials.
- Overseas companies targeting investors in other jurisdictions - this can make legal recovery difficult.
- Hard-selling tactics - creating urgency, offering 'exclusive' deals.
Courtesy: Carol Glynn, founder of Conscious Finance Coaching