The Arab world is full of colourful and vibrant hand greetings. Getty Images
The Arab world is full of colourful and vibrant hand greetings. Getty Images
The Arab world is full of colourful and vibrant hand greetings. Getty Images
The Arab world is full of colourful and vibrant hand greetings. Getty Images

Five Arab greetings that are not a handshake, from hand on heart to Sudanese shoulder tap


Saeed Saeed
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We could be waving goodbye to the handshake.

As the world slowly emerges from the collective trauma of Covid-19, it seems the once benign and universal physical greeting could be a thing of the past owing to its inherent safety risks.

While business leaders and psychologists reportedly opine that this could be a game changer when it comes to daily social interactions, chances are people in the UAE and the greater Arab world will merely brush it off.

Long-term residents in the region know the handshake is merely one of many greetings used due to the cosmopolitan and relatively conservative natures of our societies.

Here are five used in the UAE and what they mean ….

1. Hand on heart

Lebanese fashion designer Georges Hobeika acknowledges the audience at the 2018 spring/summer Haute Couture collection fashion in Paris. AFP
Lebanese fashion designer Georges Hobeika acknowledges the audience at the 2018 spring/summer Haute Couture collection fashion in Paris. AFP

Talk about a heartfelt gesture, this is an evergreen greeting widely used in the Mena region and fit for any occasion, from entering the family home to acceptance speeches in award shows.

It is also a handy greeting to use first for those who prefer being welcomed without touch.

2. Sudanese shoulder pat

A common greeting in Sudan for people to tap each other affectionately on the shoulder. Reuters
A common greeting in Sudan for people to tap each other affectionately on the shoulder. Reuters

This is a lovely exchange used by my Sudanese brothers to underscore a bond that’s beyond acquaintance, while not fully being great friends.

When both people meet they simultaneously reach out their right hand and pat the other’s left shoulder and add a little squeeze of affection.

3. The Shaka

Also known in Hawaiian surfer slang as ‘hang loose’.

It comprises extending your thumb and little finger while keeping the remaining fingers curled. The greeting is capped off with a little shake of the hand.

While I came across the gesture in vintage episodes of Baywatch, it was The National’s photographer Victor Besa who explained to me how it’s a common greeting within the UAE’s vibrant Filipino community.

“You have to understand that we make about 25 per cent of the Hawaiian population, so obviously we picked up a few things from that,” he said.

“It’s mostly used here within the Filipino urban artist community, from photographers to skateboarders.”

4. The Shuu

The beauty of this is it is so malleable it can be both a greeting and accusation, with the difference lying in the use of tone.

Both require the instigator to twist their wrist in clock motion and say and elongated version of ‘shuuu’.

Translated to ‘what’, when expressed with a smile it means a cool and casual ‘what’s up?’

Done with a frown or alarm and it can mean ‘what are you talking about?’

It's best to limit this greeting to close friends rather the boardroom.

5. The Eye Hug

Sometimes our eyes can be more welcoming than a hug or handshake. Photographie Maxime Gruss / Hans Lucas
Sometimes our eyes can be more welcoming than a hug or handshake. Photographie Maxime Gruss / Hans Lucas

People call it an extended squint, but I prefer to look at the brighter side and call it the The Eye Hug.

This is the latest greeting I have come across since Covid-19 arrived and masks become a normal feature of the workplace and leisure activities.

With human connection and hospitality a premium in the region, friends, colleagues and restaurant staff have often used it as a sincere form of acknowledgement.

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• Founded in 2014, Telr is a payment aggregator and gateway with an office in Silicon Oasis. It’s e-commerce entry plan costs Dh349 monthly (plus VAT). QR codes direct customers to an online payment page and merchants can generate payments through messaging apps.

• Business Bay’s Pallapay claims 40,000-plus active merchants who can invoice customers and receive payment by card. Fees range from 1.99 per cent plus Dh1 per transaction depending on payment method and location, such as online or via UAE mobile.

• Tap started in May 2013 in Kuwait, allowing Middle East businesses to bill, accept, receive and make payments online “easier, faster and smoother” via goSell and goCollect. It supports more than 10,000 merchants. Monthly fees range from US$65-100, plus card charges of 2.75-3.75 per cent and Dh1.2 per sale.

2checkout’s “all-in-one payment gateway and merchant account” accepts payments in 200-plus markets for 2.4-3.9 per cent, plus a Dh1.2-Dh1.8 currency conversion charge. The US provider processes online shop and mobile transactions and has 17,000-plus active digital commerce users.

• PayPal is probably the best-known online goods payment method - usually used for eBay purchases -  but can be used to receive funds, providing everyone’s signed up. Costs from 2.9 per cent plus Dh1.2 per transaction.

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Essentials

The flights

Emirates and Etihad fly direct from the UAE to Geneva from Dh2,845 return, including taxes. The flight takes 6 hours. 

The package

Clinique La Prairie offers a variety of programmes. A six-night Master Detox costs from 14,900 Swiss francs (Dh57,655), including all food, accommodation and a set schedule of medical consultations and spa treatments.

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Updated: March 04, 2022, 6:02 PM