Shelina Janmohamed is an author and a culture columnist for The National
November 24, 2023
When German chancellor Otto von Bismarck invented the modern-day pension in 1889, he may not have expected anyone to use much of it. After all, this new “retirement” age was aligned with life expectancy in Europe, which was significantly less then (mid forties) than what it is today (early eighties), more than 100 years on.
You worked because you needed money to live, and you worked until you no longer could. Work was for financial survival. And if you couldn’t survive, your only options were family, charity, or now in these more modern times, a pension.
We’ve come a long way since then. Retirement is now a full phase of life. The pension addresses the financial needs in retirement. But people can now also make the most of their retirement years because of longer lives and the energy and health to do something meaningful with that time.
This has created a paradox. Our image of pensioners – ailing, frail elders in their twilight years, perhaps – is juxtaposed with the reality of “young elders”, energetic and determined to enjoy life and take part in society.
But what should you actually do in retirement? If you search for ideas, it’s a gloomy mishmashed guidance on how to declutter your house, take up golf (for men) or floristry (for women). And then some even more depressing guidance on how not to fall into depression. It’s tailored around the idea that the end of your working life is the end of your usefulness and self-development.
All of this suggests we need a new template for living life. Too many people’s template is based on work and income – the defining features of the post-Industrial Revolution workplace – and that life is for money and survival. We need to put into practice the adage that you don’t live to work.
In this next phase, “work” – in its widest definition as the creation of value – is about satisfaction, creation, autonomy and contribution. It can be anything from child care, to being a company board member, to creating a tech start-up, a social enterprise or a social running group.
But what should one do when you hit this halcyon period of your life? It’s hard to find out. When we are young and starting work, there are endless opportunities to attend careers fairs or graduate fairs, where employers, charities, social enterprises, government bodies and so on will introduce people to ideas and opportunities.
Chelsea pensioners attend the Remembrance Sunday ceremony in central London earlier this month. AFP
An active older population that is financially and medically independent is important
If we can have career fairs, then why not retirement fairs? A place where organisations showcase how to craft a life that is not about assigning value or structure through work formats that govern traditional working lives.
Society needs the inputs and talent of older people. Experience, craft, wisdom, strategy, flexibility: a combination of excellence in hard skills as well as a lifetime of honed inter-personal skills. Many have learnt over time and have the experience to know what works and how markets and people behave.
It also helps society for people to be busy, which improves mental and physical health, allowing not just greater economic and societal contribution but also a lesser economic and medical burden.
Many people do need to work for financial stability. And with birth rates dropping and fewer children for every elder to look after them, particularly in western nations, an active older population that is financially and medically independent is important.
This is therefore a benefit to governments seeking to harness valuable talent in changing labour markets.
Our ideas about growing “old” can prevent us from creating a change, and this is as much our collective idea of old age, as well as individuals’ own ideas about themselves. This issue can be exacerbated in certain cultures, where when you move up in age or social station, people see it as a time to be waited upon. Social norms are another amplifier; a sense that once you have outgrown your function (say, parenthood), there is no social function for you beyond that, so what does an older person do?
It’s uncomfortable watching people at a loose end when they approach retirement. But what’s even more baffling is the lack of imagination about a period of life that allows people to truly find self-fulfillment, as well as add exponential value to society, whether it is to their families, their communities, their societies or countries, or at the micro level of individual fulfillment.
Retirement comes from the French word “retirer”, which means to withdraw. But the only thing that needs to be withdrawn here are outdated ideas of retirement. Instead, we need to see this as a new phase of life, with new opportunities and the chance to shape a new way of living.
Common OCD symptoms and how they manifest
Checking: the obsession or thoughts focus on some harm coming from things not being as they should, which usually centre around the theme of safety. For example, the obsession is “the building will burn down”, therefore the compulsion is checking that the oven is switched off.
Contamination: the obsession is focused on the presence of germs, dirt or harmful bacteria and how this will impact the person and/or their loved ones. For example, the obsession is “the floor is dirty; me and my family will get sick and die”, the compulsion is repetitive cleaning.
Orderliness: the obsession is a fear of sitting with uncomfortable feelings, or to prevent harm coming to oneself or others. Objectively there appears to be no logical link between the obsession and compulsion. For example,” I won’t feel right if the jars aren’t lined up” or “harm will come to my family if I don’t line up all the jars”, so the compulsion is therefore lining up the jars.
Intrusive thoughts: the intrusive thought is usually highly distressing and repetitive. Common examples may include thoughts of perpetrating violence towards others, harming others, or questions over one’s character or deeds, usually in conflict with the person’s true values. An example would be: “I think I might hurt my family”, which in turn leads to the compulsion of avoiding social gatherings.
Hoarding: the intrusive thought is the overvaluing of objects or possessions, while the compulsion is stashing or hoarding these items and refusing to let them go. For example, “this newspaper may come in useful one day”, therefore, the compulsion is hoarding newspapers instead of discarding them the next day.
Source: Dr Robert Chandler, clinical psychologist at Lighthouse Arabia
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While the taste of beans and freshness of roast is paramount to the specialty coffee scene, so is sustainability and workers’ rights.
The bulk of genuine specialty coffee companies aim to improve on these elements in every stage of production via direct relationships with farmers. For instance, Mokha 1450 on Al Wasl Road strives to work predominantly with women-owned and -operated coffee organisations, including female farmers in the Sabree mountains of Yemen.
Because, as the boutique’s owner, Garfield Kerr, points out: “women represent over 90 per cent of the coffee value chain, but are woefully underrepresented in less than 10 per cent of ownership and management throughout the global coffee industry.”
One of the UAE’s largest suppliers of green (meaning not-yet-roasted) beans, Raw Coffee, is a founding member of the Partnership of Gender Equity, which aims to empower female coffee farmers and harvesters.
Also, globally, many companies have found the perfect way to recycle old coffee grounds: they create the perfect fertile soil in which to grow mushrooms.
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