Building positive relationships at work is vital for career success. Relationships can positively or negatively affect your satisfaction with the job as well as your ability to advance and gain recognition. For many people, relationship-building is difficult; it doesn’t come naturally and needs to be taught. Others refuse to admit that this is a concern because it is supposed to be a basic, common-sense concept. They assume that they already know how to do it. Don’t fall into that trap. Everyone – even the ones with the most outgoing, engaging personalities – can improve. Below is a cheat sheet to use if you want to build positive workplace relationships:
1. Be true to your values
Sooner or later, people will see right through you. Ask yourself what your core values are and ensure you are consistently true to them. Be known as an honest professional with an upstanding character and real integrity if you want to succeed.
2. Respect company resources
Ensure your company’s time, assets and reputation are respected and nurtured. Tardiness, a sloppy work ethic and a lukewarm attitude towards the company’s employees and brand are not only potentially contagious, they will fail to endear you to the more serious and focused professionals around you. The Bayt.com “Absenteeism in the Mena Workplace” poll showed that 58 per cent of the region’s professionals regard absenteeism as being harmful to a company’s productivity and overall performance, so don’t be a cog in the wheel of mediocrity.
3. Be pleasantly professional
By all means join the weddings, baby showers, sports teams and after-work gatherings, and seek to be part of creating a joyful office spirit and sincere winning camaraderie. However, it is best to clearly delineate between your personal emotions and professional priorities by making sure your professional self is as focused and productive as can be. Aim to walk in every morning with a pleasant can-do attitude and professionalism.
4. Avoid workplace gossip
We all know them, the gossips and rift-makers who thrive on office politics and seek to amplify differences, escalate problems and create general discord. Steer clear of their troublemaking and make it clear you have no desire to magnify issues that can easily be resolved. Maintaining a pleasant demeanour and refusing to engage with their misplaced opinions, stealth tactics and improper conversation should win you kudos.
5. Strive for excellence
Nothing beats the awe inspired by a job well done. Aim to be an expert and top practitioner in your field so you are actively sought and highly regarded for your advice and input. Don’t take mediocrity for an answer and your name will soon be synonymous with a passion for excellence. Be generous in imparting your knowledge and experience with your peers so you build a pool of admirers.
6. Put yourself in your manager's shoes
Your boss is not the enemy. If you cannot bring yourself to like and admire your immediate manager, or even respect their experience and authority, then you are most likely in the wrong role. Do some soul- searching. If you have always had problems with your managers, maybe it’s your own style, priorities and outlook you need to work on. It helps to imagine yourself in your manager’s shoes and situation to understand how your role, behaviour and attitude can best be modified. If you think that your manager’s expectations are not making sense it may be time to sit down with them and have an honest conversation about your role and responsibilities.
7. Smile from your heart
Sincerity goes a long way, as does good energy and a sincerely positive and amiable demeanour in the workplace. Deliver your “good morning”, “please” and “thank you” with a generous smile felt from your very core. Watch your positivity resonate with all around you and be recognised and remembered as your trademark.
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Keane on …
Liverpool’s Uefa Champions League bid: “They’re great. With the attacking force they have, for me, they’re certainly one of the favourites. You look at the teams left in it - they’re capable of scoring against anybody at any given time. Defensively they’ve been good, so I don’t see any reason why they couldn’t go on and win it.”
Mohamed Salah’s debut campaign at Anfield: “Unbelievable. He’s been phenomenal. You can name the front three, but for him on a personal level, he’s been unreal. He’s been great to watch and hopefully he can continue now until the end of the season - which I’m sure he will, because he’s been in fine form. He’s been incredible this season.”
Zlatan Ibrahimovic’s instant impact at former club LA Galaxy: “Brilliant. It’s been a great start for him and for the club. They were crying out for another big name there. They were lacking that, for the prestige of LA Galaxy. And now they have one of the finest stars. I hope they can go win something this year.”
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- infant formulas and follow-on milks, health and slimming products such as powdered or fortified meal and dish substitutes,
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Premier League
Wednesday, June 17 (Kick-offs uae times) Aston Villa v Sheffield United 9pm; Manchester City v Arsenal 11pm
Friday, June 19 Norwich v Southampton 9pm; Tottenham v Manchester United 11pm
Saturday, June 20 Watford v Leicester 3.30pm; Brighton v Arsenal 6pm; West Ham v Wolves 8.30pm; Bournemouth v Crystal Palace 10.45pm
Sunday, June 21 Newcastle v Sheffield United 2pm; Aston Villa v Chelsea 7.30pm; Everton v Liverpool 10pm
Monday, June 22 Manchester City v Burnley 11pm (Sky)
Tuesday, June 23 Southampton v Arsenal 9pm; Tottenham v West Ham 11.15pm
Wednesday, June 24 Manchester United v Sheffield United 9pm; Newcastle v Aston Villa 9pm; Norwich v Everton 9pm; Liverpool v Crystal Palace 11.15pm
Thursday, June 25 Burnley v Watford 9pm; Leicester v Brighton 9pm; Chelsea v Manchester City 11.15pm; Wolves v Bournemouth 11.15pm
Sunday June 28 Aston Villa vs Wolves 3pm; Watford vs Southampton 7.30pm
Monday June 29 Crystal Palace vs Burnley 11pm
Tuesday June 30 Brighton vs Manchester United 9pm; Sheffield United vs Tottenham 11.15pm
Wednesday July 1 Bournemouth vs Newcastle 9pm; Everton vs Leicester 9pm; West Ham vs Chelsea 11.15pm
Thursday July 2 Arsenal vs Norwich 9pm; Manchester City vs Liverpool 11.15pm
Sole survivors
- Cecelia Crocker was on board Northwest Airlines Flight 255 in 1987 when it crashed in Detroit, killing 154 people, including her parents and brother. The plane had hit a light pole on take off
- George Lamson Jr, from Minnesota, was on a Galaxy Airlines flight that crashed in Reno in 1985, killing 68 people. His entire seat was launched out of the plane
- Bahia Bakari, then 12, survived when a Yemenia Airways flight crashed near the Comoros in 2009, killing 152. She was found clinging to wreckage after floating in the ocean for 13 hours.
- Jim Polehinke was the co-pilot and sole survivor of a 2006 Comair flight that crashed in Lexington, Kentucky, killing 49.
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Date started: January 2017
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Based: Dubai and Los Angeles
Sector: Technology
Size: 21 employees
Funding: $7 million
Investors: Shorooq Partners, KBW Ventures, Vision Ventures, Hala Ventures, 500Startups, Plug and Play, Magnus Olsson, Samih Toukan, Jonathan Labin
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Stars: Ram Charan, Kiara Advani, Anjali, S J Suryah, Jayaram
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What is a robo-adviser?
Robo-advisers use an online sign-up process to gauge an investor’s risk tolerance by feeding information such as their age, income, saving goals and investment history into an algorithm, which then assigns them an investment portfolio, ranging from more conservative to higher risk ones.
These portfolios are made up of exchange traded funds (ETFs) with exposure to indices such as US and global equities, fixed-income products like bonds, though exposure to real estate, commodity ETFs or gold is also possible.
Investing in ETFs allows robo-advisers to offer fees far lower than traditional investments, such as actively managed mutual funds bought through a bank or broker. Investors can buy ETFs directly via a brokerage, but with robo-advisers they benefit from investment portfolios matched to their risk tolerance as well as being user friendly.
Many robo-advisers charge what are called wrap fees, meaning there are no additional fees such as subscription or withdrawal fees, success fees or fees for rebalancing.
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Power: 333hp, 449hp, 680hp
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If you go
The flights
The closest international airport for those travelling from the UAE is Denver, Colorado. British Airways (www.ba.com) flies from the UAE via London from Dh3,700 return, including taxes. From there, transfers can be arranged to the ranch or it’s a seven-hour drive. Alternatively, take an internal flight to the counties of Cody, Casper, or Billings
The stay
Red Reflet offers a series of packages, with prices varying depending on season. All meals and activities are included, with prices starting from US$2,218 (Dh7,150) per person for a minimum stay of three nights, including taxes. For more information, visit red-reflet-ranch.net.
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1. Rafael Nadal (ESP) 9,585 pts ( 1)
2. Novak Djokovic (SRB) 8,945 (-1)
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Sheikh Dhiyab bin Isa (ruled 1761-1793) Built Qasr Al Hosn as a watchtower to guard over the only freshwater well on Abu Dhabi island.
Sheikh Shakhbut bin Dhiyab (ruled 1793-1816) Expanded the tower into a small fort and transferred his ruling place of residence from Liwa Oasis to the fort on the island.
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