"Prince Charming does exist," declared Lucy, as she swung her handbag onto the back of the chair. Abby looked up, unbelievingly.
"Really," she asked, clearly sceptical. The girls were meeting for an early Friday breakfast. The temperature was slowly climbing; summer was just around the corner, and Lucy was on cloud nine because her good friend and personal assistant, Jennifer, was getting married - for the second time. Lucy raised one eyebrow and looked directly at Abby. "See, some people do find the courage to love again, even after a broken heart."
"Well, I hope she is smarter this time," Abby said, gruffly. "Her last husband left her without a dime and she moved here to remake hay while the sun shines. But this time she can't afford to lose it all."
Wealth diva SMS
A lot of people see Dubai as a new beginning after a messy break-up and often end up meeting a new love from another country. Regardless of your nationality or that of your partner, you have to consider your financial plan together carefully. If he's the real deal, he won't mind having a conversation about marriage and money.
Plan together, stay together
"The truth is that, today, many women don't want to talk about money before they get married and many others still don't understand their household's finances when they are married," Abby said.
"I know, I know - money and marriage must be discussed," nodded Lucy, "so what advice should I give Jennifer?"
"Well, there are certain things she must consider," Abby said.
Teamwork
The girls' meals arrived and they all began to eat. "I'll talk to her and make sure she's smarter this time," said Lucy, grateful for Abby's advice.
"So, Sasha, how do you do it?" she asked, turning to her friend. "It seems like you've only just met Frank - whom I adore by the way - yet you've gone from big wage-earner to stay-at-home mum in the blink of an eye. How does that make you feel?"
Sasha laughed and put down her knife and fork. "Motherhood is so much harder than full-time work and it pays a lot less," she said. "But honestly, there's nothing more rewarding.
"And Frank has been really supportive. We've started keeping budgets and we've refocused our mindset to live within our means."
"That's what I call good teamwork," said Lucy. "Let's hope Jennifer's Prince Charming is also a team player."
The four points
Many couples need to identify where they sit in relation to their money matters. To achieve true equality in a partnership, both individuals must have knowledge of, and involvement in, their partner's assets and debts. If you're not actively participating in the financial side of your marriage, follow these tips to get you on the right track.
Talk money
If your partner has always handled financial matters, it may seem difficult to suggest that you become more involved. The first step is to initiate a conversation with your spouse about your desire to learn more about your household's assets and debts and to be more actively involved in making decisions. Choose a time and place without high levels of stress or too many distractions to have this discussion.
Bring it up in a positive way, rather than in a tone that might sound complaining or accusing.
Keep up to date
It's never enjoyable to think about a bad occurrence involving the people you love. Yet you must be responsible and realise that if your partner was no longer able to hold the position of the primary moneymaker, the task would fall to you. Make sure you're familiar with and have access to all financial records and documentation. Know how to access everything quickly, from account numbers to mortgage documents to investment information.
Get involved
Look for ways to become more integrated in your marriage's finances.
Whether it's creating and maintaining the filing system for your financial paperwork or paying the bills, sharing responsibility can be rewarding and make your partnership more balanced and fulfilling.
Stay independent
There can't be a strong "we" without a strong "me". While marriage is a partnership, you should still maintain your own financial standing. We recommend that each partner has a checking account and credit cards in his or her own name so that both can build good credit and avoid any major challenges to access money with local laws.
Janelle Malone is a writer, blogger and commentator on personal finance. You can contact her at www.womenmoneyandstyle.com
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Name: HyveGeo
Started: 2023
Founders: Abdulaziz bin Redha, Dr Samsurin Welch, Eva Morales and Dr Harjit Singh
Based: Cambridge and Dubai
Number of employees: 8
Industry: Sustainability & Environment
Funding: $200,000 plus undisclosed grant
Investors: Venture capital and government
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Rating:+2.5/5
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Director: Berkun Oya
Starring: Aslihan Gürbüz, Fatih Artman, Cihat Suvarioglu
Rating: 4/5
A Cat, A Man, and Two Women
Junichiro Tamizaki
Translated by Paul McCarthy
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Company name: Klipit
Started: 2022
Founders: Venkat Reddy, Mohammed Al Bulooki, Bilal Merchant, Asif Ahmed, Ovais Merchant
Based: Dubai, UAE
Industry: Digital receipts, finance, blockchain
Funding: $4 million
Investors: Privately/self-funded
PROFILE OF SWVL
Started: April 2017
Founders: Mostafa Kandil, Ahmed Sabbah and Mahmoud Nouh
Based: Cairo, Egypt
Sector: transport
Size: 450+ employees
Investment: approximately $80 million
Investors include: Dubai’s Beco Capital, US’s Endeavor Catalyst, China’s MSA, Egypt’s Sawari Ventures, Sweden’s Vostok New Ventures, Property Finder CEO Michael Lahyani
The specs: 2018 Maxus T60
Price, base / as tested: Dh48,000
Engine: 2.4-litre four-cylinder
Power: 136hp @ 1,600rpm
Torque: 360Nm @ 1,600 rpm
Transmission: Five-speed manual
Fuel consumption, combined: 9.1L / 100km
Results:
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Winner: Goshawke, Fernando Jara (jockey), Ali Rashid Al Raihe (trainer)
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Winner: Silva, Oisin Murphy, Pia Brendt
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Winner: Drafted, Pat Dobbs, Doug Watson
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Winner: Capezzano, Mickael Barzalona, Sandeep Jadhav
9.25pm: Handicap (TB) | $175,000 (T) | 2,000m
Winner: Oasis Charm, William Buick, Charlie Appleby
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Winner: Escalator, Christopher Hayes, Charlie Fellowes
Age 26
Born May 17, 1991
Height 1.80 metres
Birthplace Sydney, Australia
Residence Eastbourne, England
Plays Right-handed
WTA titles 3
Prize money US$5,761,870 (Dh21,162,343.75)
Wins / losses 312 / 181
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Company Profile
Company name: Hoopla
Date started: March 2023
Founder: Jacqueline Perrottet
Based: Dubai
Number of staff: 10
Investment stage: Pre-seed
Investment required: $500,000
About RuPay
A homegrown card payment scheme launched by the National Payments Corporation of India and backed by the Reserve Bank of India, the country’s central bank
RuPay process payments between banks and merchants for purchases made with credit or debit cards
It has grown rapidly in India and competes with global payment network firms like MasterCard and Visa.
In India, it can be used at ATMs, for online payments and variations of the card can be used to pay for bus, metro charges, road toll payments
The name blends two words rupee and payment
Some advantages of the network include lower processing fees and transaction costs
The specs
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Power: 201hp
Torque: 310Nm
Transmission: Single-speed auto
Battery: 53kWh lithium-ion battery pack (GS base model); 70kWh battery pack (GF)
Touring range: 350km (GS); 480km (GF)
Price: From Dh129,900 (GS); Dh149,000 (GF)
On sale: Now
Specs: 2024 McLaren Artura Spider
Engine: 3.0-litre twin-turbo V6 and electric motor
Max power: 700hp at 7,500rpm
Max torque: 720Nm at 2,250rpm
Transmission: Eight-speed dual-clutch auto
0-100km/h: 3.0sec
Top speed: 330kph
Price: From Dh1.14 million ($311,000)
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Company: Eco Way
Started: December 2023
Founder: Ivan Kroshnyi
Based: Dubai, UAE
Industry: Electric vehicles
Investors: Bootstrapped with undisclosed funding. Looking to raise funds from outside
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Director: Inas Halabi
Starring: Nijmeh Hamdan, Kamal Kayouf, Sheikh Najib Alou
Rating: 4/5
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COMPANY PROFILE
Company name: Revibe
Started: 2022
Founders: Hamza Iraqui and Abdessamad Ben Zakour
Based: UAE
Industry: Refurbished electronics
Funds raised so far: $10m
Investors: Flat6Labs, Resonance and various others
UAE - India ties
The UAE is India’s third-largest trade partner after the US and China
Annual bilateral trade between India and the UAE has crossed US$ 60 billion
The UAE is the fourth-largest exporter of crude oil for India
Indians comprise the largest community with 3.3 million residents in the UAE
Indian Prime Minister Narendra Modi first visited the UAE in August 2015
His visit on August 23-24 will be the third in four years
Sheikh Mohamed bin Zayed, Crown Prince of Abu Dhabi and Deputy Supreme Commander of the Armed Forces, visited India in February 2016
Sheikh Mohamed was the chief guest at India’s Republic Day celebrations in January 2017
Modi will visit Bahrain on August 24-25
Other simple ideas for sushi rice dishes
Cheat’s nigiri
This is easier to make than sushi rolls. With damp hands, form the cooled rice into small tablet shapes. Place slices of fresh, raw salmon, mackerel or trout (or smoked salmon) lightly touched with wasabi, then press, wasabi side-down, onto the rice. Serve with soy sauce and pickled ginger.
Easy omurice
This fusion dish combines Asian fried rice with a western omelette. To make, fry cooked and cooled sushi rice with chopped vegetables such as carrot and onion and lashings of sweet-tangy ketchup, then wrap in a soft egg omelette.
Deconstructed sushi salad platter
This makes a great, fuss-free sharing meal. Arrange sushi rice on a platter or board, then fill the space with all your favourite sushi ingredients (edamame beans, cooked prawns or tuna, tempura veggies, pickled ginger and chilli tofu), with a dressing or dipping sauce on the side.
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