One of the more-daring Arabic novels of recent times is 2015's The Bride of Amman by Jordanian writer Fadi Zaghmout. Revolving around the lives of four women and one man, the novel discusses the strict gender roles followed by a Jordanian society governed by strong tradition and taboos. Speaking before his in-conversation session as part of the Literathaus at Nadi literary salon series at Dubai's Al Serkal Avenue on Saturday, Zaghmout talks about his move from blogger to best-selling novelist.
The Bride of Amman became a bestseller in Jordan before gaining popularity across the Arab world. What do you put the reaction down to?
It talks about a struggle I think everyone in that society can relate to. In Jordan, I would say there is a big obsession with marriage and strict gender roles. Then there is the pressure on women who are told to get married before the age of 30. I think it is a way for society to regulate sexuality. The problem is that they overdo it to such an extent that it strangles everyone.
Before The Bride of Amman, you cultivated a following on your current-affairs blog, The Arab Observer. Was there a link between the blog and the novel?
Yes, in that the idea for the novel mostly came from there. I started the blog around 2006 and I began writing about issues such as gender equality and the struggles of Arab women then. I discussed these themes in short stories and screenplays. They helped me get the story and its structure in my head before I began writing the book. The idea to then move towards a book came from myself wanting to reach an even wider audience. I also felt that not many books from Jordan discussed these issues, so this was a good chance to do that.
Did the move from blog to novel require a change in writing style?
Not really. I think that is because it was my first novel, so I wasn’t very critical of myself. I just wrote it from my heart because these were issues I wanted to address. People criticise me today for my writing style in that book. They said the Arabic I used was too simple. But I think that’s what made the book reach so many people. I guess some people are used to a heavier Arabic language.
The English translation of the novel two years ago meant you were able to discuss your work with an international audience. How was that experience?
It has been really interesting. I travelled to London and did book signings in several English cities. It was actually much easier than when I was discussing the book in Jordan, because I was criticising our society. But in the UK, I was talking negatively about my society and that made me feel bad.
As a Jordanian, did you feel that you had to present a good image of your country?
It was more to do with the fact that the book was meant to be for a Jordanian and Arab audience. I wanted to critique and issue a wake-up call to us. But to talk to foreigners about it felt weird. But it was helpful for them also. Some people in those sessions in London said it was helpful to hear me because that was how their society was 50 or 60 years ago. They said it was helpful for them to remember in order to protect their society’s gender equality.
There are plenty of female Arab writers whose feminism plays an important role in their work. Do you feel the acclaim for The Bride of Amman comes down to the fact you are a man advocating feminism?
Maybe so. But as far as I am concerned, feminism and female equality is as important to men as for women. For example, Jordan also has honour killings and men are pushed by society to do them. We create murderers out of men because of the heavy cultures that we as society have. So we need to educate ourselves about how that happens.
How did you become more aware of gender roles in Jordanian society?
I think it was a mixture of having a liberal education and at the same time growing up with a sister one year younger than me. But you know, there is a time when you grow up and you realise that society is pushing to take action in certain things when it comes to women.
When did you you realise that?
I remember as teenager, I confronted my sister and told her that her shirt was too revealing. At that time, I felt like I had to protect her freedom and choose and control what she should wear. She told me to back off.
Fadi Zaghmout performs at Literaturhaus at Nadi from 4pm on Saturday. Email rsvp@alserkalavenue.ae for bookings
The biog
Age: 59
From: Giza Governorate, Egypt
Family: A daughter, two sons and wife
Favourite tree: Ghaf
Runner up favourite tree: Frankincense
Favourite place on Sir Bani Yas Island: “I love all of Sir Bani Yas. Every spot of Sir Bani Yas, I love it.”
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The language of diplomacy in 1853
Treaty of Peace in Perpetuity Agreed Upon by the Chiefs of the Arabian Coast on Behalf of Themselves, Their Heirs and Successors Under the Mediation of the Resident of the Persian Gulf, 1853
(This treaty gave the region the name “Trucial States”.)
We, whose seals are hereunto affixed, Sheikh Sultan bin Suggar, Chief of Rassool-Kheimah, Sheikh Saeed bin Tahnoon, Chief of Aboo Dhebbee, Sheikh Saeed bin Buyte, Chief of Debay, Sheikh Hamid bin Rashed, Chief of Ejman, Sheikh Abdoola bin Rashed, Chief of Umm-ool-Keiweyn, having experienced for a series of years the benefits and advantages resulting from a maritime truce contracted amongst ourselves under the mediation of the Resident in the Persian Gulf and renewed from time to time up to the present period, and being fully impressed, therefore, with a sense of evil consequence formerly arising, from the prosecution of our feuds at sea, whereby our subjects and dependants were prevented from carrying on the pearl fishery in security, and were exposed to interruption and molestation when passing on their lawful occasions, accordingly, we, as aforesaid have determined, for ourselves, our heirs and successors, to conclude together a lasting and inviolable peace from this time forth in perpetuity.
Taken from Britain and Saudi Arabia, 1925-1939: the Imperial Oasis, by Clive Leatherdale
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UAE currency: the story behind the money in your pockets
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Born: Kuwait in 1986
Family: She is the youngest of seven siblings
Time in the UAE: 10 years
Hobbies: audiobooks and fitness: she works out every day, enjoying kickboxing and basketball
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- Cecelia Crocker was on board Northwest Airlines Flight 255 in 1987 when it crashed in Detroit, killing 154 people, including her parents and brother. The plane had hit a light pole on take off
- George Lamson Jr, from Minnesota, was on a Galaxy Airlines flight that crashed in Reno in 1985, killing 68 people. His entire seat was launched out of the plane
- Bahia Bakari, then 12, survived when a Yemenia Airways flight crashed near the Comoros in 2009, killing 152. She was found clinging to wreckage after floating in the ocean for 13 hours.
- Jim Polehinke was the co-pilot and sole survivor of a 2006 Comair flight that crashed in Lexington, Kentucky, killing 49.
What are the GCSE grade equivalents?
- Grade 9 = above an A*
- Grade 8 = between grades A* and A
- Grade 7 = grade A
- Grade 6 = just above a grade B
- Grade 5 = between grades B and C
- Grade 4 = grade C
- Grade 3 = between grades D and E
- Grade 2 = between grades E and F
- Grade 1 = between grades F and G
School counsellors on mental well-being
Schools counsellors in Abu Dhabi have put a number of provisions in place to help support pupils returning to the classroom next week.
Many children will resume in-person lessons for the first time in 10 months and parents previously raised concerns about the long-term effects of distance learning.
Schools leaders and counsellors said extra support will be offered to anyone that needs it. Additionally, heads of years will be on hand to offer advice or coping mechanisms to ease any concerns.
“Anxiety this time round has really spiralled, more so than from the first lockdown at the beginning of the pandemic,” said Priya Mitchell, counsellor at The British School Al Khubairat in Abu Dhabi.
“Some have got used to being at home don’t want to go back, while others are desperate to get back.
“We have seen an increase in depressive symptoms, especially with older pupils, and self-harm is starting younger.
“It is worrying and has taught us how important it is that we prioritise mental well-being.”
Ms Mitchell said she was liaising more with heads of year so they can support and offer advice to pupils if the demand is there.
The school will also carry out mental well-being checks so they can pick up on any behavioural patterns and put interventions in place to help pupils.
At Raha International School, the well-being team has provided parents with assessment surveys to see how they can support students at home to transition back to school.
“They have created a Well-being Resource Bank that parents have access to on information on various domains of mental health for students and families,” a team member said.
“Our pastoral team have been working with students to help ease the transition and reduce anxiety that [pupils] may experience after some have been nearly a year off campus.
"Special secondary tutorial classes have also focused on preparing students for their return; going over new guidelines, expectations and daily schedules.”
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