On receiving news of her daughter’s Covid-19 diagnosis, the wave of shock that hit a mother in Dubai was eerily familiar.
Karin Voyatjes felt exactly the same way two years ago when she learnt that Alexa, now 5, had cancer.
With her daughter still undergoing treatment for acute lymphoblastic leukaemia, a type of blood cancer, Ms Voyatjes worried how ill her girl could become from the coronavirus.
“It was such a shock because it was the last thing I expected. She wasn’t sick at the time,” said Ms Voyatjes, from South Africa, of her daughter's Covid-19 diagnosis in August.
You sort of have to disconnect yourself from the emotional side, because you are allowing your child to be tortured, in a way
“The following day the rest of the family all went for tests. My husband and my son tested positive.
“My husband had mild flu symptoms. My son, 6, was totally asymptomatic. I would not have known he had Covid-19 at all. Not a sneeze, not a fever. Absolutely nothing.”
Alexa eventually developed symptoms. Her oxygen levels were stable throughout, but a second chest X-ray revealed a concerning pattern in her lungs, so doctors put her on antibiotics as a precaution.
She tested positive for about six weeks, which is normal for people who are immunocompromised, but eventually beat the virus.
“It was a very stressful period, but luckily everyone was okay,” Ms Voyatjes said.
Alexa, who is now approaching the end of her lengthy treatment for leukaemia, has come a long way.
Ms Voyatjes, who posts on social media regularly to raise awareness about childhood leukaemia, said the early days of her daughter's treatment were hard.
Only three years old at the time, Alexa struggled to understand what was happening to her.
“She’s quite a feisty, outgoing child. She rebelled against the treatment. She [was] making herself vomit in the car,” Ms Voyatjes said.
“They put something under her skin to give direct access to an artery, which is how they insert the chemotherapy.
“During the first few months, she didn’t want it to be touched. She would cry and scream, make herself vomit and take her clothes off rather than have it done.”
It was hard for her mother to watch.
But she coped by focusing on how the treatment could save her life.
“You sort of have to disconnect yourself from the emotional side, because you are allowing your child to be tortured, in a way,” she said.
“It’s a really strange thing to go through as a parent.”
The family sought the help of a psychologist with experience in treating children with cancer. The doctor helped Alexa overcome her anxiety.
“You could treat her with something to calm her down or tie her to the bed, but the long-term effects of that would be worse. It’s a long journey," Ms Voyatjes said.
"So you can’t really use a short-term fix at the beginning. It’s better to treat the core problem.
“She’s absolutely amazing now. The doctors are amazed. We have a routine and there is no protest.”
At the time of the diagnosis, Alexa was ill but there were no major red flags.
She had a fever from tonsillitis that week, a few bruises on her legs, and a more concerning one behind her ear, which could not be explained by any injuries.
A doctor decided to run some tests, which initially suggested she was suffering from a blood clotting disorder.
“The paediatrician who ran the tests said we had to go to the emergency department,” Ms Voyatjes said.
“We agreed to stay overnight after doctors re-ran the blood. The next morning, I had to sign a disclaimer for an emergency blood transfusion and platelet transfusion.
“Her blood count dropped so significantly overnight that it was actually quite dangerous.”
Next week, Alexa will start the final cycle of her treatment, which is expected to end in February.
I don't think we will be able to do much to celebrate at the end of two and a half years of treatment, but it will still be an amazing day
She has been back in school since September and is enjoying being with her friends again.
Ms Voyatjes hopes sharing information online will help others spot the early signs of the illness in their children.
Results from Alexa’s blood tests are good, and they will soon learn whether she is in remission.
With her treatment set to end in a few weeks, the family is planning a celebration – but the pandemic does not make it easy.
“I don’t think we will be able to do much to celebrate at the end of two and a half years of treatment,” Alexa's mother said.
“But it will still be an amazing day.”
Dubai Bling season three
Cast: Loujain Adada, Zeina Khoury, Farhana Bodi, Ebraheem Al Samadi, Mona Kattan, and couples Safa & Fahad Siddiqui and DJ Bliss & Danya Mohammed
Rating: 1/5
In numbers
1,000 tonnes of waste collected daily:
- 800 tonnes converted into alternative fuel
- 150 tonnes to landfill
- 50 tonnes sold as scrap metal
800 tonnes of RDF replaces 500 tonnes of coal
Two conveyor lines treat more than 350,000 tonnes of waste per year
25 staff on site
Sun jukebox
Rufus Thomas, Bear Cat (The Answer to Hound Dog) (1953)
This rip-off of Leiber/Stoller’s early rock stomper brought a lawsuit against Phillips and necessitated Presley’s premature sale to RCA.
Elvis Presley, Mystery Train (1955)
The B-side of Presley’s final single for Sun bops with a drummer-less groove.
Johnny Cash and the Tennessee Two, Folsom Prison Blues (1955)
Originally recorded for Sun, Cash’s signature tune was performed for inmates of the titular prison 13 years later.
Carl Perkins, Blue Suede Shoes (1956)
Within a month of Sun’s February release Elvis had his version out on RCA.
Roy Orbison, Ooby Dooby (1956)
An essential piece of irreverent juvenilia from Orbison.
Jerry Lee Lewis, Great Balls of Fire (1957)
Lee’s trademark anthem is one of the era’s best-remembered – and best-selling – songs.
Desert Warrior
Starring: Anthony Mackie, Aiysha Hart, Ben Kingsley
Director: Rupert Wyatt
Rating: 3/5
How the UAE gratuity payment is calculated now
Employees leaving an organisation are entitled to an end-of-service gratuity after completing at least one year of service.
The tenure is calculated on the number of days worked and does not include lengthy leave periods, such as a sabbatical. If you have worked for a company between one and five years, you are paid 21 days of pay based on your final basic salary. After five years, however, you are entitled to 30 days of pay. The total lump sum you receive is based on the duration of your employment.
1. For those who have worked between one and five years, on a basic salary of Dh10,000 (calculation based on 30 days):
a. Dh10,000 ÷ 30 = Dh333.33. Your daily wage is Dh333.33
b. Dh333.33 x 21 = Dh7,000. So 21 days salary equates to Dh7,000 in gratuity entitlement for each year of service. Multiply this figure for every year of service up to five years.
2. For those who have worked more than five years
c. 333.33 x 30 = Dh10,000. So 30 days’ salary is Dh10,000 in gratuity entitlement for each year of service.
Note: The maximum figure cannot exceed two years total salary figure.
Sri Lanka-India Test series schedule
- 1st Test India won by 304 runs at Galle
- 2nd Test Thursday-Monday at Colombo
- 3rd Test August 12-16 at Pallekele
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MATCH INFO
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In numbers: PKK’s money network in Europe
Germany: PKK collectors typically bring in $18 million in cash a year – amount has trebled since 2010
Revolutionary tax: Investigators say about $2 million a year raised from ‘tax collection’ around Marseille
Extortion: Gunman convicted in 2023 of demanding $10,000 from Kurdish businessman in Stockholm
Drug trade: PKK income claimed by Turkish anti-drugs force in 2024 to be as high as $500 million a year
Denmark: PKK one of two terrorist groups along with Iranian separatists ASMLA to raise “two-digit million amounts”
Contributions: Hundreds of euros expected from typical Kurdish families and thousands from business owners
TV channel: Kurdish Roj TV accounts frozen and went bankrupt after Denmark fined it more than $1 million over PKK links in 2013
SUNDAY'S ABU DHABI T10 MATCHES
Northern Warriors v Team Abu Dhabi, 3.30pm
Bangla Tigers v Karnataka Tuskers, 5.45pm
Qalandars v Maratha Arabians, 8pm
PREMIER LEAGUE FIXTURES
Saturday (UAE kick-off times)
Watford v Leicester City (3.30pm)
Brighton v Arsenal (6pm)
West Ham v Wolves (8.30pm)
Bournemouth v Crystal Palace (10.45pm)
Sunday
Newcastle United v Sheffield United (5pm)
Aston Villa v Chelsea (7.15pm)
Everton v Liverpool (10pm)
Monday
Manchester City v Burnley (11pm)
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Islamophobia definition
A widely accepted definition was made by the All Party Parliamentary Group on British Muslims in 2019: “Islamophobia is rooted in racism and is a type of racism that targets expressions of Muslimness or perceived Muslimness.” It further defines it as “inciting hatred or violence against Muslims”.
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