Emirati Rashed Al Hammadi, pictured with filmmaker Sara Sherbaji, who is producing a documentary about mental health, had to give up treatment because of the lack of facilities near to him and he has also had to give up his lifelong dream of becoming a pilot. Satish Kumar / The National
Emirati Rashed Al Hammadi, pictured with filmmaker Sara Sherbaji, who is producing a documentary about mental health, had to give up treatment because of the lack of facilities near to him and he has Show more

Mental health sufferers tell of barriers they face and lack of support



ABU DHABI // Aspiring Emirati pilot Rashed Al Hammadi had to quit mental health treatment because of high cost, a lack of facilities close to his home, long wearying drives to Dubai for consultations and the burden of paying for medication.

It also cost him his lifelong dream of taking to the air at the controls of a plane.

Doctors say the UAE needs more psychiatric and rehabilitation services in the public and private sectors with one health professional calling for a tenfold increase in staff numbers.

The 22-year-old from Sharjah started seeing a psychologist in Dubai in 2013 and he was found to be suffering from anxiety and depression.

“The doctor was recommended by the family - my mother, in particular, because she was worried about me,” he said. “She was worried because I was always out of it and in my room. I was always distracted and not engaged with anyone.”

Mr Al Hammadi went online in search of support groups and clinics nearby at first.

“When we couldn’t find anyone, my mum recommended that I go to Dubai to see a doctor”

At the time, Mr Al Hammadi was in a training programme for pilots.

“The managers found out that I was getting psychiatric help and I was removed from the programme. They said I was medically unfit and that I couldn’t become a pilot as long as I was on psychiatric medication. My dream was always to become a pilot and it was pushed aside.

“I don’t think I am reliable and I worry that I might mess up. When you are a pilot, the lives of people are dependent on you and I guess this is safer.”

However, he has since stopped seeing his psychiatrist.

“I’ve been going for two-and-a-half years and its exhausting and too expensive for me. It was an hour-and-a-half drive and I pay Dh600 per session and that doesn’t include the medication.”

The cap on his insurance policy was exceeded a long time ago, Mr Al Hammadi said.

“I also have thiqa but that only covers Abu Dhabi hospitals and I can’t go all the way to Abu Dhabi. I don’t even know where to go now.”

After her battle with depression, 34-year-old Emirati Sarah Al Senaani started a support group.

“I was seeing a psychiatrist but I wanted to talk to someone who was going through the same experience I was going through,” said the Abu Dhabi resident. “I looked online and there were no support groups for depression.”

She launched Ostura, which is Arabic for legend, two years ago and, from only one member, there are now nine in the group who meet regularly to share their experiences and struggles.

“I couldn’t register it because I was told that I had to be a doctor,” Ms Al Senaani said.

The mother of three decided to go ahead with the support group regardless. “You need someone to talk to when you are suffering from depression or any mood problem and this what we do - we talk.”

Last year Ms Al Senaani also started the first workshop to “challenge mood disorders”. The two-week workshop teaches participants painting, mosaic and different types of art.

“I managed to register it and the purpose of the workshop is to challenge your mood disorders and feel better through art.

“Art helped me to combat my depression and I came up with 7 strategies that I believe can help overcome depression. I call them my pearls of happiness.”

The seven are: horseback riding; humanitarian work; art and music; cultural communication and research; tourism; healthy nutrition, and cognitive behavioural therapy.

“No one seems to care or want to admit that they have a mental illness but I don’t care what people say. I care and I want people to know that they are not alone,” said Ms Al Senaani.

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Name: Mamo

Year it started: 2019 Founders: Imad Gharazeddine, Asim Janjua

Based: Dubai, UAE

Number of employees: 28

Sector: Financial services

Investment: $9.5m

Funding stage: Pre-Series A Investors: Global Ventures, GFC, 4DX Ventures, AlRajhi Partners, Olive Tree Capital, and prominent Silicon Valley investors.

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“First, are they happy with that or do they want more?” he says. “Job-seeking is a time-consuming, frustrating and long-winded affair so are they prepared to put themselves through that rigmarole? Before they consider that, they must ask their employer what is happening.”

Most employees bring up pay rise queries at their annual performance appraisal and find out what the company has in store for them from a career perspective.

Those with no formal appraisal system, Mr Greaves says, should ask HR or their line manager for an assessment.

“You want to find out how they value your contribution and where your job could go,” he says. “You’ve got to be brave enough to ask some questions and if you don’t like the answers then you have to develop a strategy or change jobs if you are prepared to go through the job-seeking process.”

For those that do reach the salary negotiation with their current employer, Mr Greaves says there is no point in asking for less than 5 per cent.

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1 Tadej Pogacar (SLO) UAE Team Emirates 3:48:53

2 Alexey Lutsenko (KAZ) Astana Pro Team -

Adam Yates (GBR) Mitchelton-Scott - 

4 David Gaudu (FRA) Groupama-FDJ  0:00:04

5 Ilnur Zakarin (RUS) CCC Team 0:00:07

General Classification:

1 Adam Yates (GBR) Mitchelton-Scott 20:35:04

2 Tadej Pogacar (SlO) UAE Team Emirates 0:01:01

3 Alexey Lutsenko (KAZ) Astana Pro Team 0:01:33

4 David Gaudu (FRA) Groupama-FDJ 0:01:48

5 Rafał Majka (POL) Bora-Hansgrohe 0:02:11

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Wed, Aug 29:

  • Malaysia bt Hong Kong by 3 wickets
  • Oman bt Nepal by 7 wickets
  • UAE bt Singapore by 215 runs

Thu, Aug 30: 

  • UAE bt Nepal by 78 runs
  • Hong Kong bt Singapore by 5 wickets
  • Oman bt Malaysia by 2 wickets

Sat, Sep 1: UAE v Hong Kong; Oman v Singapore; Malaysia v Nepal

Sun, Sep 2: Hong Kong v Oman; Malaysia v UAE; Nepal v Singapore

Tue, Sep 4: Malaysia v Singapore; UAE v Oman; Nepal v Hong Kong

Thu, Sep 6: Final

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Company name: myZoi
Started: 2021
Founders: Syed Ali, Christian Buchholz, Shanawaz Rouf, Arsalan Siddiqui, Nabid Hassan
Based: UAE
Number of staff: 37
Investment: Initial undisclosed funding from SC Ventures; second round of funding totalling $14 million from a consortium of SBI, a Japanese VC firm, and SC Venture

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Asuka won the SmackDown Women's title in a TLC triple threat with Becky Lynch and Charlotte Flair

Dean Ambrose won the Intercontinental title against Seth Rollins

Daniel Bryan retained the WWE World Heavyweight Championship against AJ Styles

Ronda Rousey retained the Raw Women's Championship against Nia Jax

Rey Mysterio beat Randy Orton in a chairs match

Finn Balor defeated Drew McIntyre

Natalya beat Ruby Riott in a tables match

Braun Strowman beat Baron Corbin in a TLC match

Sheamus and Cesaro retained the SmackDown Tag Titles against The Usos and New Day

R-Truth and Carmella won the Mixed Match Challenge by beating Jinder Mahal and Alicia Fox

Pakistanis at the ILT20

The new UAE league has been boosted this season by the arrival of five Pakistanis, who were not released to play last year.

Shaheen Afridi (Desert Vipers)
Set for at least four matches, having arrived from New Zealand where he captained Pakistan in a series loss.

Shadab Khan (Desert Vipers)
The leg-spin bowling allrounder missed the tour of New Zealand after injuring an ankle when stepping on a ball.

Azam Khan (Desert Vipers)
Powerhouse wicketkeeper played three games for Pakistan on tour in New Zealand. He was the first Pakistani recruited to the ILT20.

Mohammed Amir (Desert Vipers)
Has made himself unavailable for national duty, meaning he will be available for the entire ILT20 campaign.

Imad Wasim (Abu Dhabi Knight Riders)
The left-handed allrounder, 35, retired from international cricket in November and was subsequently recruited by the Knight Riders.

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Stars: Shah Rukh Khan, Nayanthara, Vijay Sethupathi

Rating: 4/5

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Croatia 1 (Vlasic 09')


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