When I was five years old, my brothers and I had bank accounts at the Bank of Montreal in Nova Scotia, Canada.
I have three brothers. We all had accounts, so when we got Christmas cheques - or money - from relatives my dad would march us all in with our little bankbooks, and we'd make our deposits.
I did get pocket money, but frequently had it withdrawn for misbehaviour. We would lose our allowance for a week if we smacked a sibling, for example.
So I had a allowance that I rarely saw due to having it suspended. It was about 25 Canadian cents a week - the price of a small bag of potato chips, which was what I usually wanted to buy with it.
It took a while for the concept of money to actually sink in. Around the time I was 13, I came home one day and told my father that I wanted contact lenses, and they were CAN$300 (Dh1,032). I just stood there waiting for him to give it to me. And he just kind of looked at me like: are you kidding? I had terrible eyesight and already wore glasses, but I wanted the lenses. My father was a lawyer in a small firm in Nova Scotia and he had me work the entire summer at his firm for the 300 bucks by answering the phones.
My parents completely paid my way during my first degree. I have two undergraduate degrees, one in liberal studies and sociology from Brock University, Ontario, the other a law degree from Dalhousie University, Halifax, Nova Scotia. I didn't really appreciate my education as much as I should with my first degree, which is why I had to go back for a second. To get myself in a position where I could afford school, I had to find a full-time job. I worked 21 days straight, with one day off, for months until I could get myself sorted out financially.
After that I understood everything. I understood the value of education in terms of how much it was costing as well as the actual value of learning. I had worked enough menial jobs to understand the point of it much better. Between the ages of 24 and 26, I was working double shifts - managing a cigar store and bartending in Niagara Falls. My first job was housekeeping at a hotel in Nova Scotia. I was 16 at the time. I've also been a waitress at a truck stop there. Yeah, I've done some interesting things.
For my second degree, I took out some loans. My husband Dan and I met on the first day of law school, and we incurred some pretty subtantial debt getting our legal degrees.
When we went to law school, I was 26, and my parents owned a shack - literally - that we lived in. They helped us financially in that way, and others. I don't even know exactly what my husband and I spent on education, but, combined, it's certainly somewhere in the six figures. We've now got it just about sorted out - nearly 10 years after starting law school. It's all settled just in time to start paying for our daughter Maeve's education. She is 22 months old now.
Back in 2007, during the winter in Canada, we started looking at where we might go - preferably somewhere warm. But it had to also be a place where we could both get jobs and marketable experience. Dan got a job here first, in 2007. I don't think that we would go somewhere just because it was a tax haven, but that certainly factored into the decision. The tax-free status makes a huge difference. Some things are more expensive here, but petrol is a fraction of what it is in Canada. We can fill up my large truck for less than what it costs us to fill up the Honda Civic that we brought from Canada. That was really surprising.
Now, I'd have to be dragged out of Dubai kicking and screaming. I love it here. One of the things that we didn't consider when we were coming over, because we didn't have Maeve then, was child care. Our nanny, Ruby, is sensational. She's been with us since Maeve was born. In Canada the cost of a nanny would probably have meant putting her in day care. We have cleared a lot of debt since we've been here. And part of that is down to having a very clear plan about what we want to accomplish.
We have things set up so that 25 per cent of my salary just flies back to Canada to help pay off the last bit of student debt. The money is also part of our plan to pay off the mortgage on our investment property in Canada. We rent it out, so that takes care of the mortgage.
The things that are important to us now are the same things that were important on our wedding day: family, home, and education. When we were setting up home here we got a bunch of stuff off of Dubizzle.com, the Dubai online marketplace. We even bought stuff for our daughter, such as a playhouse for Dh500; a new one would cost us Dh2,600. We don't drive fancy cars, and we don't wear designer clothes, unless Gap is considered designer. Our focus is our home and our child.
In some ways, my husband and I have different philosophies when it comes to money. Dan understands and follows equities more than I do. And I tend to prefer investments that I can see. I want to buy a house.
We just made another major payment on our daughter's education - US$23,000 (Dh84,483) at the American School of Dubai. The payment guarantees a place at the school for one child for 20 years.
It's a lot of money, but we can't stay in the UAE unless we are assured that our daughter will have an education we are comfrotable with.
We'll finish paying the thing to hold her spot next year, and that will give us a bit more breathing space so we can start putting money towards her post-secondary education, if she wants one. Or it could help her start a business someday. Whatever she wants to do.
* As told to Angela Shah
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It's up to you to go green
Nils El Accad, chief executive and owner of Organic Foods and Café, says going green is about “lifestyle and attitude” rather than a “money change”; people need to plan ahead to fill water bottles in advance and take their own bags to the supermarket, he says.
“People always want someone else to do the work; it doesn’t work like that,” he adds. “The first step: you have to consciously make that decision and change.”
When he gets a takeaway, says Mr El Accad, he takes his own glass jars instead of accepting disposable aluminium containers, paper napkins and plastic tubs, cutlery and bags from restaurants.
He also plants his own crops and herbs at home and at the Sheikh Zayed store, from basil and rosemary to beans, squashes and papayas. “If you’re going to water anything, better it be tomatoes and cucumbers, something edible, than grass,” he says.
“All this throwaway plastic - cups, bottles, forks - has to go first,” says Mr El Accad, who has banned all disposable straws, whether plastic or even paper, from the café chain.
One of the latest changes he has implemented at his stores is to offer refills of liquid laundry detergent, to save plastic. The two brands Organic Foods stocks, Organic Larder and Sonnett, are both “triple-certified - you could eat the product”.
The Organic Larder detergent will soon be delivered in 200-litre metal oil drums before being decanted into 20-litre containers in-store.
Customers can refill their bottles at least 30 times before they start to degrade, he says. Organic Larder costs Dh35.75 for one litre and Dh62 for 2.75 litres and refills will cost 15 to 20 per cent less, Mr El Accad says.
But while there are savings to be had, going green tends to come with upfront costs and extra work and planning. Are we ready to refill bottles rather than throw them away? “You have to change,” says Mr El Accad. “I can only make it available.”
Five hymns the crowds can join in
Papal Mass will begin at 10.30am at the Zayed Sports City Stadium on Tuesday
Some 17 hymns will be sung by a 120-strong UAE choir
Five hymns will be rehearsed with crowds on Tuesday morning before the Pope arrives at stadium
‘Christ be our Light’ as the entrance song
‘All that I am’ for the offertory or during the symbolic offering of gifts at the altar
‘Make me a Channel of your Peace’ and ‘Soul of my Saviour’ for the communion
‘Tell out my Soul’ as the final hymn after the blessings from the Pope
The choir will also sing the hymn ‘Legions of Heaven’ in Arabic as ‘Assakiroo Sama’
There are 15 Arabic speakers from Syria, Lebanon and Jordan in the choir that comprises residents from the Philippines, India, France, Italy, America, Netherlands, Armenia and Indonesia
The choir will be accompanied by a brass ensemble and an organ
They will practice for the first time at the stadium on the eve of the public mass on Monday evening
Abu Dhabi Grand Slam Jiu-Jitsu World Tour Calendar 2018/19
July 29: OTA Gymnasium in Tokyo, Japan
Sep 22-23: LA Convention Centre in Los Angeles, US
Nov 16-18: Carioca Arena Centre in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil
Feb 7-9: Mubadala Arena in Abu Dhabi, UAE
Mar 9-10: Copper Box Arena in London, UK
Grand Slam Los Angeles results
Men:
56kg – Jorge Nakamura
62kg – Joao Gabriel de Sousa
69kg – Gianni Grippo
77kg – Caio Soares
85kg – Manuel Ribamar
94kg – Gustavo Batista
110kg – Erberth Santos
Women:
49kg – Mayssa Bastos
55kg – Nathalie Ribeiro
62kg – Gabrielle McComb
70kg – Thamara Silva
90kg – Gabrieli Pessanha
Brief scoreline:
Manchester United 2
Rashford 28', Martial 72'
Watford 1
Doucoure 90'
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Favourite Quote: “Real victories are those that protect human life, not those that result from its destruction emerge from its ashes,” by The late king Hussain of Jordan.
Favourite Hobby: Writing and cooking
Favourite Book: The Prophet by Gibran Khalil Gibran
MATCH INFO
Day 2 at Mount Maunganui
England 353
Stokes 91, Denly 74, Southee 4-88
New Zealand 144-4
Williamson 51, S Curran 2-28
RESULTS - ELITE MEN
1. Henri Schoeman (RSA) 57:03
2. Mario Mola (ESP) 57:09
3. Vincent Luis (FRA) 57:25
4. Leo Bergere (FRA)57:34
5. Jacob Birtwhistle (AUS) 57:40
6. Joao Silva (POR) 57:45
7. Jonathan Brownlee (GBR) 57:56
8. Adrien Briffod (SUI) 57:57
9. Gustav Iden (NOR) 57:58
10. Richard Murray (RSA) 57:59
Who's who in Yemen conflict
Houthis: Iran-backed rebels who occupy Sanaa and run unrecognised government
Yemeni government: Exiled government in Aden led by eight-member Presidential Leadership Council
Southern Transitional Council: Faction in Yemeni government that seeks autonomy for the south
Habrish 'rebels': Tribal-backed forces feuding with STC over control of oil in government territory
The Lost Letters of William Woolf
Helen Cullen, Graydon House
The details
Heard It in a Past Life
Maggie Rogers
(Capital Records)
3/5
RESULT
Shabab Al Ahli Dubai 0 Al Ain 6
Al Ain: Caio (5', 73'), El Shahat (10'), Berg (65'), Khalil (83'), Al Ahbabi (90' 2)
UAE currency: the story behind the money in your pockets
Surianah's top five jazz artists
Billie Holliday: for the burn and also the way she told stories.
Thelonius Monk: for his earnestness.
Duke Ellington: for his edge and spirituality.
Louis Armstrong: his legacy is undeniable. He is considered as one of the most revolutionary and influential musicians.
Terence Blanchard: very political - a lot of jazz musicians are making protest music right now.
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Polarised public
31% in UK say BBC is biased to left-wing views
19% in UK say BBC is biased to right-wing views
19% in UK say BBC is not biased at all
Source: YouGov
Results:
6.30pm: Handicap (Turf) | US$175,000 2,410m | Winner: Bin Battuta, Christophe Soumillon (jockey), Saeed bin Suroor (trainer)
7.05pm: UAE 1000 Guineas Trial Conditions (Dirt) | $100,000 | 1,400m | Winner: Al Hayette, Fabrice Veron, Ismail Mohammed
7.40pm: Handicap (T) | $145,000 | 1,000m | Winner: Faatinah, Jim Crowley, David Hayes
8.15pm: Dubawi Stakes Group 3 (D) | $200,000 | 1,200m | Winner: Raven’s Corner, Richard Mullen, Satish Seemar
8.50pm: Singspiel Stakes Group 3 (T) | $200,000 | 1,800m | Winner: Dream Castle, Christophe Soumillon, Saeed bin Suroor
9.25pm: Handicap (T) | $175,000 | 1,400m | Winner: Another Batt, Connor Beasley, George Scott
Muslim Council of Elders condemns terrorism on religious sites
The Muslim Council of Elders has strongly condemned the criminal attacks on religious sites in Britain.
It firmly rejected “acts of terrorism, which constitute a flagrant violation of the sanctity of houses of worship”.
“Attacking places of worship is a form of terrorism and extremism that threatens peace and stability within societies,” it said.
The council also warned against the rise of hate speech, racism, extremism and Islamophobia. It urged the international community to join efforts to promote tolerance and peaceful coexistence.
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Dubai Bling season three
Cast: Loujain Adada, Zeina Khoury, Farhana Bodi, Ebraheem Al Samadi, Mona Kattan, and couples Safa & Fahad Siddiqui and DJ Bliss & Danya Mohammed
Rating: 1/5
RESULTS
6.30pm: Al Maktoum Challenge Round-1 Group 1 (PA) Dh119,373 (Dirt) 1,600m
Winner: Brraq, Adrie de Vries (jockey), Jean-Claude Pecout (trainer)
7.05pm: Handicap (TB) Dh102,500 (D) 1,200m
Winner: Taamol, Connor Beasley, Ali Rashid Al Raihe.
7.40pm: Handicap (TB) Dh105,000 (Turf) 1,800m
Winner: Eqtiraan, Connor Beasley, Ali Rashid Al Raihe.
8.15pm: UAE 1000 Guineas Trial (TB) Dh183,650 (D) 1,400m
Winner: Soft Whisper, Pat Cosgrave, Saeed bin Suroor.
9.50pm: Handicap (TB) Dh105,000 (D) 1,600m
Winner: Hypothetical, Mickael Barzalona, Salem bin Ghadayer.
9.25pm: Handicap (TB) Dh95,000 (T) 1,000m
Winner: Etisalat, Sando Paiva, Ali Rashid Al Raihe
The Sand Castle
Director: Matty Brown
Stars: Nadine Labaki, Ziad Bakri, Zain Al Rafeea, Riman Al Rafeea
Rating: 2.5/5
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PREMIER LEAGUE STATS
Romelu Lukaku's goalscoring statistics in the Premier League
Season/club/appearances (substitute)/goals
2011/12 Chelsea: 8(7) - 0
2012/13 West Brom (loan): 35(15) - 17
2013/14 Chelsea: 2(2) - 0
2013/14 Everton (loan): 31(2) - 15
2014/15 Everton: 36(4) - 10
2015/16 Everton: 37(1) - 18
2016/17 Everton: 37(1) - 25
Mercedes-AMG GT 63 S E Performance: the specs
Engine: 4.0-litre twin-turbo V8 plus rear-mounted electric motor
Power: 843hp at N/A rpm
Torque: 1470Nm N/A rpm
Transmission: 9-speed auto
Fuel consumption: 8.6L/100km
On sale: October to December
Price: From Dh875,000 (estimate)
Who was Alfred Nobel?
The Nobel Prize was created by wealthy Swedish chemist and entrepreneur Alfred Nobel.
- In his will he dictated that the bulk of his estate should be used to fund "prizes to those who, during the preceding year, have conferred the greatest benefit to humankind".
- Nobel is best known as the inventor of dynamite, but also wrote poetry and drama and could speak Russian, French, English and German by the age of 17. The five original prize categories reflect the interests closest to his heart.
- Nobel died in 1896 but it took until 1901, following a legal battle over his will, before the first prizes were awarded.
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