I could not wait for the weekend to start, but a friend asked to meet in her office, just as I was about to head home.
She was telling me how she could not wait to retire, and how she drags herself to work every day. My friend is barely 40 years old, but had already given up on her career.
On her digital calendar, she made a countdown of how many more days she has to work before she can retire "forever". Whatever was happening at her organisation has clearly made her fall into some sort of depression and I had to know why.
She was complaining about how neither she nor her colleagues found their work meaningful anymore, how they felt that the management was too focused on increasing profit, and no one valued their input or communicated with them on the company's mission.
"They don't value us enough to inform us and tell us about the company's goals, change of our mission statement. We have to hear it from our friends in their majlis outside. So why should we care to put our efforts into something when they don't appreciate us?"
My friend sensed my dismay, and so she grabbed my hand and took me over to her colleagues to hear that she was not the only one.
"See Ahmed over there," she told me, as she pointed to an Emirati man in his late 30s.
"He used to be so enthusiastic about work when he joined 10 years ago, travelling to conduct meetings with clients, and bringing great business. But when our company changed its mission and scope of work a while back, he found himself with little to do. The focus of the work and ideas are now decided within a small group of western experts, eliminating the rest of us. We feel lost. "They can't fire us because we're Emiratis, and so we kept waiting for something to do, and the days turned to months, and now we have lost our enthusiasm and drive."
I asked her why they did not leave and apply to other organisations. She chuckled and said that this organisation is their first home, and that doing nothing for a while made them used to not having so much to do. And besides, they will be able to retire soon, so why bother?
It is sad to walk through life and experience work as a dreadful place to go to, let alone the financial weight it puts on organisations.
Sadly, this case is not limited to the organisation where my friend works.
An Employee Engagement Report by BlessingWhite, a global consultancy firm, found that only 31 per cent of individuals in North America, Europe, South-East Asia, Australia/New Zealand and China were engaged in their work.
But why is finding meaningful experience at work important?
Because when employees find meaning in their work, that their input is valued, they feel a sense of ownership. Their work and their progress means something personal to them.
When people take ownership of their work, they become more motivated, more committed, and that eventually results in a better performance for the organisation as a whole.
Unfortunately, not all companies try to make work meaningful for their employees, especially financial organisations that focus on increasing profit at tough times.
Some managers believe that paying people at the end of every month is a reason enough for them to perform and put their hearts into their work. But this kind of motivation only goes so far.
Managers need to realise the importance of communication with their staff, how it is just as important to focus on the satisfaction of their employees as they are in ensuring profit and the company's progress.
The Starbucks coffee chain's corporate mission statement highlights how much people and their input are valued:
"Our mission: to inspire and nurture the human spirit - one person, one cup, and one neighbourhood at a time."
Maybe every organisation should have an element of Starbucks in its mission statement.
Manar Al Hinai is an award-winning Emirati fashion designer and writer based in Abu Dhabi
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The specs: 2018 Nissan 370Z Nismo
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BOSH!'s pantry essentials
Nutritional yeast
This is Firth's pick and an ingredient he says, "gives you an instant cheesy flavour". He advises making your own cream cheese with it or simply using it to whip up a mac and cheese or wholesome lasagne. It's available in organic and specialist grocery stores across the UAE.
Seeds
"We've got a big jar of mixed seeds in our kitchen," Theasby explains. "That's what you use to make a bolognese or pie or salad: just grab a handful of seeds and sprinkle them over the top. It's a really good way to make sure you're getting your omegas."
Umami flavours
"I could say soya sauce, but I'll say all umami-makers and have them in the same batch," says Firth. He suggests having items such as Marmite, balsamic vinegar and other general, dark, umami-tasting products in your cupboard "to make your bolognese a little bit more 'umptious'".
Onions and garlic
"If you've got them, you can cook basically anything from that base," says Theasby. "These ingredients are so prevalent in every world cuisine and if you've got them in your cupboard, then you know you've got the foundation of a really nice meal."
Your grain of choice
Whether rice, quinoa, pasta or buckwheat, Firth advises always having a stock of your favourite grains in the cupboard. "That you, you have an instant meal and all you have to do is just chuck a bit of veg in."
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Hidden killer
Sepsis arises when the body tries to fight an infection but damages its own tissue and organs in the process.
The World Health Organisation estimates it affects about 30 million people each year and that about six million die.
Of those about three million are newborns and 1.2 are young children.
Patients with septic shock must often have limbs amputated if clots in their limbs prevent blood flow, causing the limbs to die.
Campaigners say the condition is often diagnosed far too late by medical professionals and that many patients wait too long to seek treatment, confusing the symptoms with flu.
Key facilities
- Olympic-size swimming pool with a split bulkhead for multi-use configurations, including water polo and 50m/25m training lanes
- Premier League-standard football pitch
- 400m Olympic running track
- NBA-spec basketball court with auditorium
- 600-seat auditorium
- Spaces for historical and cultural exploration
- An elevated football field that doubles as a helipad
- Specialist robotics and science laboratories
- AR and VR-enabled learning centres
- Disruption Lab and Research Centre for developing entrepreneurial skills
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Sole survivors
- Cecelia Crocker was on board Northwest Airlines Flight 255 in 1987 when it crashed in Detroit, killing 154 people, including her parents and brother. The plane had hit a light pole on take off
- George Lamson Jr, from Minnesota, was on a Galaxy Airlines flight that crashed in Reno in 1985, killing 68 people. His entire seat was launched out of the plane
- Bahia Bakari, then 12, survived when a Yemenia Airways flight crashed near the Comoros in 2009, killing 152. She was found clinging to wreckage after floating in the ocean for 13 hours.
- Jim Polehinke was the co-pilot and sole survivor of a 2006 Comair flight that crashed in Lexington, Kentucky, killing 49.
Favourite things
Luxury: Enjoys window shopping for high-end bags and jewellery
Discount: She works in luxury retail, but is careful about spending, waits for sales, festivals and only buys on discount
University: The only person in her family to go to college, Jiang secured a bachelor’s degree in business management in China
Masters: Studying part-time for a master’s degree in international business marketing in Dubai
Vacation: Heads back home to see family in China
Community work: Member of the Chinese Business Women’s Association of the UAE to encourage other women entrepreneurs