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'Post-divorce, I went into survival mode, remembering how independent I was before I met him.' Sasha Freemind / Unsplash
'Post-divorce, I went into survival mode, remembering how independent I was before I met him.' Sasha Freemind / Unsplash
How I'm rebuilding my life at 39, after a divorce
Healing from a relationship that was healthy and happy for the most part is hard, but I am on the mend