It happened again this week. Another person trying to be kind and sympathetic told me that it was a crime how little money teachers make.
It went something like this. Tom is a lawyer who makes a high salary. In casual conversation, it came up that I’m a teacher and, as is so often the case, he responded with: “That’s a tough job! I couldn’t handle working with kids and the low salary they pay you is criminal. You are the real heroes.”
I appreciate his sentiment, even if I don’t agree with him. I’ve been teaching for more than 15 years in five different countries, including my home country of the US.
While it was financially difficult to teach in the US, what with taxes, rent, insurance and union dues, it’s a different matter overseas. I don’t need to get into my salary, but I don’t feel underpaid at all. However, I can understand why teachers who make the same amount as me might feel like they are underpaid, and a lot of it comes down to choices.
Let’s take my example versus a friend of mine who makes the same salary, but has a very different perception about being paid adequately or not. I live a simple life. I don’t have kids or pets. I try to keep my expensive habits to a minimum and not live a very consumerist lifestyle.
Consequently, I routinely save about 60 per cent to 80 per cent of my salary each month. When you save that much money, it’s hard to argue that you’re not being paid enough because you certainly have enough to meet your wants and needs as long as you’re not depriving yourself too much.
I never have to worry about one surprising bill derailing my life or losing my apartment
Saving is a key part of this. If you’re saving a large amount, you probably aren’t stressed about money. You feel abundant because you are literally getting more than you need to spend. I never have to worry about a surprise bill derailing my life or losing my apartment.
Now, let’s look at my friend, Jennifer. To be fair, I’ve picked a friend who also doesn’t have kids because that can be a very different conversation. Jennifer, however, does have pets, a dog and a cat. It seems like these animals visit the vet at least every other month and each time, the bill comes to more than Dh1,000. On top of this is the cost of their food, toys and pet-sitting.
Jennifer also loves her spa days and frequently has massages, hair treatments, manicures and other services. This adds another Dh2,000 to Dh3,000 per month to her expenses. Jennifer likes to party more than I do as well, and a normal night out for her can easily run into Dh500 to Dh1,000.
She also took out huge student loans to pay for a pricey private university education in the US, and now pays a nightmare loan instalment every month.
Even on the same salary, Jennifer is constantly stressed about money, putting things on credit cards, even though she knows the compound yearly interest rate is around 45 per cent for a UAE-based credit card.
If Tom had said the same thing to Jennifer, she would have agreed wholeheartedly. She doesn’t feel like she makes enough money because for her lifestyle, she doesn’t. This is why the same wage can be both overpaid and underpaid, depending on who receives the salary.
As long as I can save at least 20 per cent of my salary and not feel deprived, then I’m not being underpaid. Twenty per cent is a good amount of money that I can build enough of a financial cushion to buy assets, fund a strong emergency account and not feel stressed about finances.
Of course, there are other factors involved. If you are constantly stressed and have to work more hours than you want, you may definitely need a higher salary to compensate for those circumstances.
When I was much younger, I worked at a fast-food restaurant and earned a minimum wage. It was tough and I was probably underpaid there, even though I didn’t bring any special skills that made me especially valuable to the job.
I’ve also worked at terrible schools where they could have doubled my salary and I wouldn’t have liked the job any better.
If you are feeling underpaid, try cutting your expenses. Once you do this and build up enough money, you might realise it’s not the lack of salary that’s making you hate your job, but it’s the job itself. At that point, you’ll have enough money saved up that you can afford to quit the job and take the time to get a better one.
Schoolteacher Zach Holz (@HappiestTeach) documents his journey towards financial independence on his personal finance blog The Happiest Teacher
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The biog
Nickname: Mama Nadia to children, staff and parents
Education: Bachelors degree in English Literature with Social work from UAE University
As a child: Kept sweets on the window sill for workers, set aside money to pay for education of needy families
Holidays: Spends most of her days off at Senses often with her family who describe the centre as part of their life too
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Quick pearls of wisdom
Focus on gratitude: And do so deeply, he says. “Think of one to three things a day that you’re grateful for. It needs to be specific, too, don’t just say ‘air.’ Really think about it. If you’re grateful for, say, what your parents have done for you, that will motivate you to do more for the world.”
Know how to fight: Shetty married his wife, Radhi, three years ago (he met her in a meditation class before he went off and became a monk). He says they’ve had to learn to respect each other’s “fighting styles” – he’s a talk it-out-immediately person, while she needs space to think. “When you’re having an argument, remember, it’s not you against each other. It’s both of you against the problem. When you win, they lose. If you’re on a team you have to win together.”
What is cyberbullying?
Cyberbullying or online bullying could take many forms such as sending unkind or rude messages to someone, socially isolating people from groups, sharing embarrassing pictures of them, or spreading rumors about them.
Cyberbullying can take place on various platforms such as messages, on social media, on group chats, or games.
Parents should watch out for behavioural changes in their children.
When children are being bullied they they may be feel embarrassed and isolated, so parents should watch out for signs of signs of depression and anxiety
The National in Davos
We are bringing you the inside story from the World Economic Forum's Annual Meeting in Davos, a gathering of hundreds of world leaders, top executives and billionaires.
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UAE v Gibraltar
What: International friendly
When: 7pm kick off
Where: Rugby Park, Dubai Sports City
Admission: Free
Online: The match will be broadcast live on Dubai Exiles’ Facebook page
UAE squad: Lucas Waddington (Dubai Exiles), Gio Fourie (Exiles), Craig Nutt (Abu Dhabi Harlequins), Phil Brady (Harlequins), Daniel Perry (Dubai Hurricanes), Esekaia Dranibota (Harlequins), Matt Mills (Exiles), Jaen Botes (Exiles), Kristian Stinson (Exiles), Murray Reason (Abu Dhabi Saracens), Dave Knight (Hurricanes), Ross Samson (Jebel Ali Dragons), DuRandt Gerber (Exiles), Saki Naisau (Dragons), Andrew Powell (Hurricanes), Emosi Vacanau (Harlequins), Niko Volavola (Dragons), Matt Richards (Dragons), Luke Stevenson (Harlequins), Josh Ives (Dubai Sports City Eagles), Sean Stevens (Saracens), Thinus Steyn (Exiles)
Jetour T1 specs
Engine: 2-litre turbocharged
Power: 254hp
Torque: 390Nm
Price: From Dh126,000
Available: Now
The biog
Favourite film: The Notebook
Favourite book: What I know for sure by Oprah Winfrey
Favourite quote: “Social equality is the only basis of human happiness” Nelson Madela. Hometown: Emmen, The Netherlands
Favourite activities: Walking on the beach, eating at restaurants and spending time with friends
Job: Founder and Managing Director of Mawaheb from Beautiful Peopl
DMZ facts
- The DMZ was created as a buffer after the 1950-53 Korean War.
- It runs 248 kilometers across the Korean Peninsula and is 4km wide.
- The zone is jointly overseen by the US-led United Nations Command and North Korea.
- It is littered with an estimated 2 million mines, tank traps, razor wire fences and guard posts.
- Donald Trump and Kim Jong-Un met at a building in Panmunjom, where an armistice was signed to stop the Korean War.
- Panmunjom is 52km north of the Korean capital Seoul and 147km south of Pyongyang, North Korea’s capital.
- Former US president Bill Clinton visited Panmunjom in 1993, while Ronald Reagan visited the DMZ in 1983, George W. Bush in 2002 and Barack Obama visited a nearby military camp in 2012.
- Mr Trump planned to visit in November 2017, but heavy fog that prevented his helicopter from landing.
The specs: 2018 Chevrolet Equinox
Price, base / as tested: Dh76,900 / Dh110,900
Engine: 2.0L, turbocharged in-line four-cylinder
Gearbox: Nine-speed automatic
Power: 252hp @ 5,500rpm
Torque: Torque: 352Nm @ 2,500rpm
Fuel economy, combined: 8.5L / 100km